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 Dec 13 2006, 11:49 PM
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i used to have one small group of friends mainly my friends "jenny" and "casey"
well later on jenny and casey started fighting and jenny started hanging out with one clique while casey started hanging out with another. i was sort of stuck in the middle. Casey's group is more like wild and crazy, and always getting in trouble, and jenny's group is like reallly good and staright A's and never in trouble or anything. Usually I try to hang out with both but sometimes it's hard and when i don't hang out with one enough, they're like hey where've you been what you're not good enough for us anymore? ok fine just go hang out with their group. and both groups hate eachother, so they're always talking about eachother, but casey and jenny are still both like really really good friends of mine. I hate being stuck in the middle. idk what to do so any advice? |
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Dec 13 2006, 11:52 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Cliques are stupid. Period.
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Dec 13 2006, 11:55 PM
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^ i agree with tina.
meh just try to get them together and work things out. |
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Dec 13 2006, 11:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
Maybe you could hang out with other people.
Just stop hanging out with both of them. It'll lead to something and you'll eventually have to choose one. So find new friends & still like, keep in touch with them and have your own private time with them. Or yeah, you guys should talk. Figure everything out. |
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Dec 14 2006, 12:47 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
find other ppl to hang out with
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Dec 14 2006, 12:53 AM
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1TRIPZ FUCC UP Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,242 |
" Stick your hand into every cookie jar"
I do it! |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Dec 14 2006, 01:21 AM
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i guess you could stilll be friends with them but find some other friends so you wont feel like your in the middle.
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| *suddenly she* |
Dec 14 2006, 09:50 PM
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"and both groups hate eachother, so they're always talking about eachother"
sounds a bit spiteful and pointless. it should just be a "we don't like each other, let's leave it at that" deal. why even be friends with people so dumb? |
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Dec 17 2006, 12:01 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
How about, you tell them to meet at a same place. Talk about your problems. Broke out. Cry it out. Sniffles.
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Dec 17 2006, 08:53 AM
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 Name: Keisha :] Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 457,727 |
Make new friends.
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Dec 17 2006, 04:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
you can have more than one clique. nothing wrong with that.
unless your friends are just being lame about it in general. then you just gotta make some new friends. |
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Dec 17 2006, 05:04 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
i had two cliques the partyers and the good grade clique i left to join the good grade clique =/. at least i know i will live longer! Neways i hang out with both but only the smart kids at school and the partyers on weekends its pretty good but im a guy>.>
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Dec 19 2006, 08:17 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
for real. i hang out with the "rockers" and the "gangsters" who happen to hate eachother. but no one cares because i`m cool anyway. idk. you shouldn`t have to choose.
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Dec 20 2006, 12:34 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
ick.
cliques.. you don't HAVE to hang out with them at school. hang each of them on weekends, phone calls, shopping, whatever. and for school, find another clique to hang out with. probably one that doesn't 'hate' anybody or talks shit about them... |
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Dec 22 2006, 02:11 PM
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 im the monster, hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,612 |
WHOW this happened to me in 7th grade...well the best thing to do is to just make sure that you dont get yourself involved with their drama...cos if u say anything to one about the other like "shes a bitch..." then you go to the other and talk about her...then your only causing problems for yourself... yeah so what you kan do is just tell each girl ... "listen you both are my friends and i hang with you both..and your gunna have to deal." if they dont and start treating you mean...then skrew them they werent true friends anyways....=)
hope i helped.. |
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| *kryogenix* |
Dec 22 2006, 03:05 PM
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Find a boxed canyon. Have one clique line up on one side, have the other clique on the other side. Have them charge into the valley and fight to the death. The survivors are your new friends.
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