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 Jun 4 2004, 01:36 PM
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Ok, I am so in love with this boy named Dustin B. and I have had a crush on him since the last week of 5th grade (which was last yr.). Ever since he has become very popular and my eniemes and friends are going out with him, I feel more for him than be4. I'm not sure if he even notices me. So I need advice. !i!i!i!i I won't respond unless I feel I have to, usually I just read !i!i!i!i
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Jun 4 2004, 01:40 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
u really cant do anything cuz he has a g.F. i'd still hope that they'd break-up so i could have him, but most likely i'd just forget about it. i dont wanna like get my hopes up just to get crushed in the end.
 jackie
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Jun 4 2004, 01:44 PM
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That seems reasonable...but I LOVE him....I can hear my heart cracking apart already
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Jun 4 2004, 01:55 PM
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 *aSh* =] Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
and your in 6th grade?? i didnt even know what love was in 6th grade
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Jun 4 2004, 02:00 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,895 |
yea...its extreme
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Jun 4 2004, 02:03 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
well if he has a gf... i would forget it.. and you said he doesnt even notice you!! it would be different if he did... well i wouldnt do anything about.. lets juss say i would crush from a far...
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Jun 4 2004, 02:07 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i don't think its actually LOVE that is occurring here.
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Jun 4 2004, 02:10 PM
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princess randi Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,911 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 4 2004, 3:07 PM) i don't think its actually LOVE that is occurring here. it sound like lust to me |
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Jun 4 2004, 02:17 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,895 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 4 2004, 2:07 PM) i don't think its actually LOVE that is occurring here. prolly is...but u have no idea |
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Jun 4 2004, 02:30 PM
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 >>LILY<< Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,632 |
"Wait till they're over, then ask him out"
Give him some time though if he was the dumpee that got dumped. He might still like her....First become friends with him, and when he starts to like you back, either wait for him to ask you out, or if he takes to long, ask him out! lol. |
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Jun 4 2004, 03:20 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,895 |
QUOTE(perdyperdybirdy @ Jun 4 2004, 2:30 PM) "Wait till they're over, then ask him out" Give him some time though if he was the dumpee that got dumped. He might still like her....First become friends with him, and when he starts to like you back, either wait for him to ask you out, or if he takes to long, ask him out! lol. lol, yea...maybe I need to 'get' him to like me some how...I have to be charming...lolz...thats what I'm gonna do! thanks every1. I found the good choice! |
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Jun 4 2004, 03:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,813 |
QUOTE(perdyperdybirdy @ Jun 4 2004, 2:30 PM) "Wait till they're over, then ask him out" Give him some time though if he was the dumpee that got dumped. He might still like her....First become friends with him, and when he starts to like you back, either wait for him to ask you out, or if he takes to long, ask him out! lol. ^^ thats what i did .. nd it work out pretty well |
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Jun 4 2004, 03:25 PM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
QUOTE(StarryEyedSurprize @ Jun 4 2004, 2:55 PM) and your in 6th grade?? i didnt even know what love was in 6th grade shoot i couldnt spell it. you know what just get to know him and his friends. they may seem like your eniemies..but you never know. |
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Jun 4 2004, 05:02 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
i guess just wait it out.... just get to know him, and be friends, even if that's the most you'll be...
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Jun 4 2004, 06:01 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,895 |
yea, but there is a saying, keep ur friends close, but your eniemes closerrr
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Jun 4 2004, 06:38 PM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
it depends if i think the girlfriends is fair ill let it go and forget about him. if not then "excuse me which girlfriends?"
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Jun 4 2004, 07:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I voted wait until they're over and ask him out.
This has happen to me before. We started as friends, I liked him a lot but I knew he had a GF. And somehow, he fell in love with me... Sohe broke up with his GF. And a lil while after that, we got together. You didn't have a 'just be his friend' option or I would have voted that... |
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Jun 4 2004, 07:37 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
well, i say to forget about him. but i'm sure if you really love him, it's not as easy as it sounds. so if it is really that hard, then just wait till they're over. alowing him to cheat is not an option. and sabataging him and his girlfriend's relationship is really cruel. i feel sorry for you. i hope it works out for the best.
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Jun 4 2004, 07:41 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
forget abt him!.. you'll find another guy.
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Jun 4 2004, 08:56 PM
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princess randi Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,911 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 8:36 PM) I voted wait until they're over and ask him out. This has happen to me before. We started as friends, I liked him a lot but I knew he had a GF. And somehow, he fell in love with me... Sohe broke up with his GF. And a lil while after that, we got together. You didn't have a 'just be his friend' option or I would have voted that... samething friggin happend to me. but his girlfriend was my bestfriend at the time. after he broke up with her, he asked me out a couple weeks later and then broke up with me for some other girl. and me and my best friend havent been friends since. sad really cause she was a great person and i miss her. |
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Jun 5 2004, 07:07 AM
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 Mummified Group: Member Posts: 453 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,268 |
i think youre just infatuated with him... i dont think it's love.. forget about him..
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Jun 5 2004, 07:44 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,895 |
well, you have no idea if its love or what...but I am falling apart cause I love him so much. But honestly since I haven't seen him in a long time (about a week and a half)(he isn't in the yearbook either)I think I am moving on....I kno I still have feelings but screw it, he only noticed me in 5th, and thats over.
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Jun 5 2004, 08:51 AM
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princess randi Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,911 |
ok i got a question. why do you think its love? i was just wondering cause you cant really love someone you barely even know.
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Jun 19 2004, 10:31 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
After you've sorted out your feelings on love and your guy, just hang out with him casually! You said your friends were dating him? Just hang out as the three of you and get to know him- maybe he isn't all that cracked up as you seem to think he is. Make friends with the guy and once you get to KNOW him, sort out your feelings. =]
...Did you say your friends and enemies were dating him? Sounds like you it's a case of simple jealousy. Now that he's popular, you want him. Your friends and enemies can have him, so it hurts that you can't... Separate those feelings, hun! <=] Sorry, I'm not trying to judge you, if that's what it seems like. Just saying what it sounds like to me. ^_^;; |
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Jun 20 2004, 06:15 AM
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 Ai = Love. No Duh. Group: Member Posts: 251 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,162 |
It's not probably "LOVE" but "LIKE"....
Advice: If you really still do want to be around him, settle for trying to be his friend. Trust me, you'll be satisfied enough w/o being his gf. |
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