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i have broken up lately with someone rather close..well the other way around she broke with me..and thats fine if shes happy but...there was none of that gut renching pain..no tears...nothing. i hang out with a friend thats emo an shes corrupted me (for the better. a darker look on life is good look on life) is this dark outlook on life causing me no sadness?? but then again emos are full of sadness.
 i dont know..any ideas?
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Nov 26 2006, 05:47 PM
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hmm i think you are handling this in a mature way.
and thats whyy your not beinga pussy and shit like that. your becoming man good job son. |
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Nov 27 2006, 12:40 AM
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^ i agree.
or maybe you just weren't as heartbroken as you thought you would be when she broke up with you. |
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Nov 27 2006, 03:54 AM
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I will ask what no one did.
How long did you even date for? How old are you guys an Euphoria, crying after a breakup only makes you stronger, it doesnt make you a pussy and "shit". LOL @ Kids. |
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Nov 27 2006, 06:29 AM
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QUOTE(KielReese @ Nov 27 2006, 2:54 AM)  Euphoria, crying after a breakup only makes you stronger, it doesnt make you a pussy and "shit". LOL @ Kids. breaking up in a relationship with peace and stability of the mind makes your stronger it maks you see clearly with one break up brings tears but then after another one its like oh well there are other fish in the sea and it gives you like i said clarity of the mind beacsue crying all the time only makes you drown in the memmories that were. instead of looking beyond your looking at your past and see that it was better and that youd never go on. so you are wrong son. wrong. f**king call me a kid. 
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Dec 1 2006, 12:02 AM
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Well maybe it just hasn't hit you yet, either that or you're stronger than you thought you were (emotionally) I've been broken up and dumped like a sack of potatoes too.
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Dec 6 2006, 01:11 AM
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QUOTE(doomXL @ Nov 26 2006, 2:19 PM) i have broken up lately with someone rather close..well the other way around she broke with me..and thats fine if shes happy but...there was none of that gut renching pain..no tears...nothing. i hang out with a friend thats emo an shes corrupted me (for the better. a darker look on life is good look on life) is this dark outlook on life causing me no sadness?? but then again emos are full of sadness. i dont know..any ideas?i agree w/ u, i used to think emo's wer weird but once i started hanging out with this emo friend she sorta changed me on how i see sum thingz n i like that change, but im not emo its just that i realize that not all emo's r bad but i dont get y sum ppl think that emo's r so... bad and bitchy or w/e when they're reli not |
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Dec 6 2006, 06:35 AM
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Maybe it just didn't hit you yet. That's how I was. It took me a few days before it slapped me hard in the face.
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Dec 6 2006, 03:12 PM
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Or maybe it wasn't as great as you thought it was? Either way, I'm glad you aren't having a hard time with it. Way to be strong
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Dec 6 2006, 05:13 PM
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You just didn't like her as much as you thought you did, didn't have that great of a time, didn't date her for awhile (let's say, two days), or you have a heart of a rock.
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Dec 6 2006, 06:25 PM
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^ Yes, exactly.
It probably didn't hit you as hard & she probably didn't mean as much to you. |
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Dec 6 2006, 11:36 PM
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You know, not being sensitive can ruin a girls interest in you. I really dont like men who aren't sensitive, it makes me happy to see someone who has emotion buts not totally emo.
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Feb 10 2007, 06:08 PM
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QUOTE(doomXL @ Nov 26 2006, 1:19 PM) i have broken up lately with someone rather close..well the other way around she broke with me..and thats fine if shes happy but...there was none of that gut renching pain..no tears...nothing. i hang out with a friend thats emo an shes corrupted me (for the better. a darker look on life is good look on life) is this dark outlook on life causing me no sadness?? but then again emos are full of sadness. i dont know..any ideas?maybe you didn't really like her or she wasn't right 4u
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Feb 10 2007, 11:21 PM
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^ thats my girlfriend! ^ Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 502,090 |
QUOTE(doomXL @ Nov 26 2006, 1:19 PM) i have broken up lately with someone rather close..well the other way around she broke with me..and thats fine if shes happy but...there was none of that gut renching pain..no tears...nothing. i hang out with a friend thats emo an shes corrupted me (for the better. a darker look on life is good look on life) is this dark outlook on life causing me no sadness?? but then again emos are full of sadness. i dont know..any ideas?wernt u the one who wasnt sure if u were gay- idk maybe your having girl problems 
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Feb 10 2007, 11:58 PM
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Maybe you just didn't like her as much anymore and took the relationship as whatever. You probably didn't really cared if you guys broke up or not.
Or you are becoming mature, which is a good thing. |
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Feb 10 2007, 11:59 PM
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i'm not sure how much an "emo" kid would affect whether or not you had the ability to be sad. sometimes emotions can betray us, though - i mean, you might have thought you were really close to her, but when push comes to shove, it didn't hurt too bad to break it off. my bf and i broke up today, and it doesn't hurt at all - and i don't think it ever will.
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