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 Nov 23 2006, 11:41 AM
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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
okay so i met this guy yesterday..when i was out with my friends.i was with my one friend and she invited him to come hang out w/ us .so anyway he was really funny and cool.. and i knew him for about 5 min..and then my friends were like pressuring me to hook up w/ him..and i mean i wanted to but..i barely knew him..and so my friends kept like telling us to do it..so it was really akward..so anyway we hooked up for like 5 secs..and it was weird..and it was my first kiss..and ididnt want my first kiss to be that way but it was..so anyway he asked my friend for my phone number..and i guess hes going to call me..but i dont know if i like him. i mean hes amazing but i cant see my self w/ him.. i dont want to offend anyone..but hes asian and im not and im not saying thats bad..but i just dont find him like attractive in the kissing way..if that makes sense..so now i dont know what to do.. i mean im not sure if i like him..but i made out with him.. and when ever i meet a guy..i love it for about a second and then i get all freaked out..and want to get out of it..and i dont know why..okay so i hope this made sense..so please girls help! Thanks so much...
(By the way Happy Thanksgiving) |
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Nov 23 2006, 12:09 PM
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ok that was a mouthfull lets take a breather..ok?
alright... darling we never put our tounges a another persons mouth unless your a hooker.[not saying you are] or you were dared to. anyway. i think you should really think about this before you pursue it any further. see what happens maybe youll like him maybe you wont. but yeah you acted on peer presure which sucks especial it being your first kiss beacsue your first kiss should be special somewhat but shit happens =] good luck 
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Nov 23 2006, 03:17 PM
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ughh. peer pressure is a b/tch.
^ i agree with the person above me. even if you think you like him, you should just take the time to kno him a little bit more. (not as in have sex or anything) but get to kno things & see if you guys have chemistry. you might actually like him later on.  good luck ~_^ happy thanksgiving to you too =) |
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Nov 23 2006, 03:53 PM
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 mrs. paul dano. Group: Member Posts: 907 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,992 |
QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Nov 23 2006, 9:09 AM)  alright... darling we never put our tounges a another persons mouth unless your a hooker.[not saying you are] Rofl. Yes, you should have just waited longer. Atleast talk a bit more with him. Don't listen to your friends. Whenever you feel the time is right, go for it. Happy Thanksgiving to you too! 
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Nov 23 2006, 06:05 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't let your friends pressure you into doing something you don't want to/feel like doing...
if you're not sure if you like him, slow down, don't listen to your friends listen to yourself and what you want. if you don't think that you wanna go out with this guy then don't |
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Nov 23 2006, 07:41 PM
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 DING DONG. Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900 |
i would have hated to have that as my first kiss. But yeah peer pressure sucks. Well i agree with sarcastic, if you dont like him you should slow down and do what you think, and not what everyone else (those friends of yours that pressured you) thinks. if you dont like him. you dont like him. easier said than done eh?
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Nov 24 2006, 08:59 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
how does he look like anyway?
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Nov 24 2006, 07:06 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
oooh peer pressure
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Nov 25 2006, 02:52 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
okay guys, what happened already happened, and we can't change that. Just let it be a lesson learned to try and hold your own against peer pressure.
In any case, you seem to have some positive feelings towards him, so give him a chance. THat doesn't mean kiss him again, or go further, it means get to know him better. you clearly haven't known him that long, and it's pretty hard to judge whether or not you have chemistry over 5 minutes. Being said, once you do get to know him, just because he was your first kiss, don't feel obligated to stay with him. (hell, I dumped my first kiss after 3 days) You're young, take chances, this is the time to be impulsive and try new things. Don't be afraid to piss him off a little, because only you know what will make you happy. p.s. on your last note, try and be a little more secure with how you feel. I think you're getting scared of liking somone. It'll only get worse once you feel how it is to get hurt, so for now, take the plunge and don't look back. p.p.s. sorry if that was kinda long, i haven't been here in a really long time, and this is my first post back |
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Nov 27 2006, 06:29 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
thanks for the help girls.
any other advice?! :) |
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