A shy guy problem, my bf I NEED HELP!! |
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 Nov 17 2006, 09:53 PM
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okay, so as of wednesday i am going out with my former best friend, Austin.
He's really shy and everything, so i don't know, like, if he would kiss me or anything. It's not super important that we kiss RIGHT NOW, but i can totally see myself going out with him for a while & stuff. I'm also his 1st girlfriend. (8th grade, it's sad) I mean, if we've been going out for like, a year, and he hasn't kissed me, what do i do? This is my cousin's account, btw, not mine |
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Nov 17 2006, 09:57 PM
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well.. if he was your former 'best friend' it shouldnt be a problem to be open to him about 'kissing' and such... start off with a peck [if your aiming for a kiss anytime soon] since you are his first gf.
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Nov 17 2006, 09:59 PM
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Thanks! i mean, we haven't been best friends for that long; i met him at the beginning of the school year, but we just clicked.
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Nov 18 2006, 12:16 AM
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QUOTE I'm also his 1st girlfriend. (8th grade, it's sad) not really. my friend didn't get her first boyfriend until she was going into 11th. i still haven't had mine, and i'm in 9th. honestly, i think children before the age of 8th grade shouldn't EVEN be dating. it's like kids are trying to 'grow up' too fast, but nothing really becomes serious until high school, i think... |
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Nov 18 2006, 03:25 AM
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^ i agree, even then, some high school relationships aren't exactly very seroius...
but yeah why not make the first move instead of waiting for him to do it. |
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Nov 18 2006, 12:40 PM
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^ yeah, you're right.
different people mature at different ages. but try making the first move. i mean, what's the worst that can happen? "sorry, i'm not ready yet." then when he is ready, you'll be surprised. 
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Nov 18 2006, 12:52 PM
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i, honestly, would hate guys like that. if i was with someone for a year and we hadn't done anything, then somethings up. i don't really like shy guys, because then what fun are they? like seriously.
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Nov 18 2006, 12:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
^ i guess, but someone can't help it if they're shy.
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