girl likes girl?, so confused |
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 Nov 2 2006, 06:08 PM
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 DING DONG.  Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900  |
i got all the help i needed! thanx so much!
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Nov 2 2006, 06:15 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
there's nothing wrong with liking someone of your own sex. but, the question is, are you only feeling this way because she knows you well, or is it because you're attracted to her. if you're really attracted to her, so what if she's not a guy?
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Nov 2 2006, 08:19 PM
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 cookies=love Group: Member Posts: 236 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,467 |
First, I think it's really mature of you to see past your friend's transsexualness. Most adults couldn't do that :)
Be proud, and don't change. Second, I think you shouldn't make any decisions about whether/not you like the person UNTIL he/she has been changed into a guy. THEN you can really decide "Do I like this person as a guy, now? Or what..." Whatever you do, continue to support your friend through his/her changes (like you're doing now). |
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Nov 3 2006, 03:52 PM
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DING DONG. Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900 |
we are only 14 so... she cant like change her genderrr
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Nov 3 2006, 10:01 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
QUOTE(cheri_pi @ Nov 2 2006, 7:19 PM)  Second, I think you shouldn't make any decisions about whether/not you like the person UNTIL he/she has been changed into a guy. THEN you can really decide "Do I like this person as a guy, now? Or what..." ...uh... So, you're saying that she should tell her friend to get a sex change before she even considers liking the person? I hope you're not serious. Look, you're either gay or you're straight... you're either attracted to girls or attracted to guys or at that stage where you're still trying to figure yourself out. I had a friend that was in a similar situation like yours. One of her best friends was a girl and it turned out the girl had a bit of a thing for her. She wanted to stay friends and even thought if she was a guy, things would be perfect. They went through a bit of an awkward phase, but they stayed friends through the whole thing. You can't help what your orientation is. So she's a lesbian... and you're not sure. It seems that you're starting to like her though, so you might want to take a step back and think: is gender really that much of an issue? Are you attracted to her? Figure it out... but don't pressure her into acting more like a guy and trying to be a GUY for you, because that's not fair to her. |
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