Talking to boys |
 Oct 17 2006, 05:21 PM
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 Because i said so  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144  |
There's this boy in my lunch period that i think is cute, but i don't know how to start a conversation with him. He's not in any of my other classes and he sits on the other side of the caffeteria. I talked to him once, you know, introducing myself, but i said something stupid and i think i annoyed him. How am i supposed to talk to him without creeping him out or anything? I just want to be friends and see where it goes.
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Oct 25 2006, 06:44 PM
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Because i said so Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144 |
QUOTE(funk.this @ Oct 20 2006, 6:44 PM)  Wait, do you even KNOW this guy? You just saw him across the cafeteria and found him attractive and now you're trying to figure out how to talk to him? Way to creep him out. If you keep trying to get his attention when you really don't have any basis to form even an "acquaintance" relationship... you'll probably end up scaring him. Here's the story: Well, in Back to School Night, my parents met his parents. They found out that my dad and his dad worked in the same building so they became friends. You know, talking and eating lunch together sometimes. Also, my sister who's a grade lower than me is good friends with that boy's younger brother. I hear them mentioning him being in my grade and so i decided i wanted to be friends with him. After asking my friends if they knew him, one of them showed me who he was and then i thought he was cute which made me nervous. (im a filipino and so is he, there's this thing about filipinos being really eager to meet others like ourselves. that's how my parents and his parents met each other in the first place) So, that's basically it. The guy knows me, he's heard about me from his family so it's not like talking to a stranger. |
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Oct 27 2006, 02:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 463,960 |
well just wait i mean every guy wont just come out of the blue and say will u go out wit meeh at least say or else he will think ur creepy likesay hey/hi/hello to him once a while and then he might find u cute or something i mean boys are sometimes dumb (no offense) cuz they are more shy then girls.so yeah
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Oct 31 2006, 10:52 AM
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 stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
you should try to get to know him first,before having a face to face conver with him. i think it would be awkward if you just start a conver with him out of the blue. try getting to know him online or through text msgin? text msgin works wonders in this part of the world. hahas maybe you guys should try it at america or where ever you are at lol
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Oct 31 2006, 10:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
QUOTE(dododiva @ Oct 17 2006, 5:21 PM) There's this boy in my lunch period that i think is cute, but i don't know how to start a conversation with him. He's not in any of my other classes and he sits on the other side of the caffeteria. I talked to him once, you know, introducing myself, but i said something stupid and i think i annoyed him. How am i supposed to talk to him without creeping him out or anything? I just want to be friends and see where it goes. I feel you. This is one of the situations I have not yet found a total solution for. This is not the same as going up to a stranger you find attractive, cause to me thats easy. He and you already know eachother exist and see eachother every now and then, right? So hmm. I guess the buddy system is the best way to go. Get to know his friends, and soon you'll be in his circle. Best I can offer for now :-/ |
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Nov 2 2006, 12:42 AM
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just try to start a conversation with him by saying "hey! i haven't talked to you for a long time! let's catch up!" or something like that [: try to get to know him better & you can also talk to his friends (while no one's looking? o___O?) or pass a note during class to them & tell them about the boy you like & stuff like that. :] good luck. :)
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Dec 30 2008, 05:14 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Dec 2008 Member No: 706,314 |
QUOTE(dododiva @ Oct 17 2006, 05:21 PM) There's this boy in my lunch period that i think is cute, but i don't know how to start a conversation with him. He's not in any of my other classes and he sits on the other side of the caffeteria. I talked to him once, you know, introducing myself, but i said something stupid and i think i annoyed him. How am i supposed to talk to him without creeping him out or anything? I just want to be friends and see where it goes. Look, try to get to know him. things will turn up, k? |
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Dec 30 2008, 05:27 PM
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oh this is kindof tough when you really think of the pro's and con's
i never really had trouble talking to a boy i was so "comfortable" i just go up to them and be like "hey" just be really comfortable talking to him like talk to him like you were talking to one of your girl friends i dont know this sounds like shitty advice to me >___< |
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