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 Oct 26 2006, 07:10 PM
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The point is, not all 14 year olds are ready to make decisions like that even if they think they are.
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Oct 26 2006, 10:33 PM
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Mhmm, I respect everyone elses thoughts and views, but I'm glad I expressed mine.
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Oct 26 2006, 11:27 PM
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Didn't i reply to this??... I wrote down a really good plan.... Did you guys delete it?
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Oct 27 2006, 01:03 PM
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^ I highly doubt it was deleted. Maybe you just forgot to "add reply", and you left the page or something?
Anyways, I agree with Robbi. I mean, yeah maybe some arent mature enough, but that doesnt mean that all 14yr olds arent. And it really isnt your place to judge if they are or not. |
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Oct 27 2006, 10:56 PM
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QUOTE(hojax @ Oct 22 2006, 10:24 PM)  exactly. in the real world...once you're done growing up and such...years dont make that big of a difference because once you hit a certain age...you stop maturing.... saying a senior dating a freshman isnt weird is like saying an 8th grader can date a 5th grader (if you're looking at age difference alone) i find it odd...and almost pathetic (considering all the seniors i know that date freshman) that's like...dating someone a year younger than my little brother...strange. sorry if that was harsh? but yah know...opinions differ...  I agree with you completely. |
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Oct 27 2006, 11:13 PM
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I really dont have any problems with a freshman and a senior having a relationship. Many of you are claiming that it's wrong because they are not emotionally on the same level. In many cases this may be true, but there are still exceptions. If two people are truly in love, even if they are a freshmen and a senior, it doesn't matter. And if i didn't then that would've made me a
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Oct 28 2006, 05:33 PM
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I just think a 14 year old still looks like a kid, so I don't see how an almost grown guy can be attracted to a little girl.
Anyways, it's just my opinion. |
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Oct 29 2006, 01:25 PM
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well, it pretty much depends on how much they know each other. it's okay if they known each for like more than 1 or 2 years or something but if they recently met then most likely the senior would just cheat on the freshman or visa versa.
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Oct 30 2006, 02:24 AM
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Oct 30 2006, 11:17 AM
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 stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
sorry but what's the age gap between a freshman and senior? sorry we don't use such terms in singapore lol so i've totally no idea. books don't give much clue either lol
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Oct 31 2006, 04:06 PM
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freshman is 14 and 15 year olds. senior is 17 and 18 year olds.
QUOTE(Mschamgirl @ Oct 26 2006, 7:16 PM) no cuz AGE IS JUST A NUMBER unless the dude is younger then u we have a problem   so not true. |
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Nov 1 2006, 10:47 AM
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stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
mm if that's the case it think it's alright? lol
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Nov 1 2006, 11:33 PM
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QUOTE(preciousbabyrae @ Oct 29 2006, 1:25 PM) well, it pretty much depends on how much they know each other. it's okay if they known each for like more than 1 or 2 years or something but if they recently met then most likely the senior would just cheat on the freshman or visa versa. I would find it odd if a junior in high school was spending his time getting to know girls in middle school. |
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Nov 2 2006, 12:49 AM
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i think that's fine but it really depends if it's a really really commiting relationship. [:
but, if you're a freshman, you probably wont have a maturity level of a senior like your boyfriend. but you can also be mature for your age. so i guess it just depends but i say that dating a senior/freshman when you're a senior/freshman is okay. |
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Nov 2 2006, 01:02 AM
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lmao. as long as they arent cousins im completely fine with that x].
but really. 14 and 17. its a 3 year difference. and they're both highschool students am i correct? sure the older one is more mature by 3 years but honestly i think all highschool students are the same. there are a selected few who are actually mature while the rest all act about 12. and as for the age gap. he's 17 and she's 14. so its nothing illegal. they're safe for a year. but once he turns 18 they better not have sex for a year unless he wants her parents sending his ass to jail :x. but hey! if they "love" each other let them be. its what they want right? so yes :] |
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Nov 2 2006, 01:13 AM
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QUOTE(ashopely @ Oct 25 2006, 12:37 PM) that's what i meant at the beginning of the topic. yah, i guess it's different when you're at those ages.
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Nov 2 2006, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(xmusic @ Nov 2 2006, 1:02 AM) lmao. as long as they arent cousins im completely fine with that x]. but really. 14 and 17. its a 3 year difference. and they're both highschool students am i correct? sure the older one is more mature by 3 years but honestly i think all highschool students are the same. there are a selected few who are actually mature while the rest all act about 12. and as for the age gap. he's 17 and she's 14. so its nothing illegal. they're safe for a year. but once he turns 18 they better not have sex for a year unless he wants her parents sending his ass to jail :x. but hey! if they "love" each other let them be. its what they want right? so yes :] In some states it still wouldn't be legal for them to have sex. Law makers were aware that not all people under 18 are the same. If you're under 18 and you have sex with someone 3 years or more younger than you, that is still considered illegal in some states. |
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Nov 4 2006, 11:18 AM
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Meh. If a senior floats your boat, go ahead. Ain't my problem.
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Nov 4 2006, 12:47 PM
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QUOTE(rawtheekuh. @ Nov 4 2006, 11:18 AM) Meh. If a senior floats your boat, go ahead. Ain't my problem. i wasn't say one 'is floating my boat.'  i just want people's opinions on the situation. 
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Nov 4 2006, 04:26 PM
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oooh yeah. Group: Member Posts: 1,333 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 376,533 |
^I was speaking generally. The 'you' wasn't directed towards any particular person, haha.
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Nov 4 2006, 09:12 PM
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I don't think its a big deal.
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Nov 4 2006, 10:06 PM
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QUOTE(rawtheekuh. @ Nov 4 2006, 4:26 PM) ^I was speaking generally. The 'you' wasn't directed towards any particular person, haha. heh. sorry. 
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Nov 4 2006, 10:37 PM
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I think it's kind of like... If a 30 year old and a 50 year old date? Their stages in life are definitely different, but if they don't mind the older one being the wise one and the younger one being kind of inexperienced, it could work.
I don't think ALL seniors are out for only sex... 
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Nov 5 2006, 06:35 PM
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^ same. there are some mature ones who wouldn't do that to a freshman.
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Nov 5 2006, 07:19 PM
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QUOTE(Sweet_Suicide @ Nov 1 2006, 10:33 PM) I would find it odd if a junior in high school was spending his time getting to know girls in middle school. well acutally it wouldn't odd. because you'd never know if they were just friends then then the girl went to high school and hung out with him and they probably grew feelings for each other now than before. |
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