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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
 Oct 21 2006, 08:38 PM
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Is there such a thing?
Well, the reason I started this topic is because there's this boy I know who I'm somewhat interested in. I don't know him extremely well and I don't want to be too blunt because I don't think he's the slightest bit interested in me. When I talk to him I don't want to come on too strong, or give him too much of the impression that I'm into him, but I guess I just want to put the thought into his head to figure out how he feels about me (because guys can be hard to read like that.) (How gradeschool  )So, is there a way to drop little hints to see? |
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Oct 21 2006, 08:46 PM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion.  Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Oct 22 2006, 9:38 AM)  there's this boy I know who I'm somewhat interested in. I don't know him extremely well maybe you should wait until you're really interested in him, and until you get to know him better. :) i think it'll be easier once you guys are friends because then you can start dropping hints like asking to hang out with him more, giving him a really awesome b-day present, talking on the phone, etc.; whereas if you did all that right now, it'd probably be super awkward. |
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Oct 22 2006, 12:32 AM
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If you're on AIM, and he IMs you, he's comfortable with talking to you.
Well, basically, if he does something first, then he likes to be around you. I might edit this later ... |
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Oct 22 2006, 02:03 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
talk to him casually first, get to know him more.
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Oct 22 2006, 09:55 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
^ i agree with the above posters. get to know him better & be friends. you guys'll flirt & stuff. before you know it, you'll probably get together :]
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Oct 22 2006, 10:07 PM
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 former dancerellie714 Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,750 |
i agree with the whole becoming friends first thing
but along the way to becoming friends you should probably flirt "innocently" so he wont think of you as one of his guy friends or something. nothing over the top...it really depends on the guy...generally just...idk act like you're interested without being obvious? this is all very vague and unhelpful. lol i'm sorry...just...go for the friend thing but dont miss opportunities to be around him and stuff ... good luck! 
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Oct 28 2006, 02:17 AM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
the more nervous you are, the stronger your hints will be.
or the more you can embarass yourself. being RELAXED is the key. stop assuming that he's not into you, but don't get your hopes up that he really is into you. talk to him about his interests. maybe try and be interested to. get his attention, be his friend, laugh. see where it goes from there. |
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Oct 28 2006, 03:39 AM
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Your best option is to flash your boobs at him.
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Oct 28 2006, 02:35 PM
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 this girl <3 those kdramas Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 450,198 |
QUOTE(.fire @ Oct 28 2006, 1:39 AM) Your best option is to flash your boobs at him. lol good one tho i think that counts as coming on too strong 
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Oct 28 2006, 03:13 PM
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QUOTE(luckyxi3 @ Oct 28 2006, 2:17 AM) the more nervous you are, the stronger your hints will be. or the more you can embarass yourself. being RELAXED is the key. stop assuming that he's not into you, but don't get your hopes up that he really is into you. talk to him about his interests. maybe try and be interested to. get his attention, be his friend, laugh. see where it goes from there. Thank you :) I agree. We hang out and stuff, when we can, it's hard because I work a lot so I don't have a ton of free time. And the free time that I have I spend with family and close friends. He gets along with most of my friends, which is good. QUOTE(.fire @ Oct 28 2006, 3:39 AM) Your best option is to flash your boobs at him.  If I had 'em I would.
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Oct 31 2006, 12:08 AM
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haha.
wow. i have the same issue. and he talks to me, first. because we sit across from eachother in English. and i'll sit there, quietly at work, and he randomly looks at me, and starts talking DIRECTLY at me. which is funny. cause this ''guy friend'' i have, [OMFG THIS KID IS ANNOYING.] seems to get jealous, and try to put all my attention on him. i hit him, when he touches me. :] but i used to like this kid like. ALOT. in middle school. :] i dont think i like him THAT much. but, there's still some feelings. <3 hahah. but im trying not to drop hints, yet. he was about to ask me for my msn, and then that annoying kid popped in the conversation, asking me if i wanted to go to his house. im like. NO. haha. im sure no one cares about my life. :] sorry. |
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Oct 31 2006, 10:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Oct 21 2006, 8:38 PM) I don't think he's the slightest bit interested in me. Already your telling me that your afraid to be denied. You have to drop BIG hints. BIG smiles with eye contact. Theres nothing wrong with coming strong. When did people start thinking that was ever wrong? wow man. I mean, how is he suppose to know that you'd like to start something with him. Cause if you don't, how will you start something with him? There is no worst thing that can happen. He's not gonna go 'ew cooties' on you and hes not going to emberrase you. That would be plain mean. Youre attracted to him so already I know hes not a jerk, unless your into that, so you're in the safe . Big hints, give big hints!
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Nov 6 2006, 08:51 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,106 |
YOu wanna know the best way to show girls ur interested? one word KINO: aka intiatiaing body contact of any kind.The same thing works for girls and im sure uve seen it done (aka known as stupid hugging)
Kino is why men flirt with pretend wrestles or intitiate kino with simple tricks like touching a girls arm when u say somthing or just STANDING close within a girls personal space and see if she withdraws or is comfortable with it. This guy might be inexperienced and unable to show interest in girls (very possible) or is scared or is just not interested in you .But you can scope the scene by intiaiting kino and judging his reaction. Dont underestimate the power of physical contact and human reaction...it is how 90% of guys pull chicks..basic stuff but the BEST move in the book. |
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