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 Oct 20 2006, 06:02 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find.  Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096  |
girls, have any of you ever fallen for a gay guy? did you know he was gay beforehand, or did you find out later on? how did you react?
this happened to me recently  at least... some people i know say he is. i'm not 100% sure...i don't think there's been a topic on this... if there has been, sorry. i can't search using 3 letter words. |
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Oct 20 2006, 06:24 PM
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This has happened to me. I wouldn't say I fell for the guy, but I did have feelings for him.
When I first met him I thought he was gay, but everyone told me he wasn't. So I started hanging out with him and became very good friends with him. I began to think that maybe I just thought he was gay cause he was really nerdy and awkward. He had a very strange sense of humor and personality. He eventually became my best friend and I had a bit of a crush on him. But in the end he came out and told everyone he was gay, I was the first one he came out to and told me that if I had a penis we would be lovers. This was over 2 years ago and we remain best friends. |
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Oct 20 2006, 06:27 PM
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 cookie monster! =] Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,492 |
When I was dating my ex, he was straight (obviously). But now.....he's gay. Which is still a little weird for me, since I've known him as the straight person that I met.
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Oct 20 2006, 06:41 PM
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I'd like to be able to say that I can tell when a man is gay, but after watching Oprah I just don't know anymore.
I can't imagine what it must be like to be intimate with a guy and then find out he's gay... not mention women who get married to gay men and have children. I've never really had this happen to me. Not to sound mean, but there's a freshman boy who is clearly gay and he dates girls and denies the fact. Of course, some of it might have to do with the fact that it's highschool and his peers might not take well to the gay fact. |
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Oct 20 2006, 07:02 PM
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my boyfriend was gay.....
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Oct 20 2006, 09:55 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
^ haha, wow. Why was he your boyfriend, then? That must've been pretty awkward.
Anyways, nope, I've never fallen for a gay guy. I usually do know when they're gay, and it kinda creeps me out. Not that being gay disturbs me or anything, it's just kinda like...scary whenever i see a gay guy. |
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Oct 21 2006, 12:58 AM
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 Starving Artist Group: Official Designer Posts: 444 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,344 |
I wouldn't say I fell for him, but I definatly liked this guy that turned out to be gay.
It was kind of awkward... |
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Oct 21 2006, 02:56 PM
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I'm gay...
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Oct 21 2006, 03:08 PM
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QUOTE ^ haha, wow. Why was he your boyfriend, then? That must've been pretty awkward. yeah... hes my bf cuz hes not gay anymore (yeah i know, hes confused... my parents warned me) and its not really awkward...... HES THE GREATEST 
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Oct 21 2006, 08:41 PM
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QUOTE(raenbow* @ Oct 21 2006, 3:08 PM)  yeah... hes my bf cuz hes not gay anymore (yeah i know, hes confused... my parents warned me) and its not really awkward...... HES THE GREATEST Hm, that's slightly strange. Are you sure he isn't just being straight to "fit in"? I know it sounds rude, but I don't see how you can switch that. I know a guy who's bi, and after people found out he tried to be totally straight. I mean you are what you are. |
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Oct 21 2006, 08:51 PM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Oct 22 2006, 9:41 AM) I know a guy who's bi, and after people found out he tried to be totally straight. I mean you are what you are. wow i feel bad for people who have to hide their true sex orientation... :/ high school is so "everybody has to fit in" over here though, it'd be really hard to come out. |
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Oct 21 2006, 10:11 PM
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Nope, that's never happened to me before. But gay guys are cute.
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Oct 21 2006, 10:41 PM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
didn't really fall for one just liked him for a while then realized..he's gay. but yea lotta gay guys are hot =] haha
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Oct 22 2006, 12:05 AM
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QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Oct 21 2006, 8:51 PM) wow i feel bad for people who have to hide their true sex orientation... :/ high school is so "everybody has to fit in" over here though, it'd be really hard to come out. Yeah. It was actually a big thing, because the guy was pretty popular and the way he came out wasn't of the best circumstances. One of the guys he played sports with said he was "checking him out" and he was making jokes about it with all the other guys (and I guess he didn't think he was seriously into guys). And it really hurt the guy who's bi. And eventually his g/f was questioning it and so he told her that he thinks he likes guys but he still likes women and she told pretty much everyone. |
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Oct 22 2006, 07:06 AM
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QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Oct 21 2006, 9:51 PM) wow i feel bad for people who have to hide their true sex orientation... :/ high school is so "everybody has to fit in" over here though, it'd be really hard to come out. Wow, that would never happen in my school. There are tons of gay/bi people, and nobody really cares  Alot of gay guys are cute though
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Oct 22 2006, 12:19 PM
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QUOTE m, that's slightly strange. Are you sure he isn't just being straight to "fit in"? I know it sounds rude, but I don't see how you can switch that. id guess ud call him bi... and he doesnt really need to fit in, he already does (i guess thats what ud say?) |
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Oct 22 2006, 01:48 PM
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I always seem to find out once I meet them, It doesn't bother me. Their really sweet most of the time, so I guess it would be predictable if you fell for one if you didn't know. -shrugs- I've never fallen for one though.
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Oct 23 2006, 04:02 AM
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Never happened to me, but my [girl] friend, who is bi herself has incredibly serious issues with falling for gay guys.
Happens every time. And sometimes, on drunken Friday nights, she's hooked up with her gay guy friends. Lets just say, it makes for very awkward next days/weeks/years. =] And my school is incredibly open. Well, my entire crowd anyway. ^^ |
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Oct 23 2006, 04:25 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
QUOTE(doc'sgirl @ Oct 21 2006, 7:24 AM) But in the end he came out and told everyone he was gay, I was the first one he came out to and told me that if I had a penis we would be lovers. He actually said that? Grow a penis then.
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Oct 23 2006, 08:09 AM
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What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
QUOTE(hiromi @ Oct 22 2006, 8:06 PM) Wow, that would never happen in my school. There are tons of gay/bi people, and nobody really cares wow, my school's like the opposite, there's only like 1 or 2 gay / 3 seriously bi people. or maybe everybody's just keeping it to themselves. |
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Oct 23 2006, 10:06 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
when i broke up with my boyfriend back in highschool. i kinda started liking my bestfriend. everyone always teased him and were so mean to him about being gay! so i always defended him. so we were bestfriends and we were really close. So i ended up liking him, and we went to a dance together, and he told me he didnt like me like that. i was soooooo sad. 2 years later, when we graduated, he told me he was gay. and that he didnt want to tell me because he thought i wouldnt wanna be friends with him anymore.
but we are still good friends and love each other :) |
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Oct 23 2006, 02:26 PM
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Ick, that reminds of the stupid "trend" at my school of girls saying their bi, 'cause they think they'll appeal to more guys.
At my school it's crazy because there's like sophmores having babies and we're number one in the state for most reported stds. Yeah, that's something to be proud of. |
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Oct 23 2006, 04:21 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
I had this mild child-infatuation for a guy who was 7 years older and absolutely beautiful. He was really metro and I couldn't really tell if he was gay or not, so I chose to see him as not. But, it turned out that he WAS,... and the funny thing was that it made me 100x more comfortable to just hang out with him and all of my infatuation for him pretty much evaporated.
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Oct 23 2006, 10:18 PM
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I fell for Lance Bass when i was younger.. Does that count?
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Oct 23 2006, 10:21 PM
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^^
I guess that would count for a lot of people.
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