Well, I'm going to post one of mine..., (Holly you can read and post if you like) Options

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Look, I understand Holly. She reminds me of myself cause most of the times I never talk to anyone about my feelings. not even to my brother. I don't have many friends. I feel safe when i don't talk about my felings and I post my probs here in cb cause i do prefer writin about how I feel rather than talking

Josh you ain't gonna change her. I mean I understand that you are apparently the talkative one or better the one that talks about his feelings. But u should try to accept that Holly is different from you. She's not like you.

I would have to agree with this. I am not good with sharing my feelings to anyone also. I once tryed talking to a friend about my worrys and she told me not to worry about it when I know I just would. That's just the kind of person I am. I think for the worst of things. My glass is always half empty. Somtimes I get really depressed because of this. Eh, It's somthing I just have to deal with I guess. I also would have to agree with the silence is not the answer... It makes everything just awkward and more confusing and it really makes me stressed. I would never beable to hang up with some one angry because I would be up all night thinking about the problem.. How I could make things better. Some times I get so sick of things that I do think of leaving the person I love but then I think deeper down and ask my self if I really could do that. Can I live with out this person in my life at the point in time. That is why I am still with the boy I have been with this hole year.

I would also have to agree with the point that you cant change a person and their ways. Everyone is diffrent in their own way. But it seems like you understand this. It is a good idea to get your thoughst and feelings out in the open by saying somthing on cb. You should tell her to send you a long ass email telling you what is going on and expain everything so you don't take anything the wrong way. Tell her how you feel and what not. Maybe this will show how much you both mean to eathother and help make things better in some sort of way. That is the best I can think of.

Good luck <3