</3 I am heartbroken, And it hurts so much.... Options

[rAwritsgWeg]

Im bleeding
And yes for the reason you are thinking......(yes cutting, i just finished)
I miss her......
I managed to mess everything up with her
and now i sorta have no choice to move on.....
Ive been bitching at my friends
my parents cuased a huge gash in the palm of my hand
and I feel alone
Like ill always be alone
I feel empty......

[felicity*aka*fe]

honey, no girl is ever ever worth cutting urself. my best friend cuts...for other reasons but still. I know what being 'heartbroken', to sound cliche, is like, it sucks, it hurts more than something physical but you will regret it in the long run.

[rAwritsgWeg]

what am i to do then?
Im confused....cold
and still in pain

[***Lucy**]

Oh my god! Umm stop cutting yourself honey!

I know how u feel, i totally understand you:console:

No girl worths what are you doing to yourself and if there's a girl that worths it, her actions will never lead u to do things like this.

Please tale a big breath and try to help yourself. I won't tell u that u shouldn't cry etc. If it makes you feel better then u can cry. Sometimes it's healing. But don't do bad to yourself. There are people that need you don't leave them.

Talk to sb who cares about you.

Please try to be strong

If I could, I would give you a big hug

(if u need to talk to sb, feel free to Pm me whenever you want )

[rAwritsgWeg]

wow finally someone
someone actually wants to help me.......
im on aim if u wanna talk
and all my cuts ar eopening back up
its gross
im having trouble typing
my hand is messed up

rawritsgweg
is my screenname

[***Lucy**]

wow finally someone
someone actually wants to help me.......
im on aim if u wanna talk
and all my cuts ar eopening back up
its gross
im having trouble typing
my hand is messed up

rawritsgweg
is my screenname

I'm so sorry but i don't have aim. But if you won't to PM me through createblog I'm always here to help.

[mouse_3k]

boohoo a broken heart is always gon be healed it just takes time

[raenbow*]

No girl worths what are you doing to yourself and if there's a girl that worths it, her actions will never lead u to do things like this.

that is very true. i take cutting and attempting suicide (not that you are going to... im just tellin u about myself) very seriously for personal reasons, and i really want to help in any way that i can. you aren't alone... people on CB (im guessing) dont even really know you and they care about you enough to offer help. does that say somthing? life is the most important thing...second to quality of life. i have AIM if you need to talk

[-sincerely]

Oh my god! Umm stop cutting yourself honey!

I know how u feel, i totally understand you:console:

No girl worths what are you doing to yourself and if there's a girl that worths it, her actions will never lead u to do things like this.

Please tale a big breath and try to help yourself. I won't tell u that u shouldn't cry etc. If it makes you feel better then u can cry. Sometimes it's healing. But don't do bad to yourself. There are people that need you don't leave them.

Talk to sb who cares about you.

Please try to be strong

If I could, I would give you a big hug

(if u need to talk to sb, feel free to Pm me whenever you want )

that was soo nice. =] and i agree. cutting doesn't help, and she isn't worth it if she made you do that. i'm glad you posted though, so we could help you.

[OhMyAnniee]

Like everyone else said, (and I'm going to say it too) you shouldn't cut yourself. I use to be really depressed and stuff but I had promised myself as a kid that I would never cut myself.

I use to blame everyone else for my problems. But now, I let them go. I think I learned it when I joined volleyball. My coach always said, "Encourage your teammates. Do whatever it takes." And when I first played, I missed the ball quite a lot. I would get mad at myself and miss even more. But everyone else on the team would scream for me and be like, "It's okay! You'll definitely get it next time!"

Life goes on. Learn to let the pain go. I hope this somehow helps!

Oh, you should definitely apologize to your friends.
Sometimes, you just need to make your friends your family.
And then start over from there.

[*Uronacid*]

Im bleeding
And yes for the reason you are thinking......(yes cutting, i just finished)
I miss her......
I managed to mess everything up with her
and now i sorta have no choice to move on.....
Ive been bitching at my friends
my parents cuased a huge gash in the palm of my hand
and I feel alone
Like ill always be alone
I feel empty......

You're parents didn't cause a huge gash in your arm. You did. I'm sorry you are in a situation that is less than what you had hoped for. If you think that mutilating your own body will help solve the situation. Then by all means, I want you do do it, but I just don't think that cutting yourself will make you feel better. Cutting only makes you lose respect for yourself, and will only put you deeper into depression.

You will not always be alone, but if you keep acting like that. People won't want to hang around you. So get over the situation as quickly as you can.

Also, I know how you feel. Empty and alone... instead of cutting yourself, and bitching at your freinds or parents. Instead of driving the only people who care about you out of your life, making your situation worse. Why don't you spend some time with them.

[mznikki]

^ exactly what kimi said. and its so true.

No girl worths what are you doing to yourself and if there's a girl that worths it, her actions will never lead u to do things like this.

Please tale a big breath and try to help yourself. I won't tell u that u shouldn't cry etc. If it makes you feel better then u can cry. Sometimes it's healing. But don't do bad to yourself. There are people that need you don't leave them.

Like everyone else said, (and I'm going to say it too) you shouldn't cut yourself. I use to be really depressed and stuff but I had promised myself as a kid that I would never cut myself.

I use to blame everyone else for my problems. But now, I let them go.

Life goes on. Learn to let the pain go. I hope this somehow helps!

Oh, you should definitely apologize to your friends.
Sometimes, you just need to make your friends your family.
And then start over from there.

yea me too, I had been depressed for 3 years and had thought of suiside on more than one occasion for different reasons, i never cutt myself becuase i had been so self concious of my body and never liked the sight of blood, but as i got help (when i finally accepted the fact that i really needed it back then) i had learned that what is being sad and depressed and suiside going to do? run away and do nothing about it and just stay that way? i knew it wasn't gonna help me at all and it wasn't doing any good and i was wasting my time. I learned to channel my pain into something constructive not destructive, i put it into drawing, art and music. you should definately think of something that will help you do something helpful to you like a hobby from woodworking to drawing to playing the guitar etc. you should do something to help you get your mind off of cutting and your pain. i also learned when i was getting angry with myself or any one else i'd wear a rubber band/ hair band on my wrist and snap it when i was feeling deeply hurt- it helped me control it and it doesn't hurt me. i also learned that even if i'm feeling bad for myself....it really isn't as bad at all compared to other people out there.. they have it way way way worse than you. you should know that you have family and friends that care about you. there are other people out there that don't you should be grateful that they are there for you. there are other ways of getting over this and cutting isn't the right way. it won't help you. this is gonna sound cliche but it is true that everything happens for a reason and its really up to you to do something about it and move on or dwell upon the situation and do nothing. things will get better trust me. just because this girl is not with you any more doesn't mean that that's the end. there's something better planned for you and it'll be a better girl just let fate take its course. because you aren't alone, never forget that. hope this kinda helps and everyone here is here to help as am i =]

[rAwritsgWeg]

Yea it does help...everything everyone is saying. umm i have to go....ill be back on in like an hour. i will be on aim though so if u want IM me. i actually wanna talk to sum of u

[priyas]

^^dont cut. its kinda pointless. i hope you feel better.

as mzkindi said constructive not destructive.

also in the future, when you see the scars of the cuts it will cause pain. talk to somebody.

[AngelinaTaylor]

I'm so tempted...... but I'll try not to.

Cutting yourself over a girl is really, really unneccessary and rather dumb (I've done it too, so I CAN judge ;)). Tell me, how will it solve your problems? Exactly, it won't. So quit doing it, because it's pointless and destructive.

I'm assuming you're a teenager. Did you really expect to settle down and get married to this girl? No, right? What are you getting so depressed over then?

Sure, you'll hurt for some time. But that's completely normal - don't worry at all. Time heals.

[mznikki]

^^dont cut. its kinda pointless. i hope you feel better.

as mzkindi said constructive not destructive.

also in the future, when you see the scars of the cuts it will cause pain. talk to somebody.

lol u mean mznikki? haha everyone mixes us up often nowadays.

[*Uronacid*]

I'm so tempted...... but I'll try not to.

Cutting yourself over a girl is really, really unneccessary and rather dumb (I've done it too, so I CAN judge ;)). Tell me, how will it solve your problems? Exactly, it won't. So quit doing it, because it's pointless and destructive.

I'm assuming you're a teenager. Did you really expect to settle down and get married to this girl? No, right? What are you getting so depressed over then?

Sure, you'll hurt for some time. But that's completely normal - don't worry at all. Time heals.

Take this advice too... this is a good one.

[rAwritsgWeg]

Yea that does help too

Thanks