Would u keep the baby.., if you got pregnant?(and u were still a teenager?) |
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| *Uronacid* |
 Oct 3 2006, 11:35 AM
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Well, I'm sure his dad cares a somewhat... :] He sounds so cute and smart... OMG, a can't believe he called me Harry Potter... XD... I hate/love your son.... *super super big grin* LMAO.... awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
wwwwwwwwwwwwww...  Stop, it makes me want to cry...
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 3 2006, 11:39 AM
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^OH YEAH!LOL
 He loves Harry Potter and he was like: mummy tell him to paint his hair again black like in the movie. I've seen Harry POTTER 6 TIMES SO FAR.. he kept on: tell Harry to eat more cos he seems thin he ain't gonna be a good wizard and where's his thing on the forehead??? lol
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| *Uronacid* |
Oct 3 2006, 11:49 AM
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Grrrrr.... >.> I eat like a maniac, unless I'm stressed out or depressed... >.> Your son is so smart... at 2 years old... he's already talking like that, Holly... you need to get your brother talkin like that LOL... Man, her kid put's your brother to shame! I love Andrew though... XD...
So many people say I look like Harry Potter that it's just rediulous.. LOL, I went to nicaragua... i can't speak in spanish, but these little poor kids that I was drawing pictures with started pionting at my forehead and making little lighting bolt motions with their fingers. I was so confused, and then the translater looked at me and told me that they were telling me I looked like Harry Potter... ugh, it made me so frustrated... xD |
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 3 2006, 11:56 AM
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I just took Aaron and told him I'm talkin w/ Harry and he was like where is he mummy????????
Now I'm holding him and i show him ur graphics.lol he likes ur avatar! he called it: really thin blue guy made from pipes. lol
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| *Uronacid* |
Oct 3 2006, 12:01 PM
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LOL, your baby sounds so sweet. It sure seems like you are doing a great job. :]
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 3 2006, 12:05 PM
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My bro is being a paranoid w/ teaching him various stuff... I showed him some of your sketches he likes that one where there's a guy and a girl that hold a huge brown bag..(i don remember the name of it though) he didn exactly understood that there was a girl and a boy he said ghosts.. anyway..
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| *Uronacid* |
Oct 3 2006, 12:06 PM
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AWwwww... comment on my graphics :D
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 3 2006, 12:08 PM
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YES! He commented on your graphics but i'm sure it's the most useless criticism u would ever get..
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Oct 3 2006, 12:15 PM
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 vengeance.  Group: Official Member Posts: 3,058 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,024 |
QUOTE(suck me @ Oct 2 2006, 11:02 AM)  I HOPE U DIE woah there, leave her alone. anyways, I just noticed your name is Lucy.. My name is Lucy too.  lol.and now to be on topic, I wouldn't even have a baby because I'd be smart enough not to even be involved in that type of nature if I knew it was going to wound up in a situation like yours. but if I were to wound up in that situation.. I would put it up for adoption. I'm adopted, so basicly I'd know what it would go through.. and I approve. Lol. |
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Oct 5 2006, 06:41 AM
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Heyy.. If I was in your situation and I couldn't raise it on my own... I would put it up for adoption.. that would give your child a good home...
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| *Zatanna* |
Oct 5 2006, 07:35 AM
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Hi Lucy -
First off, you are a very brave young woman to have made the difficult choices presented to you. Having a child, no matter who you are and what your life situation is can be very challenging, to say the least. Doing it alone can be absolutely terrifying, especially so young. I'm a pro-choice type so I'm not *anti* anyone's personal decision about pregnancy and adoption. Both decisions have a long term impact. I decided to have (and keep) my child even knowing that he would never meet his father (long story and I'm not getting into detail about that here). I was older (24) when I had him, so the situation was different, of course. My child is a very happy person. He may not have a "father" but he has a loving family and everyone who knows him, adores him. He just has that effect on people. You did the right thing (and anyone making such decisions such as these) are doing the right thing if you can take care of your child. The second that comes into question, you need to rethink those decisions or get more help (if help is available). |
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 5 2006, 11:31 AM
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Guys, Aaron(he's my avatar now keeps on asking these things; where's daddy, he loves us, is he nice,is he bad, why i don know him etc.
What should i tell him?my bro thinks we should tell him the truth.. 
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Oct 5 2006, 11:40 AM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
first off what you did was the right thing i personally woudln't be able to get an abortion, i know people who have, i'd give them up for adoption because i wouldn't be able to give them the best that they deserve. second you should tell him the truth try and keep it simple though and don't lie about it because if u do when he gets older he will be even more upset(if you lie i mean). he deserves to know the truth no matter how old or young in this case.
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Oct 5 2006, 12:20 PM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
Heyy Girl... I agree with your brother... Your son deserves to know the truth.... it's his right
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Oct 6 2006, 04:26 AM
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 Some noob Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 469,196 |
good on you for keeping, he will find the truth out one day, but you dont have to tell him right away if you cant
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Oct 6 2006, 11:16 AM
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Be kind, please -- Madame C
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 6 2006, 11:29 AM
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Oh my brother insists on telling him the truth.. When i told Aaron@daddy loves u honey of course" my bro was like" Lucy stop that stop lying to him u know David doesn't give a damn about aaron and u stopit i'll tell him the truth and i don't care if he's young"
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Oct 6 2006, 06:23 PM
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 HILLARYious Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 245,200 |
i would probably give the baby for adoption. but certainly not have an abortion. :D
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Oct 6 2006, 10:38 PM
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 what a moon tonight. Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 |
I'd probably put the baby up for adoption. Abortion if no one adopts him/her.
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Oct 6 2006, 10:45 PM
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QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 7 2006, 12:29 AM) Oh my brother insists on telling him the truth.. When i told Aaron@daddy loves u honey of course" my bro was like" Lucy stop that stop lying to him u know David doesn't give a damn about aaron and u stopit i'll tell him the truth and i don't care if he's young" I agree with your brother. Aaron needs to know about his dad, even if he's young. If you don't tell him earlier, he might be reluctant to accept the truth when he gets older. |
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Oct 7 2006, 10:29 PM
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Oct 8 2006, 03:33 PM
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You got pregnant when you were 13? Wow. That was very brave of you to keep him so young. I'm 17, and I can't even imagine if that were to happen to me... if it happened, I would probably keep it, but there would always be a possibility of adoption. I mean, it's not the right time at all - I'm still a kid, how could I possibly raise a child of my own? I might consider giving the child to a family who can't have children, they would be much better off. I honestly don't know what I would do.
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Oct 9 2006, 11:59 PM
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Awh sweety, you tottally did the right thing. You took responsibility for your actions, and you love your baby boy. I'm honestly happy for you.
And to answer your question, yes I would of kept the baby too. Btw, Is he the one in your Icon? I haven't read the other answers, or responses, so I just figured I'd ask
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Oct 10 2006, 12:59 AM
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sorry if i am rude but during pregnancy (if i was a girl) i would be thinking about his father the whole time. But if you truly love your son and looks like you do, thinking about his father should be the last thing in your mind.
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Oct 10 2006, 01:14 AM
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Of course, the baby is my child afterall...
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