Who has more of an advantage. early bloomer or late bloomer?, A debate |
Who has more of an advantage. early bloomer or late bloomer?, A debate |
Oct 4 2006, 06:56 PM
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Who is at more of an advantage growing up? The early bloomer or the late bloomer? My friend and I were debating this. She is my complete opposite far as puberty is concerned. LOL I hit puberty rather late. I am almost 15 now and still pretty much wearing a training bra and have just a little public hair. No hips no nothing. Changing in gym class is a terrible experience. I hate swimming. Boys treat me like their little sister. I look like a 5th grader and i've had to watch helplesslyas my friends grow breasts and get periods or whatnot and everything back in 5th and 6th grades. As a result, my self esteem is completely shot.
My friend argues that she had it worse, because she had started getting breasts at like 9 and had her period in the 4th grade. She hated being the only girl in her class wearing a bra. She was a busty 12-year-old. It was very hard on her. She tells me how lucky I am that i don't have to deal with a period every month. But with her everyone else eventually caught up. So I think she was better off. In the long run anyways. Thoughts? |
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Lillyann Who has more of an advantage. early bloomer or late bloomer? Oct 4 2006, 06:56 PM
salcha4u Yeah this is like me and my sister. She got her pe... Oct 4 2006, 07:02 PM
Smoogrish QUOTE(salcha4u @ Oct 4 2006, 8:02 PM) Yea... Oct 9 2006, 06:21 PM
sofakinglazy I say early bloomer. Oct 4 2006, 07:09 PM
one_and_only both sound extreme...the average person changes in... Oct 4 2006, 07:17 PM
helloxtine i don't really know... i think a late bloomer ... Oct 4 2006, 07:57 PM
xcaitlinx i was in the same exact situation as your friend, ... Oct 5 2006, 06:02 AM
Trinie late bloomer :-D Oct 5 2006, 07:45 AM
Kirsti not as early as yoru friend but not as late as you... Oct 5 2006, 11:26 AM
Summer Rain QUOTE(Kirsti @ Oct 5 2006, 12:26 PM) not ... Oct 5 2006, 07:21 PM
Lillyann QUOTE(Kirsti @ Oct 5 2006, 8:26 AM) not a... Oct 8 2006, 11:09 PM
tainted_angel QUOTE(Kirsti @ Oct 5 2006, 9:26 AM) not a... Oct 8 2006, 11:34 PM
WHIMSICAL 0NE I'd rather have been an early bloomer. I would... Oct 5 2006, 05:32 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura late bloomer.
so i wouldnt have to worry so much ... Oct 5 2006, 07:07 PM
electric shock Well, both have their ups and downs differently.
... Oct 9 2006, 01:17 AM
Infinite. You know it matters what you were, your always goi... Oct 9 2006, 06:47 PM
angel_revelation i think both have their disadvantages...
early bl... Oct 11 2006, 07:39 PM
**moonstruck** Early. You'd probably get made of if you didn... Oct 11 2006, 09:19 PM
Youraisemeup im an easrly bloomer. I think its better to be ear... Oct 12 2006, 05:38 PM
Wellz i think the late bloomer, which i might only be sa... Oct 13 2006, 05:27 PM
funk.this i'd say the late.
i was an early bloomer and ... Oct 13 2006, 05:55 PM
ladychobit Late bloomer.
You have a chance to develop a great... Oct 13 2006, 10:08 PM
Lillyann Hmm... I guess we'll call it a draw then? Tha... Oct 23 2006, 03:00 PM
xourzestt early bloom because you get to strut your stuff an... Oct 23 2006, 10:22 PM
cheri_pi for boobies, it's better to be an early bloome... Oct 24 2006, 06:02 PM
just another teenage dirtbag hmm........idk im an early bloomer but i just come... Oct 24 2006, 07:26 PM
malimars Yeah I only got my period when I was 16 and for Br... Oct 24 2006, 08:26 PM
Nekostarrrrr An early bloomer like me!!
Although some ... Oct 25 2006, 04:41 PM
bonnyvae I think a lot of times early bloomers get all thei... Dec 4 2006, 10:03 PM
Crestfallen Shadow I actually heard that the later you get your perio... Dec 4 2006, 10:12 PM
ldyxluvable i wouldnt like to suffer i sayy late bloomer Jan 17 2007, 01:09 AM
hixfive i think you have more experience when you an early... Jan 17 2007, 05:39 PM![]() ![]() |