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 Oct 3 2006, 06:59 PM
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 Well err, to start out with, I miss and still love my ex boyfriend, but I'm dating another guy but I don't seem really close with him because I'm attached to my ex. And my ex basically pity dated me and he does all this stuff so I'll hate him.  (I don't know why I have feelings for him, I just do) 
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Oct 4 2006, 03:29 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
You shouldn't have jumped into your current relationship since you haven't gotten over your ex. It's not fair to your boyfriend because you're not being open to him. I think you should come clean to your boyfriend.
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Oct 4 2006, 03:33 PM
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^ I agree. And you shouldnt date your current b/f if you dont really like him or arent really close to him. It deffinately isnt fair for your current b/f.
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| *Infinite.* |
Oct 4 2006, 04:04 PM
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Yea, Chii said what I would have told ya. We've had many topics like this actually having the same sutiation.
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=153621 QUOTE Don't get in a relationships with someone if you still have feelings for a former lover. In a way your kind of using them to get over the last person...How would you feel if you were being used? Pretty much all you need to do is put yourself in the position of the new person and how your treating them, and if your having a feelings for someone else. How would you feel if you really liked someone and then to find out they like someone else?
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Oct 4 2006, 04:56 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
huh. Can someone say "rebound?"
Out of courtesy to your current BF and the girls that would be willing to date him because of HIM and not because they're trying to get over their ex... let him go. And get over your ex. He pity dated you,... so there's really no rectifying the relationship. |
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Oct 4 2006, 04:57 PM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
if you don't feel that close to him, then why are you with him sweety?? but i think you should take a break from being in that relationship if you still feel something for your ex.
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Oct 4 2006, 05:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,786 |
Well, my current boyfriend is cheating on me to start off with.
And my ex seems to hate me a lot and he ignores me when I message him on MSN.  And my ex likes some girl from our school (its not me either) which stinks. 
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Oct 4 2006, 06:12 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
If he's cheating on you, why can't you just be honest and kick his ass to the curb? if you don't feel the "static" between both of you, and he's CHEATING on you, that's definitely a sign that this relationship should end. As for your ex.. I agree with funk.this. He pity dated you.. what else is there to add?
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