Guys, liars, cheaters, cold mistreaters, and the real good ones |
 Sep 20 2006, 12:27 PM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!!  Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933  |
Have you guys ever had a boyfriend who mistreated you so badly?
Me and that "great boyfriend" I thought I had just broke up because he cheated on me at a party. I found out 2 weeks later from John, the guy he went to the party with. |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 22 2006, 10:07 PM
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There were times where we had fights, but he was real sweet.
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Sep 23 2006, 08:31 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
yea...every relationship ive been in has been hell. the one im in now has been so much better even though right now we are in a bad bad bad time....we workin on it but i dunno if we can get over this one....
sorry to hear about your ex though, i dont see why people cheat. if you dont value a relationship you dont deserve to be in one. |
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Sep 25 2006, 06:24 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
QUOTE(misfit @ Sep 20 2006, 6:23 PM)  he also used to sleep in the same bed with his ex girlfriend a.k.a "bestfriend". I bet they did stuff. Oh well I ended up getting the guts to break up with him lol. I'm glad you dumped that creep. Nobody deserves that unless they do it themselves! *Proud of you* 
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Sep 25 2006, 07:23 PM
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 rejectedchik89 Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 413,245 |
hmmm
-one of them had a bad temper and sometimes made me cry -one of them loved my best friend and basically lied about the reason he was dumping me (the real reason was to date her). -and the one i have now...basically perfect...LOL |
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Sep 25 2006, 08:49 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
I've been f**ked around on, physically and sexually abused, molested and 1 of my boyfriends have tried to rape me, and a friend's friend as well. Among all the other, he lied to me, broke up with me, broke my heart as well.
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Sep 25 2006, 09:21 PM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
men are mischevious
QUOTE b' date='Sep 25 2006, 9:49 PM' post='2296434'] I've been f**ked around on, physically and sexually abused, molested and 1 of my boyfriends have tried to rape me, and a friend's friend as well. Among all the other, he lied to me, broke up with me, broke my heart as well. hunny you need to buy a knife a glove and a car, and put on that glove, stab him with a knife and put him in the trunk of the car and drive it off the cliff. |
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Sep 26 2006, 03:53 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
Well, actually all my ex boyfriends, except for one, have treated me very badly. My first boyfriend cheated on me and didn't have the nerve to just ignore me until I broke up with him. My second boyfriend pretended like he was the sweetest guy when really he was the biggest jerk ever since he always called me the worst girlfriend ever and yelling at me over little things like signing off aim before he wanted me to go. Then my last boyfriend was mad at me for breaking up with him that he tried to guilt me into making him feel bad by saying that he was gonna commit suicide and blame it on me.
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Sep 26 2006, 06:13 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
QUOTE(steph s. @ Sep 25 2006, 4:23 PM) -one of them loved my best friend and basically lied about the reason he was dumping me (the real reason was to date her). I have that happen to me.. his name was kody.. her name was andrea...that hurts like hell. he told me the reason he was dumpin me was because I was too controlling. That was a lie!  But he broke up with her for some reasons.. Don't know all details.. I got a new b/f now.. Everyone calls him Smurf.. He's got blue hair....  QUOTE(pandamonium @ Sep 25 2006, 6:21 PM) hunny you need to buy a knife a glove and a car, and put on that glove, stab him with a knife and put him in the trunk of the car and drive it off the cliff. make sure you get outta the car first! 
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Sep 26 2006, 06:34 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Yeah. You won't believe the ridiculous relationships I've let myself be in. One used to hit me because he felt I was being "too friendly" with my guy friends and he didn't want me hanging out with them (which was bullshit I ONLY had guy friends); another one wanted to know where I am ALL THE TIME and he loved to make me feel this little; another cheated a lot, based on what my best friend told me, and the most recent ex lied to me like no other human being would and he promised me so many things which, of course, turned out to be nothing more than pathetic lies. That one hurt the most, because I actually thought he was "the one".
But not all guys are like that. The guy I'm with now treats me like no one else ever has. |
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Sep 27 2006, 12:11 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
QUOTE(pandamonium @ Sep 25 2006, 7:21 PM) hunny you need to buy a knife a glove and a car, and put on that glove, stab him with a knife and put him in the trunk of the car and drive it off the cliff. crazy bitch! |
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Sep 28 2006, 12:30 PM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
QUOTE b' date='Sep 25 2006, 5:49 PM' post='2296434'] I've been f**ked around on, physically and sexually abused, molested and 1 of my boyfriends have tried to rape me, and a friend's friend as well. Among all the other, he lied to me, broke up with me, broke my heart as well. I'm sure things will get better soon |
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Sep 28 2006, 05:15 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I think I've only had 2 really bad boyfriends.
I mean, they just were really bad choices. Never really was abused physically, but emotionally yes. |
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Oct 3 2006, 06:24 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
that's sad...
 ... guys are mean these days...
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Oct 3 2006, 07:43 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
QUOTE(princess*missy @ Oct 3 2006, 3:24 AM) that's sad... ... guys are mean these days...i know what you mena sweeety! i've been through hell back in highschool . all my bf's we're jerks!!! i only have 1 true boyfriend. and thats the one i have now. :) |
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Oct 3 2006, 07:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,786 |
My ex boyfriend basically used me, gave me a day chance, pity dated me and did things so I'd hate him.
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Oct 3 2006, 08:44 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
no. =]]]
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Oct 4 2006, 01:39 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Sep 26 2006, 7:34 AM) Yeah. You won't believe the ridiculous relationships I've let myself be in. One used to hit me because he felt I was being "too friendly" with my guy friends and he didn't want me hanging out with them (which was bullshit I ONLY had guy friends); another one wanted to know where I am ALL THE TIME and he loved to make me feel this little; another cheated a lot, based on what my best friend told me, and the most recent ex lied to me like no other human being would and he promised me so many things which, of course, turned out to be nothing more than pathetic lies. That one hurt the most, because I actually thought he was "the one". But not all guys are like that. The guy I'm with now treats me like no one else ever has. ack, and I thought I had terrible relationships... |
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Oct 4 2006, 03:50 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Lol i never cheated , not litterally though. xD Long story
And i never got cheated on, since ive only been in NONE really serious relationships. havent got cheated on in a "normal" relationship either , though. |
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Oct 4 2006, 09:14 AM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(No Fear @ Oct 4 2006, 2:39 AM) ack, and I thought I had terrible relationships... Are mine really that bad? 
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 4 2006, 12:22 PM
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QUOTE(princess*missy @ Sep 20 2006, 6:27 PM) Have you guys ever had a boyfriend who mistreated you so badly? Me and that "great boyfriend" I thought I had just broke up because he cheated on me at a party. I found out 2 weeks later from John, the guy he went to the party with. Your boyfriend seems perfect next to my ex...(kidding but mine was pretty worse) He got me pregnant and then when i told him he said he didn believe me(actually his best friend was telling him many lies about me and he believed her), so he never cared to know if i was ok what was going on with his son.. anyway..since then whenever i date guys they don't go further on.. i mean this "magic" phrase: u know i've a kid makes them run..  But I there are also nice guys..
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Oct 4 2006, 03:42 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE b' date='Sep 25 2006, 9:49 PM' post='2296434'] I've been f**ked around on, physically and sexually abused, molested and 1 of my boyfriends have tried to rape me, and a friend's friend as well. Among all the other, he lied to me, broke up with me, broke my heart as well. Why did you stay with him? One of my exes completely lead me on and turned it all on me and made it seem like I was the abuser. He tried to talk shit about me to my best friend and told everyone our story, of course he made himself out to be the victim and of course everyone took his side. He left out all the broken dates (we only saw each other a handful of times during the about 8 months we were "together"), the shady Valentine's Day bullshit (he refused to see me because he wanted to get a haircut that day  ), the whole using the truth against me (I was very honest and he decided to throw it all in my face), and other stuff I have long since forgotten.One of my most recent ones turned out to be a psychopath. But prior to that, he was still terrible. I always had to go see him, I always had to wake up early in the morning, jump on the train to his place just to be greeted by his "why the f**k are you so late?" nonsense. Once, he refused to let me in because I didn't bring condoms. By the way, the sex was always painful and after awhile, he stopped caring. When I finally got the courage to get out, he kept threatening suicide and actually tried to commit suicide, I was blamed for it (he failed), he stalked me, threatened my life and I had to get a restraining order. To this day, I'm upset that I prayed for him that night because as cold as it sounds, I wish that he did f**king die. |
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Oct 5 2006, 06:31 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 4 2006, 9:22 AM) Your boyfriend seems perfect next to my ex...(kidding but mine was pretty worse) He got me pregnant and then when i told him he said he didn believe me(actually his best friend was telling him many lies about me and he believed her), so he never cared to know if i was ok what was going on with his son.. anyway..since then whenever i date guys they don't go further on.. i mean this "magic" phrase: u know i've a kid makes them run.. But I there are also nice guys.. yeah... I agree there are nice guys out there.. you just have to search for them.. but I'm sure one day you'll find a guy who will be man enough to take care of your kid... your ex just needs to grow up... and one day he'll realize that and he'll realize what he left behind.. but you will already have moved on!!!
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