Am I ready?, for another relationship? |
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 Sep 27 2006, 06:11 PM
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 roosternamedingo.  Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926  |
The story..
Me and my first love broke up about 2 months ago. I still have feelings for him, although it's not nearly as much as it used to be. I recently started dating. I'm currently dating a boy I like quite a bit, but I feel uncomfortable..as if I'm not ready for this. At least, not yet. I was thinking about "ending" it or at least going on a break..should I? Thanks.. =] |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 27 2006, 06:19 PM
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I personally think you should take a break from it all. But then again people deal with break-ups differently. I'd rather just take a break from boys and just hang with the friends and enjoy the other things in life, ya know?
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| *Infinite.* |
Sep 27 2006, 07:07 PM
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Don't get in a relationships with someone if you still have feelings for a former lover. In a way your kind of using them to get over the last person...How would you feel if you were being used? Pretty much all you need to do is put yourself in the position of the new person and how your treating them, and if your having a feelings for someone else. How would you feel if you really liked someone and then to find out they like someone else?
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Sep 27 2006, 07:29 PM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
^ true.. I feel bad now. I guess I'll just end it.
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Sep 27 2006, 08:50 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Why should you let us tell you what to do? =P
Ok. You're obviously unsure and insecure. So I would suggest backing off for a little bit. Going out with somebody while having feelings for somebody else is a bad idea. I did that last summer and it didn't lead anywhere. So take time to get over it, and voila. |
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| *Infinite.* |
Sep 27 2006, 10:36 PM
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Like Josh would say, if your young. Then you should be having the time of your life and just have some fun and date around and see what you like and what you don't.
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Sep 28 2006, 12:04 AM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
well if you're feeling uncomfortable because you just recently got out of a relationship that you're not quite over yet, make sure your boyfriend now knows this. i'm sure it won't change a lot seeing as you just started dating and you both like each other. just make sure he knows what you've been through. he should understand.
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Sep 28 2006, 01:29 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
end it and take a break from guys for awhile.
sort out your feelings for your ex first. |
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Sep 28 2006, 11:58 PM
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No, you're not ready for a f**king relationship.
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Sep 29 2006, 02:54 PM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
^
 sorry...swear words make me laugh. Anyway..thanks for the advice guys..it's all sorted out
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Sep 29 2006, 10:22 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
end it NOW. that happend to me back in freshman year i felt so bad because i didnt like my boyfriend because i still liked this other dude and it ended up badly...
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Sep 30 2006, 09:17 AM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
^ I did yesterday
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 30 2006, 09:39 AM
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Yeah, um.. you don't sound ready. I mean, cmon you said yourself you still had feelings for the guy. Wait until your feelings reside... then go back to dating.
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Sep 30 2006, 10:01 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
I would have to say no because you are still in love with the last person that you went out with. I mean what the f**k. :-/
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Sep 30 2006, 04:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
dont let the feeling of your ex interfier with your relationship.. there is a reason why hes called your ex. and theres a reason why your in a new relationship.... just give it time.
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Sep 30 2006, 05:14 PM
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Priscilla Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 463,856 |
I think if you're having to ask someone else, you're not ready. If you feel uncomfortable, that's a telltale sign right there. Go on break for a bit, and when you feel you're ready, go for it.
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Oct 1 2006, 05:51 AM
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 B0SNiAN CHiCkk Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 371,574 |
idk;;
hmmm |
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 3 2006, 09:17 AM
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I KNOW WHAT THIS FEELS LIKE..So you still have feelings for your ex but you find the other boy cute too. It's obvious that you still haven't gonne off him. What I suggest you is to tell the other guy that you'd like to get to know him as a friend.
 So, u will be able to have anew friend, you'll know that you aren't using him and who knows!maybe you'll discover that he's a really nice guy and you'll start forgetting you ex.Whatever you do, don't stress yourself. U shouldn't hurry a new relationship.
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