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 Oct 1 2006, 12:14 AM
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 Because i said so  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144  |
I'm having a little trouble finding out what I'm feeling towards a boy. Do i love him? Or do i like him?
Ever since 6th grade, i've (liked/loved) him(im a freshman) I always think about him, I'm worried about him when i don't see his smile. I dream about him. I always wish for his happiness, sometimes even if it doesn't include me in the picture. When i try leaving him in the past, he always ends up back in my life. I'm mostly myself when he's around me. I'm never scared to look into his eyes. He's not exactly a looker, nor is he kind. I've looked past his words and always found out what he really means. Above all, I can't do anything because I'm too afraid to hear the same answer I've heard too many times before. If i know what's really going on, it'll probably help me deal with this. |
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Oct 1 2006, 12:33 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
it sounds like... love. but whether it's REAL love, or just obsession or deep infatuation, depends on if you know him well. believe me, i was obsessed with this one guy a few years ago, and he moved, and i thought i'd never get over him. but i didnt KNOW him, so i didn't think it really counted as love.
but if you know this guy for who he is, his good and bad points, i think it is a good founded love. but also... if he doesn't treat you well, then you should try to move onto different guys, because he's not the only one out there, even though it sounds corny... |
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Oct 1 2006, 01:03 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
I think you like him alot, but he's not the one. But I also think that if he wasn't in your life, you would probably break down because you rely on him alot. And you love being with him because you can be you when you're with him.
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| *Infinite.* |
Oct 1 2006, 01:29 AM
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Well perhaps this topic may help, its a pretty old topic if you could love at our age, young love and that type of thing but It went through and kind of goes in to what love is and so on. Perhaps find others opinions of what love is and what love isn't and compare. I've seen people do that before:
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...2823&st=125 other link: http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...132129&st=0 Honestly from what I got from your post, makes me think of one of my old guys friends. His name is Sam, I remember how like if I would put him in the past he would always end up back in my life somehow or another. Its odd how those things happen, although eventually he ended up out of my life and I don't think I want him back in my life now. I hate to say this, but I think its just a young relationship and your getting so caught in your feelings its like a roller coaster and you love this feeling and you feel so much like if you love this feeling then you may love this person and thats the perfect explanation. I think your exploring and find who you are and figuring out what you want out of someone. So in the end I think you just like him a ton, but nothing like love. And when its love you'll know for a fact, because you had this relationship to compare the feelings too. Perhaps you could be in love, only you can know. |
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Oct 1 2006, 01:30 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE it sounds like... love. but whether it's REAL love, or just obsession or deep infatuation
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Oct 1 2006, 04:11 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I agree about the whole deep infatuation. That's what it sounds like to me, judging by your post.
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Oct 1 2006, 09:01 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Let me put it this way: if you question it, you're not in love. When you are, you won't need to ask strangers about it.
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 1 2006, 12:40 PM
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QUOTE(Infinite. @ Oct 1 2006, 7:29 AM)  . So in the end I think you just like him a ton, but nothing like love. And when its love you'll know for a fact, because you had this relationship to compare the feelings too. Perhaps you could be in love, only you can know. i agree  time will show what you really feel about him swettie 
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Oct 1 2006, 07:09 PM
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Because i said so Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144 |
Thanx for helping me with that, i guess i'm not really in love with him. I just hope he's out of my life as soon as possible so i can move on. I think im gunna go crazy since i have to see him every single day in school.
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Oct 1 2006, 07:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
ask him out
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