Why do girls care so much about the body and athleticism Options

[*videogamsta*]

Sure that might be important for girls, but how about the looks, how fresh they dress, and the personality!! That's even more important!! you girls need to step ya game up on choosing guys .. just because they press 300 + and have a 6 pack being a great athlete dosent mean shit if he dosent know how to dress or dosent look good with a terrible attitude ..

that's why so many white high school freshman girls too many of them go for those football players, jocks, they want a tough guy .. that's a shame ..

[x_curse_of_the_c...]

i think it's more important to have a good personality than looks.



but i don't go for the jocks i go for emo/scene boys.

[lovescream]

i don't really give a shit if they have a six pack or not. sometimes, six packs even SCARE me. haha, i am weird, yes, but i'd go for basically any guy. =\ when i say i go for personality, i really do. but i also go for looks, not body or athleticism. XD okay, maybe not if he was extremely fat.. but you know what i mean?

[OhMyAnniee]

Actually, if a guy has a six pack.. usually girls would just say that he's like really hot or something like that, because usually those guys are typically either jerks or they have to many girl friends. Most of the guys I go for are like super nice to me & they make me laugh.. because I love guys that can make me laugh.

But also, don't alot of guys go for girls just because they're 'hot'?

[think!IMAGINARIL...]

i don't really give a shit if they have a six pack or not. sometimes, six packs even SCARE me.

Same here. Being too muscular is scary.

And besides, superficial girls go for the hot guys. Sometimes really superficial people can be really snobby and bitchy. You wouldn't want that type of person.

IMO, Personality > Looks. Even if the guy is the hottest guy in the world, I wouldn't go out with him if he didn't have a good personality.

[*suddenly she*]

i dont' know too many guys with a body of steel and terrible fashion taste.

so anyway, tell us something we don't know. guys do the same thing as well, don't they?

[Serendipity]

Same here. Being too muscular is scary.

And besides, superficial girls go for the hot guys. Sometimes really superficial people can be really snobby and bitchy. You wouldn't want that type of person.

IMO, Personality > Looks. Even if the guy is the hottest guy in the world, I wouldn't go out with him if he didn't have a good personality.

I agree. Looks aren't everything, and I'd rather go out with someone I can relate to. And who cares if they have a six pack? Big deal.

[angelrevelation]

not all girls care about athleticism... just looks in general they can be super skinny and the biggest weaklings and still be cute. i personally hate beefy guys.

and arent clothes part of looks too?

but most of all... personality is what keeps you, what makes it genuine LIKING.

[*suddenly she*]

^x2
six packs are fun. you can draw in the creases with permanent marker. *shrug*
yeah, my significant other and i have a really bizarre relationship. i wish i had triceps to draw on.

[*My Cinderella.*]

Eh, six packs are nice and all. But personality is key.

[Joss-eh-lime]

well since people dont pass out a list of their good qualities and a description of their personality people go by what they see and thats looks. who they are attracted to whether its the nerdy guy, or the football player, it depends.

[loveTWOhateTWO]

...okay, so your idea is to only go out with guys with good looks and clothing style? well i'm sorry, but they're going to be older someday, and their old looks will fade away, and their ability to "dress fashionably" will be far from existent. i think it matters more to have a good personality, because that stays for a very very long time.

and EXCUSE ME!

"that's why so many white high school freshman girls too many of them go for those football players, jocks, they want a tough guy .. that's a shame .."

ahem... im sure people of different races like tough guys too. and i'm sure a fuckload of white girls DON'T like super muscular jock guys... i'm one of them.

[*Kathleen*]

Sure that might be important for girls, but how about the looks, how fresh they dress, and the personality!! That's even more important!! you girls need to step ya game up on choosing guys .. just because they press 300 + and have a 6 pack being a great athlete dosent mean shit if he dosent know how to dress or dosent look good with a terrible attitude ..

that's why so many white high school freshman girls too many of them go for those football players, jocks, they want a tough guy .. that's a shame ..

The same reason certain guys go for skinny girls with boobs.

[roses_are_r.e.d.]

i think it's more important to have a good personality than looks.



but i don't go for the jocks i go for emo/scene boys.

I agree.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

shit if he dosent know how to dress or dosent look good with a terrible attitude ..

your contradicting yourself. you dont like athletes but you wanna a guy that looks good?
but i know what your saying and i totally agree with you i way prefer a guys personality but hey if hes good looking thats just a plus to the package! but guys are so concieded (some) and go out with the skinny bitches who act like the next paris hiltons of america. i see them going down the hallway saying \"oo thats hot thats hot!\" and showing half there boobs and butt cheeks ugh gross i feel like barfing....guys nowindays only care about looks and so do girls.

[*mipadi*]

...okay, so your idea is to only go out with guys with good looks and clothing style? well i'm sorry, but they're going to be older someday, and their old looks will fade away, and their ability to "dress fashionably" will be far from existent.

Not if he's George Clooney.

[loveTWOhateTWO]

^lol, wouldn't that be nice?

unfortunately, age makes people "decay"


who knows? maybe that^ guy was considered hot stuff back in the days of his youth *shrugs*

[***Lucy**]

...okay, so your idea is to only go out with guys with good looks and clothing style? well i'm sorry, but they're going to be older someday, and their old looks will fade away, and their ability to "dress fashionably" will be far from existent. i think it matters more to have a good personality, because that stays for a very very long time.

and EXCUSE ME!

"that's why so many white high school freshman girls too many of them go for those football players, jocks, they want a tough guy .. that's a shame .."

ahem... im sure people of different races like tough guys too. and i'm sure a fuckload of white girls DON'T like super muscular jock guys... i'm one of them.

I agree.

My ex-bf was the most handsome boy in school. He dressed in perfectly cool clothes and he was really fit. Though, he got me pregnant and then he broke up with me coz he was told various lies that i was cheating on him. I guess maturity and trusting each other are more important in a relationship than the good looks.

[lyin_in_wait]

that's why so many white high school freshman girls too many of them go for those football players

so thats why im dating a football player....because im white??? because im stupid???? even when i was a freshman i knew other white girls who wanted nothing to do with the team. thank you...

uh no. us WHITE GIRLS dont only go for football players. nor do we dream about them 24/7. but how can you sit there and bash girls when guys who walk down the street and see a chick with her ass out of her skirt and her boobs poppin out of her low cut shirt they go damnnnnn. but when a women who actually wears clothes that cover her they pass it up like its nothing. or call her prude

[me1issaaaa]

Um, white girls don't always like the jocks. I don't. I just like to feel protected, but every girl does, white or not. We want to feel secure and we want a guy who can take care of us if a bad situation rolls around.

For instance, many guys have told me that they feel a bit intimidated by my boyfriend, because he's so big. They call him a "beast"... which is really good for little dainty me. Oh, and he's not a jock, he's more of the modern-day hippie type.

[Shahin]

Sure that might be important for girls, but how about the looks, how fresh they dress, and the personality!! That's even more important!! you girls need to step ya game up on choosing guys .. just because they press 300 + and have a 6 pack being a great athlete dosent mean shit if he dosent know how to dress or dosent look good with a terrible attitude ..

that's why so many white high school freshman girls too many of them go for those football players, jocks, they want a tough guy .. that's a shame ..

You seem kinda jealous.

[gelionie]

That's just what you think.
Not all girls are like that.

[pinayprincess]

has it occured to you that not all girls have the same taste in guys? and that not all guys play football? you judge people you dont even know, not all jocks / 'people who play sports in HS' are assholes... im not WHITE but maybe girls wanna dress the way they dress because of their style; GET YA FACTS STRAIGHT

[Gigi]

Here's my theory. I have stranger-crushes on people that are physically attractive. Like, I'll see a cute guy in the hallway and develop a little crush on them. That doesn't necessarily mean that I would want to go out with them (although that wouldn't hurt - haha). I sincerely think that personality is more important.

All of the "real" guys that I've liked - none of them are the best looking guys out there. But they're all the best guys in general that I've known. They're funny, charming, we share the same kinds of interests. I would hate to go out with a guy that has a six pack and nice shoulders, only to have him talk about football all day.