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 Sep 23 2006, 09:21 PM
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my boyfriend just texted me from a party asking me if he can go clubbing .. should i be worried? don't people go clubbing to hook up with other people?? or am i just paranoid?
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Sep 23 2006, 09:41 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
I think you should trust him. If you don't... go with him.
If he ends up hooking up with someone, then he's not worth your time anyways. |
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Sep 23 2006, 09:44 PM
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 the bird and the bee sides! Group: Member Posts: 1,697 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,280 |
QUOTE poised' date='Sep 23 2006, 7:41 PM' post='2293517'] I think you should trust him. If you don't... go with him. If he ends up hooking up with someone, then he's not worth your time anyways. ^ Good point. If he's disloyal enough to hook up with someone else, well, that's his problem. If he's trustworthy, and serious about your relationship, then he wouldn't do it. But you never know. |
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Sep 23 2006, 10:15 PM
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I don't think you should be worried about if you know you trust him and hes not going to cheat on your or anything
maybe this topic will help you? http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...=137093&hl= People could go clubbing to just have fun you know. Some people need to go partying to get some relief from the presures of the week to just have some good fun. |
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Sep 23 2006, 10:43 PM
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 Dr. Phil McGraw Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,015 |
Contrary to popular belief, clubbing does not always equal meeting a girl, or a guy, and heading to their place subsequently to have some fun. It can just mean having some fun hanging out with your girl or gal pals.
However, it may mean he is dancing, or grinding, with another girl or not. Dr. Phil is not sure if you, as a girl, find that acceptable from your boyfriend, but Dr. Phil is sure most girlfriends wouldn't. Dr. Phil doesn't think you should be all worried and paranoid about him going clubbing, although it is perfectly normal to be a tad bit worried. If he is a faithful boyfriend, Dr. Phil is sure he wouldn't do anything that will negatively affect your relationship. Remember to keep a positive attitude and trust! One of the most pivotal factors in a relationship is trust. 
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Sep 23 2006, 10:56 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
^WTF?! dr. phil...uhmm wow haha
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Sep 23 2006, 10:58 PM
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Dr. Phil McGraw Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,015 |
Dr. Phil questions what is so "WTF?!" about Dr. Phil's identity.
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Sep 23 2006, 11:00 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Well. In his past has he hooked up with other girls through clubs and what not? Do you not trust him?
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Sep 24 2006, 01:03 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
What are you worrying about? At least he asked you. If he was going to do something, he wouldn't have asked you.
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Sep 24 2006, 01:20 AM
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 You say you eat fucking hearts for breakfast. Group: Member Posts: 662 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,026 |
From what I know about club goers, it seems that girls usually go clubbing with the intent of either just having fun with friends or to hook up with someone, while guys usually go with the sole intent of hooking up with someone.
But I suppose it's different with certain people. 
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Sep 24 2006, 01:34 AM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
yea as everyone else said if you trust him let him go. But sometimes people can get too crazy. If you dont want him then just tell him, next time he should of just invited you lol .
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Sep 24 2006, 03:09 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well he asked you for permission, so i think you should def. trust him
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Sep 24 2006, 11:02 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
i love clubbing! i used to ask my bf all the time before i go clubbin. but know i just tell him. he really doesnt care anymore because he knows i usually go out with my cousins, or my "girldfriends" (meaning my gay friends!) ahaha. i mean u are right some people go to clubs to look for a hook up. but actually alot of people go to clubs to have a fun time dancing, have a few drinks, and they are usually mostly with their friensd having a good time. :) but if you are worried, tell him how u feel and why you feel that way.
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Sep 25 2006, 12:56 PM
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stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
QUOTE(Dr. Phil @ Sep 23 2006, 11:58 PM)  Dr. Phil questions what is so "WTF?!" about Dr. Phil's identity. because obviously you're not the real dr. phil |
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Sep 25 2006, 08:00 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(nyctophiliac @ Sep 25 2006, 1:56 PM) because obviously you're not the real dr. phil Yes he is! 
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Sep 25 2006, 09:21 PM
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cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Sep 25 2006, 9:00 PM) Yes he is! lol imma come in here a be ellen watch out for me. |
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Sep 25 2006, 11:20 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
dancing is dancing. even if it is "freak" dancing half the time. it took me a while to get over it. it's paranoia, but nothing to be afraid about. if you trust him, and he has respect for you, don't worry about anything. it's just all the "what if's" that really let our guards down sometimes. don't worry though
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Sep 26 2006, 12:40 AM
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 Tiara Girl Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 373,477 |
I have been clubbing often, and from my experience...95 percent of the guys are there to meet girls. I, and my friends, go there to dance, but most guys are there for different reasons. Think about it logically, clubbing is mainly for dancing, and how many guys out there actually like to dance? Not many. I'm not saying you shouldn't trust him. I'm saying, if your guy has ever said he hates dancing, you might want to figure out why he's going. If he likes dancing, then he's probably just there to dance.
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Sep 26 2006, 02:54 AM
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^
You are awesome. |
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Sep 26 2006, 09:46 AM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Sep 24 2006, 2:03 AM) What are you worrying about? At least he asked you. If he was going to do something, he wouldn't have asked you. This is a really good piont... I wouldn't worry at all. I honestly am not the clubbing type. I have been to them, but it wasn't very fun to me. It did seem like a place where people just go to pick up girls, but I'm not the clubbing type and I'm sure that people who like to go clubbing doit for other reasons. |
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Sep 26 2006, 10:01 AM
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It comes down to trust, like everyone else said. If you trust him, it should be fine. Heck, he asked you! That's great!
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Sep 27 2006, 03:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,389 |
NOT ALL THE TIME...THATS GOOD HE IS ASKING 4 YOUR PERMISSION
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