Friendship Problems Options

[helloxtine]

okies so my friend and i have been like great friends for about a year... but then i told a girl that spreads a lot of rumors on accident who my friend like b/c it slipped my mind since we were talking about hooking people up. she's mad at me now, but last year i KNOW she told a bunch of people who I liked... then in gym we also were playing floor hockey on opposite teams and she hit me on accident... i know it was her... then in the locker room i bumped into her on the back and then she told everybody i KICKED her! now she's telling everybody all this BS about me and trying to get a war on with me when im trying to keep it a me and her arguement.. what should i do? i don't want to drag my other friends in the mess b/c she's trying to tell them stuff about me so they's hate me when she was part of the stuff i did too..

[lovescream]

Punch her boobs and tell her to stop the f**king drama. If she told everyone last year, you pretty much have the right to tell some people this year *even though it was by accident* without her getting all pissy with you.

[_sarcastic_]

ignore her. seriously, if your other friends were true friends, they wouldn't just judge one side of the story.

[Simba]

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[Dr. Phil]

Dr. Phil recommends the best thing to do in this situation is to give a cold shoulder. The more you reply or take interesting in things she does, the more she is going to do. Dr. Phil suggests you just forget about it, move on, and act as if nothing happened!

Cheers!

[alannajean]

^ Haha good one.

Anyways if I was in your situation, I wouldn't talk to her for awhile and give her time to cool off. It's her problem that she's acting this way even though you told my accident. She's making this into a bigger deal than it is. It's just a crush, seriously. She needs to get over it. But I hope you two make up soon!

[helloxtine]

more to add on... i have a lot of drama going on
so i've been ignoring her the whole weekend on aim and then she suddenly IMs me and starts this more stuff. Last year when i was in a problem with another girl [we made up though] she was like that girl's "best friend" i told one of my friends that she keeps running to her now when last year she would gossip to me about her when we gossiped... and now she's saying that it's my fault that she gossiped about her... i told her if you were her friend then you should have tried to stop me or ignore me... i've tried ignoring her but she keeps on getting on my back

[loveTWOhateTWO]

Okay, so this chick is obviously really immature. So just tell her to leave you alone, and that you didn't mean to tell the other chick who she likes. I mean BIG DEAL. If she can't handle people knowing who she likes, then I don't think she really even likes the person enough for the feeling to matter anyway. And if she's going to make a big deal about something as small as this, then she's probably not a very loyal friend anyway, and she wouldn't be worth enough to be your friend.

[helloxtine]

thanks for all your help... i was pretty much able to make up thanks :]