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 Sep 20 2006, 09:12 PM
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Ok well usually my oyfriend will say "love u" at the end of a text message,to my phone. And anyway lastnight when we were on the phone,he was like i've gotta go watch my tv show,which i thought fair enough coz one of his fav shows was on...Then he rang me just before he went to bed and said just wanted to let you know I love you and I was like oh that's sweet, I love you too..And then I said...is there anything wrong,because you never just ring to say that lol and he goes yeah I do and no there is nothing wrong. And then he was like anyway i've gotta go to sleep and this is costing heaps(coz he was ringing from his mobile) and I was like ok and we sdaid goodnight. Then at 7:30am the smorning he sent me a message saying "I hope I haven't woken you,I love you sweetheart,I don't really have anything else to say,love u."
I had woken up just before he sent that message, he's at work at that time of the smorning,o sometimes if he getst he chance he will send me a message,he sends me one every day without fail.But I dunno, I asked him in a message,if there was anything wrong and I even said do you feel guilty or something lol and he goes "No nothing is wrong, gees a guy can't win if i dont call u say, y dont u call, love u." Am I just being paranoid? One of my friends and my mum said to me I am just eing paranoid...But I can't help but think his feeling guilty or something... I dunno maybe he was just ringing me to tell me he loves me before he goes to bed and I supposeh e does text me saying "love you darling night" nearly every night..BAnd maybe he just was bored at work and wanted me to wake up to that message in the morning.. I don't know...what do you think??? Thanks sorry this is long! |
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| *digital.fragrance* |
Sep 20 2006, 09:15 PM
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I say you have to trust him - he's done nothing to make you not trust him, has he? I think that's just really sweet - allow him to sweep you off your feet
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Sep 20 2006, 09:17 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
... what's the problem?
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Sep 20 2006, 09:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 251 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 280,259 |
Lol what ^??
Well in the past he has made me feel like I can't trust him., but he's made up for that and back then he was just confused about he's feelings... I'm really insecure, I read his messages and what not still. I do trust him but I always worry that there's something going on behind my back. Doesn't help when I think really negatively all the time I suppose and I found it hard to trust people now anyway. |
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Sep 22 2006, 01:49 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't get too paranoid this time, let it slide a little and see if he does anything that might be you know suspicious...
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 22 2006, 08:34 AM
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Yes, you are being overly paranoid... I would just talk to him about it. It may make you feel better even though you will probably feel better. Whatever you do, it seems like it really upset you. You need to let it out somehow or else it may turn into a big problem. Talk to him about how you feel. Tell him you are insecure about the way he feels towards you. Help him understand you. If he doesn't understand you he will just get really annoyed and frustrated.
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| *This Confession* |
Sep 22 2006, 03:48 PM
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 When I read the title, I thought Josh had come by and made a topic in here. Anyway Deary, for the whole time I've been on createblog I've always seen you in either myspace or here. So I think I've gotten to know you a bit, is this the same boyfriend that you've had for quite a while? But to answer your question, yes you are being quite paranoid. He's just being a caring boyfriend and wants you to know he loves you and such. Maybe your just thinking way to far in to things, I do that at times. So its normal I suppose. Just trust him that nothings bothering him and he just wants you to know that he loves you and loves giving you those simple reminders. 
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Sep 24 2006, 12:29 PM
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Sounds like your being paranoid. When guys really care about girls they do start to do things like that. He doesn't have to have a reason. trust him. It doesn't sound like theres anything to worry about at all.
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Sep 25 2006, 02:02 AM
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You sound very paranoid. I think the guy just truly wants to tell you that he loves you, so just accept it lol.
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Sep 25 2006, 07:25 PM
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 rejectedchik89 Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 413,245 |
sounds to me like he just loves you (maybe more now and that's why he says it more?).
-OR- not to be mean but maybe he did something wrong and feels guilty..but it's prob the first one |
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Sep 26 2006, 12:01 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
he says it all the time. he loves you, thats all that matters. yes you are being super paranoid...
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