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 Sep 18 2006, 12:34 PM
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Well let's start from the beginning... A friend of mine is dating this girl, who I believe is cool and pretty, and easy to talk to... They seem to be happy... I'm not sure about their whole relationship... But lately, she and I have been talking a little more... I've actually started talking to her more about getting to know someone else, a friend that she knows. It's not like I am using her to get to someone else, it's just that she is helping me meet her friend... Well, my best friend, my brother and a few others say that she likes me. I asked how they knew and they said that she looks at me flirting, and she acts a little flirtish when I am around... I told them that I don't think so because 1, she has a boyfriend, 2 she has always acted like that towards me... They said sure... But I do have a confession, I do like her too... But her boyfriend is too good a friend to do that to, but I kinda want to know... Maybe you guys can help a little... A couple of weeks ago, when we went out as a group, I paid for her and her friend's dinner and her bf was there and he didnt mind... Last night, we went out to get sushi and she looked at me and handed her bill to me... It wasnt much and I dont mind, but is that a sign? I don't want her bf to hear rumors that I paid her dinner and I am taking her out, because we are going out as a group... Maybe I'm looking too into this, and maybe I am not, but from my best friend of over 10 years to tell me that, I don't ignore it... Of course, you guys are thinking, why don't you just ask her? Because of the fact that I don't want her bf to think anything bad about her, like she flirts alot with his friends and you know? I don't want to cause any problems between them and of course between me and them... I'm supposed to go and see her tonight at her job, where she is supposed to get me free food... Is that bad? I'm going with my best friend so its not like I'm only going... Any advice? |
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Sep 18 2006, 02:08 PM
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 another victim of love Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 |
Well um, thats kinda hard lol but im gonna try.
It seems like ya'll are just going out as friends, cuz she is helping you like hook up with a grl right ? so that means she knows you like someone else & not her. But then again it seems like ya'll flirt? But she has a boyfriend so i htink you should just wait, because that is your friends girlfriend. & just put yourself in his position. How would you feel if you girlfriend was going out with your friend that kinda likes her ? & if she does like you & ya'll are going out as "more than friends" then she's being unfaithful, because she has a boyfriend but she's still going out & flirting with you. If ya'll date, what if she does that to you ? |
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Sep 18 2006, 05:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
These days, I truly believe that if a girl likes you, you'd know already. If I was her, I'd probably see you as like a person that I could probably just hang out and really talk to, you know? I mean, I have guy friends that pay for my food and stuff too. She'd probably consider you to someone she really trusts.
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Sep 18 2006, 06:04 PM
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Faggot take some grammar classes.
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Sep 18 2006, 08:38 PM
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well dude your like really looking waaay to deep into this. the girl gave you her bill because she was a cheap ass and she didnt want to pay for herself, and her boyfriend is hella cheap thats why he didnt mind you paying for him. SMART GUY! your suppose to let the guy pay for HIS GIRLFRIEND not you what the hell are you some kinda money bank? And if this girl liked you so much you would have known by now and besides its better to keep your best guy friend then some girl because if she is flirting with you when she has a boyfriend what makes her stop flirting when ONE DAY she goes out with you? not the best choice...
1) you need to tell her to get the hell away from you and to start paying for HER FOOD the cheapass and tell her to take some book on REALTIONSHIP MORALS. shes really jacked up to be cheating on her boyfriend with his friend. 2) dont be unloyal to you friends because they really dont deserve it. |
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Sep 19 2006, 02:21 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 439,976 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Sep 18 2006, 7:04 PM)  Faggot take some grammar classes. who is this referred to? |
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Sep 19 2006, 07:50 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i think that you shouldn't make a move or anything. even if he was only a casual friend. try to make your boundaries known. like, a raised eyebrow and small frown whenever she flirts a little too much?
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