Gah. I messed up., . . . . . Options

[c4rL4]

i don't know what to do anymore.
i've been with this guy for 5 months ? i broke it off.
it was hurting me that he would constantly pick his friends over me.
we never had time and we always fight.

so that's over and done with.

and i started going out with this guy. . .
he treated me so well, but i knew my heart wasn't there.
or so i thought. . . i broke it off.
because i still liked my ex. i didn't even give it time.
c`mon, we only lasted for two weeks.
goshhh. -_- how pathetic could i get ?
now, i'm missing him like crazy.

he says he still likes me, but he just doesn't know.

i guess he doesn't want to get hurt again.

what should i do now ?

[OhMyAnniee]

wow. this is interesting because i broke up with a guy because he wouldn't let me spend time with my friends. ANYWAYS, you should show him how much he means to you. & if he says that he's going out with his friends, let him. he probably just wants to separate himself from "guy-time" and "girlfriend-time." like .. let him go out with his friends but call him afterwards. you should go out with your friends too. have fun, and he'll have fun & you guys will have millions of stories to tell each other!

[*krnxswat*]

So f**king mature.

[smileeetina]

You should just let him know that you regret it, and you still have feelings for him. (:

But think twice, cause, do you really want to go back to a relantionship to a guy who picks his friends over you? Best solution: let the feelings fade away. Build a bridge and get over it. :]

[II_noFOREVER]

wait, are you missing the 1st boyfriend (the one you were with for 5 months)? or the 2nd boyfriend (the one you were with for 2 weeks)?

[Mizz1Exquisite]

OK this guy is obviosley a jack ass so dont waste your time on him anymore stop wasting your thoughts on him and get back out there again be free .And for shit sake try staying in a relationship longer then 2 weeks.

[Synthetic.Love]

Uhm. Wow.

Maybe you should just stay away from relationships for a bit. It's bad to jump from one relationship to another. If you broke up with the second guy because you still liked your ex... It's difficult to know how you truly feel about the second one. Just take a break from relationships and give yourself some time to sort out your feelings: if you want a relationship or not, and if you do, with who?

If you're gonna choose your ex, just talk to him about it. Tell him you understand that he wants to be with his friends and all, but you need some "you" time, too. If he really cares about you, he'll find a way to make it work.

Good luck =]

[*krnxswat*]

It's okay; I mean, it's not your fault you're such a failure.

[*chaneun*]

^lmao

break up with both of them and become a recluse for the rest of your life. ;D

[Mizz1Exquisite]

Oh god just get over you're first boyfriend you are pathetic and you are obssesed with him honestly can you go any lower.

[Trinie]

give him another chance maybe??????

[*Pl-dot-lS*]

Relationships at your age rarely last. Don't stress yourself. I'm sure you'll just start liking another guy and go out with him for another two weeks.

[rAwritsgWeg]

I know im a guy, which makes me responding to this eh......weird but, im like in the same spot you are so I know how you feel. The most i can do is to say this. Keep your head up. Don't be looking at like the wrong and bad side of things. You gotta stay strong. I know its hard. trust me, im having trouble doing it at this moment in time. Im crying my ass off! but I know things will get better. You just(i know this sounds corny, but)believe in yourself. believe that you can get through this. The way i am is this. i have a saying that i follow."What doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger) What i mean is once you get through this, you will be a better, smarter, and stronger person than ever before. If you wanna talk or anything messasge me n myspace or cB. i should be back on this site relatively often


Good Luck. And remember what I said.
Keep your head up
trust me people are here for you
^-^

It's okay; I mean, it's not your fault you're such a failure.

Dude, thats some effed up crap. Leave her alone. Cant you see that shes having a hard time.
wow people these days. Im sorry but that is like extremely rude of you

[*krnxswat*]

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This post has been edited by KissMe2408: Sep 26 2006, 04:37 PM

[*suddenly she*]

^i'm so confused, mr. seon ho.

your sig says "don't judge me when you don't even know me."
it's going to happen, especially when you're asking for help through an online community.

i don't think you're mature enough to deal with relationships.
so get out of the relationship business for a while until you can handle stuff normally.

[*My Cinderella.*]

I might be going through the same thing as you. In my opinion, don't use someone else to get over your feelings. It's not fair to you or him. It takes time for a broken heart to heal. I haven't found the solution to my problem either so I'm sorry that I can't answer yours. You need time to sort out your emotions. Stay away from guys. Hang with the friends. Good luck to you.

[foxxyman]

^i'm so confused, mr. seon ho.

your sig says "don't judge me when you don't even know me."
it's going to happen, especially when you're asking for help through an online community.

i don't think you're mature enough to deal with relationships.
so get out of the relationship business for a while until you can handle stuff normally.

You're doing the same thing, "suddenly she." You don't even know me and you're judging me based on some dipshit online community, aren't you? And don't tell me what to do and what not to do.

(btw, this is Seon Ho).

[*Uronacid*]

You teaching her a secret to giving head, eh?
Truth. I mean, I wouldn't exactly know, but I wouldn't exactly want to swallow warm cum. How do YOU do it? You must definitely know. Do you think of it as some vanilla milkshake or something?


Yeah, that thing you suck on must be hard as hell.
Aww, why what's wrong? Those dicks too big for you to handle? They threaten to kill ya 'cause you can't deep throat?


Yeah, it's going to be okay. "Keep your head up."


Great attitude!


Yeah, I mean cum definitely doesn't kill you. And if you read the book Why Men Have Nipples, they present you with the nutritional facts of the sperm, and it has protein, too! So it definitely makes you stronger


Yeah, listen to this man. He's the real pro! Ladies, you know where to go for advice.
Not really!
I now officially declare you a homo because only homos use that face. Especially guy homos.
She's having a hard time? Like her nipples are hard and stuff? And her vaginas are moist and wet?

Wow, after saying soemthing like that... I'm surprised you haven't been banned yet... >.> Don't you think you're taking things a little to far... *sigh* like I have always said... "You're so intellegent."

Alright, anyways... back to the topic...


I think that you need to just get over your first boyfriend. If you can handle who he is then go back out with him, but you can't take him away from his friends. That's who he is. You have to either except him and be happy with the relationship or just say no to going out with him.

Also, don't go out with people if you aren't over your previous relationship.

[*suddenly she*]

You're doing the same thing, "suddenly she." You don't even know me and you're judging me based on some dipshit online community, aren't you? And don't tell me what to do and what not to do.

(btw, this is Seon Ho).

that wasn't my point. i was perfectly aware that i was judging her... but what i was trying to say was that if you're asking for help here, then what're you going to expect?
when a person acts like a moron, then without knowing anything else about her, we're just going to think she's a moron and treat her as one. here, she's asking for our way of handling the situation - our opinions... so there it is.

if you're not going to grow up anytime soon, then stop talking.

[foxxyman]

Haha, you're a funny man. Oops! I meant funny girl. It's not your fault you look like a boy in your myspace picture.

Btw, I don't care if you judge me or call me immature, call I know myself that I'm not.

So say all you want :)

*sigh* like I have always said... "You're so intellegent."

Why the f**k are you quoting what I said to make fun of you, dumb fucktard?

[*suddenly she*]

aw, my feelings got hurt.
haha, one of my friends i've known for ... three years now is still all "when did you become a woman?" because every record everyone has of me is from last year or so when i actually was mistaken as a guy every day

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