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 Sep 6 2006, 09:55 PM
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My best friend is dating a homocidal pervert and he already said he loved her twice and they've only been on one date. During that first date, he put his hand on her thigh and was tracing it and he would lift her shirt up and touch her randomly during the movie. She didn't know what to do so she laughed it off. I'm scared that he'll try to do worse things to her and she won't know what to do or how to say no. I'm also afraid because he's mumbled about murdering people before and has pictures of himself with knives and made cartoon pictures of him drenched in blood. I'm not even sure if he really likes her or not because after she told him she liked him he said, "I guess I like you too...but I didn't know it." He doesn't have many friends and hates everyone because no one wants to partner up with him during projects. I don't know what to do and I don't want to see her get hurt.
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Sep 6 2006, 10:03 PM
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you should really talk to her. if your friendship really means something to her and to you, she'll realize it. if she doesn't listen.. you can give her an intervention, except.. about him. you know?
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Sep 6 2006, 10:22 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Ok you have to stop this NOW. I don't want to say bad things, but this might end up REALLY BAD.
If she doesn't listen to you, PLEASE PLEASE tell her parents IMMEDIATELY! It should stop. I can't stress this enough. I have a really bad feeling about people like this.. They always end up in the newspaper. If you know what I mean. |
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Sep 6 2006, 10:31 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
i definitely agree. talk to her, talk to her parents, talk to her friends. this has to stop! hy would she date him in the first place? do whatever you can to help her out of this mess.
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Sep 6 2006, 11:44 PM
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there are always crazy people out there.
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Sep 7 2006, 12:37 AM
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definately talk to her about it.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 7 2006, 07:26 AM
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You should definately talk to her about this. It sounds like she doesn't sound that comfortable around him. Tell her what you told us. What Angelina Taylor said, if she doesn't listen to you then at least lt her parents know.
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Sep 7 2006, 08:56 AM
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 Lost In Stardust Group: Member Posts: 483 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 446,335 |
I wouldnt even tell her, id just tell her parents. Somethin is wrong with that guy seriously.
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Sep 7 2006, 12:20 PM
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WTF? That's CREEPY. You should definately tell her parents. Sure, your friend my get mad but who cares? You're doing this because you love her and you don't want her to end up in the newspaper as a victim to some murder.
You should tell her parents, most definately. Even if she gets mad at you, alerting her parents is a good step and she'll be grateful for it. But be careful! Don't let him come chase you. O_o. |
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Sep 7 2006, 09:00 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i wonder why she still likes him, or ever liked him in the first place
 ... anyways, as everyone said, try to reason with her first, then go to her parents. if that doesn't work, since she might just rebel...  i dunno
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Sep 7 2006, 09:05 PM
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Do whatever it takes to talk her out of seeing this guy, whether she finally gets it and gives up, or you have to tell her parents or the police, WHOEVER.
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Sep 7 2006, 09:20 PM
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Her parents already know she's dating him and they're fine with it. We've talked to her many times about this but apparently she says she knows what she's doing and she really likes him and he "loves" her. I'm scared that if he finds out we're trying to break them up or if she does break up with him, that he'll shoot us. If I tell the police, they can't really arrest him for anything because he didn't do anything illegal.
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Sep 7 2006, 10:19 PM
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im friends with this girl too. she says she loves him and doesnt know what she would do if they broke up. hes making her do stupid things. he convinced her that having a date on the freeway would be fun and he drinks. ive tried talking to her but she always yells at me when i do. she would do anything for him and thats what scares me. i think if he told her to stop talking to us she would.
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Sep 8 2006, 06:33 AM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(teddy_is_hot @ Sep 7 2006, 11:19 PM)  im friends with this girl too. she says she loves him and doesnt know what she would do if they broke up. hes making her do stupid things. he convinced her that having a date on the freeway would be fun and he drinks. ive tried talking to her but she always yells at me when i do. she would do anything for him and thats what scares me. i think if he told her to stop talking to us she would. HAHAHAHHAHA wow.. she's stupid. She "loves" him? HAHAHAHA.. That's just.. wow. Obviously some people can't distinguish a simple crush from love. Tell her to quit being stupid. |
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Sep 8 2006, 09:00 AM
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Man, what a strange guy... >.> do you ahve his myspace... I have to see all the blood and shit.. I guess I wally want to know how much of a freak this guy really is. xD
If he really is nuts: You need to get her away from this weirdo... but make sure this kid doesn't know you are the one who is breaking it off. Tell her parents, but do it behind her back when she isn't around. Do it in secret, and Mmake sure that they are willing to keep the fact that you told them a secret. You really don't want this weirdo hating on you if he really is homicidal. If you aren't to worried about it and you just feel that she is doing something she doesn't have to: Encourage her to get away from this dude as much as you can! O-o I just read some more of this thread... Your friend is stupid! You may need to let her learn her lesson... >.> |
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Sep 8 2006, 09:49 PM
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yeah you should definately talk to her because she's obviously uncomfortable about it too...at least thats the impression i got. but i'm kinda scared that he'd do something really freaky if she broke it off with him...maybe he isn't that crazy, maybe he is. so i dunno, just be careful. maybe she should even tell him over the phone? i dunno this is really hard.
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Sep 8 2006, 10:35 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 8 2006, 9:00 AM) I just read some more of this thread... Your friend is stupid! You may need to let her learn her lesson... >.> By getting touched and not knowing what to do? :( |
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Sep 9 2006, 07:12 PM
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uronacid, note the word "homocidal" in the topic title, and read what people write next time. he's a pervert and he drinks. he basically has her on a leash, yelling at her friends.
it's not a good idea to learn a lesson from a guy like that. obviously talking to this girl is not helping. get the adults involved, like what angelina taylor said. |
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Sep 10 2006, 12:35 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
mmkay call me and i'll save ya - 911
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Sep 10 2006, 03:43 PM
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^why haven't you been warned yet?
quit acting like a ten-year-old. some of this actually matters to people and all you're doing is making fun of it. |
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