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 Sep 5 2006, 07:51 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3  Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474  |
What happens when the person yu like doesnt think of yu that way..Although yu guys are close all he thinks of yu is as a sister. And he says He's just not into having a relationship yet when you talk about girls...Waht the heck do yu do? I try forgetting about ever liking him but the feeling just doesn't go away.
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Sep 5 2006, 07:54 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
It is like the other guy's problem. He is just not into you. Not much you can do but be his sister like buddy.
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Sep 5 2006, 07:57 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
Wait it out, your feelings will change. And don't worry, one day you'll probably feel like he's a brother too. (:
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 5 2006, 08:10 PM
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Mm. Toughie. I agree with Kaycee, try waiting it out and push aside the love life--and have fu with your girlfriends!
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Sep 5 2006, 09:10 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
yeah, well crushes are kinda hard to crush.
the best cure is to find another infatuation. |
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Sep 5 2006, 09:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
i would wonder like if you two did get together, what would you guys be like? if you guys are so chill as " brother&sister, " wouldn't it be so weird if you guys dated? maybe your just the type of person that he can trust & really talk to.
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Sep 5 2006, 09:51 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
i think my best advice is just deal with it. you cant make him like you more than a friend maybe with time he can develop feelings for you but for now dont make your guys realtionship unconfortable by telling him that you like him. just give it time! GOOD LUCK!
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Sep 6 2006, 08:18 PM
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 Kimberly Group: Member Posts: 1,961 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,599 |
I'm kinda in the same situation.
I'd move on.  You know, find another guy to have a crush on. Lol. |
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Sep 6 2006, 08:26 PM
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Sep 6 2006, 09:47 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Wow! I'm in the same situation. You should really think about it and see if you want anything more than just being friends or you might ruin your friendship with him. If you really do want more, you can drop him hints that show that you don't think of him as a brother. Good luck!
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Sep 7 2006, 10:10 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
i'm in the exact same situation too!
there's a school dance coming up, so i've been debating whether to ask the guy or just ... dance with him @ the dance. heh. i'm pretty paranoid somebody's gonna ask him though, and then we all wont get to dance with him period. but yeah. back on topic. like people have said, i'd find another guy to crush on. i can't risk losing my bffffffffff if we like, have a screwy relationship. heh. enjoy being single, hanging out with the girls + being able to freely check guys out. =) |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 8 2006, 08:41 PM
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Look at more cute guys...like Oliver Smoking Oakin!
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Sep 8 2006, 08:51 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
awwh it's okay friend! the same thing happened to me, but you don't have to worry about it! just do what you do best and be a friend to him. =) it's not so bad! atleast he's willing to be your friend right? there's always other guys out there :)
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Sep 9 2006, 09:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 424,880 |
Yeah, that's gotta be tough. Sometimes you think that since your so good as best friends, why wouldn't yall be awesome as gf/bf? That's what I was thinking a couple years back. In the end, me and my buddy decided it wasn't for us. So shop around for another guy, I promise you'll get over him and find someone new to giggle over with your girls.
But not to bring your hopes up, fast forward a couple years and me and that buddy are celebrating two years pretty soon. Maybe it's not the right time. But never ever sit around for a guy. It's never worth it. We both went through a couple other relationships before actually getting together. So just have fun and everything will work out for you. |
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