Does it make sense that I feel this way?, I'm confused Options

[sarangxai]

My bf doesn't want me to go to this place where my "ex" (I don't really call him my ex because I don't look back on it as an actual relationship) works... because he says my "ex" is a bad person.

This is somewhat true, because he used to be somewhat of a player that hit on girls that he should't have, including me and one of my bf's friends.

However, he has honestly changed as a person and finally grew up and is doing alot better for himself.

So, I found enough in me to forgive my ex for what he did.

I've found enough courage to go to the place where he works because that place where he works is a place where I can participate in a sport that I am really passionate about. I quit going because I was once upon a time very angry at him, but now that I've found peace, I'd really like to start going again.

I'm not going to let my "ex" stop me from doing something that I love.. especially now that I'm over it and very neutral about him. I don't even talk to him.

However, my bf said he would be hurt if I went. If I went, he said he wouldn't want me to talk to my "ex", even if he just said "hi" and I said "hi" back.

Doesn't this sound kinda controlling?

Edit:: Part of me thinks my bf is the one that hasn't let the grudge against my ex go... cuz they knew each other before I even knew my bf... and they were not on good terms then because my ex tried to date his friend and alot of people think he just wanted sex.