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 Aug 1 2006, 04:05 PM
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Love is love age dosen't matter in my mind.
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Aug 1 2006, 04:28 PM
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you are an awsome friend
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Aug 1 2006, 06:13 PM
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This guy has no respect for himself, and has no respect for her. Period. I understand that the age of consent is 16 in some states, but the man is 30. He knows better. I tell you what. I say you report him. She will not get in trouble, because she is the minor of the situation.
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Aug 1 2006, 06:47 PM
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I think that's just wrong. If they do it that's known as rape... which is not good either. But don't go in and break up their relationship. Just let her figure out what's wrong with the picture. Be a good friend and just support her.
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Aug 1 2006, 07:20 PM
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QUOTE(just_rissa @ Aug 1 2006, 7:47 PM)  I think that's just wrong. If they do it that's known as rape... which is not good either. But don't go in and break up their relationship. Just let her figure out what's wrong with the picture. Be a good friend and just support her. Myspace Your sig is way to big.... you need to change the size... |
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Aug 1 2006, 08:46 PM
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QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Aug 1 2006, 5:05 PM) Love is love age dosen't matter in my mind. Actually, it does, to a certain point. You don't want to be with someone who has a much lower level of maturity than you.. right? Or vise-versa. Or how about those 15-year-old girls, "dating" 21, 22-year-olds? Not really dating, I might say, since it almost always ends after they have sex. |
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Aug 1 2006, 10:02 PM
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QUOTE(just_rissa @ Aug 1 2006, 7:47 PM) I think that's just wrong. If they do it that's known as rape... which is not good either. But don't go in and break up their relationship. Just let her figure out what's wrong with the picture. Be a good friend and just support her. Um, supporting a friend to keep on being in such an abusive relationship isn't being a good friend at all.  Anyways, that's good that you got to tell the parents. Now, if the parents don't do shit about it, then I suggest that you call the police. |
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Aug 1 2006, 10:48 PM
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the older the better, sometimes.
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Aug 1 2006, 11:04 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 1 2006, 9:46 PM) Actually, it does, to a certain point. You don't want to be with someone who has a much lower level of maturity than you.. right? Or vise-versa. Or how about those 15-year-old girls, "dating" 21, 22-year-olds? Not really dating, I might say, since it almost always ends after they have sex. um... thanks angelina... >.> you stabbed me... |
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Aug 1 2006, 11:14 PM
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Eh I'm not going to quote any of the other replies or i'll get in a big fight with someone I think.
 I personally would never date someone that was half my age or date someone that was twice my age older. Thats just a little weird in a way. But its her decision although if shes hiding things about the relationship and lying about then I wouldn't call it a real relationship. But if your completely concerned about her and such then I suppose you can tell someone else. |
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Aug 28 2006, 02:01 PM
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QUOTE(dangjer @ Jul 31 2006, 2:13 PM) He constantly tells her off and beats her mentally/physcially. omg. if he did that to me i would leave him! i mean he beats her up. and there is like a 14 year difference in them! |
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Aug 28 2006, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(Born in a burial gown @ Aug 1 2006, 12:16 PM) I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 31, I don't think the age difference is that huge a deal. The fact that he's hitting her is not acceptable. She should leave him. ^ Thank you. The problem is more that he's abusing her, not his age. And for the record, it's not illegal to date someone under 18, it's illegal to have sex with them. |
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Aug 28 2006, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE(dangjer @ Jul 31 2006, 2:13 PM) Wow me posting in here wow.. Anyways. I have this friend and she is going out with this guy. They have been going out for a year and on the outside they seem ok. There is a real big age difference though. This guy is 30 and she is 16. The guy still lives at home and works at target. The girl goes to high school and does the normal 16 year old stuff. He constantly tells her off and beats her mentally/physcially. He goes off telling her he is not her boyfriend anymore one day and then next day he comes over like nothing happened. She cannot leave him because she really loves him and she can't see leaving him. I try to help her and tell her to leave him constantly she will not listen to reason though. What do you think I should do to help? What would you do in her position? Uh... you need to call the cops... I'm not even playing around. First off that's disgusting, 2nd of all beating a female is f**kin disgusting, and 3rd of all he's a sorry ass piece of shit loser who doesn't have a life. Rather you stand up to that faggot, or you call the police. Stop caring for what she has to say with this whole I love him shit, the authorities and a mental therapist should fix that. P.S. By the way, are these rednecks? Hicks?... Only weirdos would do such a thing. |
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Aug 28 2006, 03:03 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 2 2006, 12:04 AM) um... thanks angelina... >.> you stabbed me... Pfft, I'm not talking about everyone. Three of my exes are currently 22, and the guy I have feelings for right now is 23. I'm 17. 
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Aug 28 2006, 04:09 PM
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You guys don't find it a little "too" much that this guy's in his 30s and this girl is barely even a woman... she's still a child, well a teenager that's in 10th grade. I see nothing wrong with 5 year difference or closer to 10 years depenin on the age range, say a 20 year old with a 30 year old. But a 15 year old with a 25 year old or older... is just pushing it. There's a huge difference in maturity, responsibilities, and especially in development of all sorts such as mental and physical.
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Aug 28 2006, 06:36 PM
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QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Aug 28 2006, 5:09 PM) You guys don't find it a little "too" much that this guy's in his 30s and this girl is barely even a woman... she's still a child, well a teenager that's in 10th grade. I see nothing wrong with 5 year difference or closer to 10 years depenin on the age range, say a 20 year old with a 30 year old. But a 15 year old with a 25 year old or older... is just pushing it. There's a huge difference in maturity, responsibilities, and especially in development of all sorts such as mental and physical. 
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Aug 28 2006, 06:44 PM
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QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Aug 28 2006, 5:09 PM) say a 20 year old with a 30 year old. *giggles* That's me and my boyfriend actually. And yes, I'm Mrs. Robinson. /end off topic/spam 
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Aug 28 2006, 07:10 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
^ But you're a grown-up :P
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Aug 28 2006, 08:30 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 28 2006, 7:36 PM) Thanks Angelina  I agree with alot of your posts too
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Aug 28 2006, 09:14 PM
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^ I'm glad
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Aug 28 2006, 10:46 PM
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nah, the 30 year old dude just knows how to keep his beezy's in check.
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Aug 28 2006, 10:55 PM
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Tell your parents and ask for advice. Most likely they'd flip out and call the cops. Which is exactly what they should do. I mean, what would you do if she was your daughter? Well, okay, if she was my daughter I probably wouldn't call the cops, I'd just go kill the guy, but still. Tell an adult, and then call the police.
If this guy has been abusing her, she needs help. And not just help getting away from him. She'll need psychological help as well. Who cares if your friend isn't going to like you anymore - in the end she'll appreciate the fact that you cared enough to help her. If you don't stop it, she could end up getting raped, or even worse, killed. Someone should have stopped it a long time ago. Kids these days... |
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