How long does it take you to fall in love? |
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 Oct 5 2004, 03:15 PM
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I'm just wondering....
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Aug 21 2006, 11:38 AM
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For me A Month cuz U Get To Know Them More!! And Thats HOw Many Girls And Guys Take My Heart
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Aug 21 2006, 03:08 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
None of the above.
Everyone experiences love differently and each love is unique. It can take a month, 4 months, an hour. |
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Aug 21 2006, 03:10 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
I never fell in love before.
 I wouldn't know. But, I would have to agree with Rachel. It all depends on the person.
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Aug 21 2006, 04:21 PM
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Theres no specific time in falling in love with someone. People are different and being with someone new means getting to know new things about people and you can't fall in love with different people in the same amount of time it may have taken for a older lover.
And if you have a set time, then I don't think your really in love. Maybe a high infatuation. |
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Aug 21 2006, 04:29 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
I honestly have no idea how long it takes to fall in love - I agree that there isn't any set time.
If you're saying to yourself, "Okay. Me and so-and-so have been together for a month. It's love now!!!" I sincerely doubt that you're in love. It all depends on the person, the relationship, how you honestly feel. You can't just say that it takes you however long to fall in love. |
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Aug 21 2006, 04:41 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I voted, "Don't know".
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Aug 23 2006, 10:02 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
there isn't a specific time
it just happens |
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Aug 23 2006, 10:25 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 169 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,098 |
I've fallen in love in one day before and it hit me and i was complety like gitty and stuff it was cute. But eh
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Aug 23 2006, 10:28 PM
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It just happens. You will know. Actually, I don't know.
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Aug 23 2006, 10:40 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
Exactly what mostly everyone said.
It's different with every person. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 23 2006, 11:13 PM
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One day... the day that you love the person...
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Aug 23 2006, 11:17 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Took me a few months.
And I gotta say one thing. YOU CANNOT FALL IN LOVE IN A DAY. That's not love, it's lust. A simple crush. I understand the teenager's desire to experience love and that's why they always claim they're in LOVE with every single guy/girl they happen to crush on. It's rather sad. Sure, you can really really really like the person during the first day - you know, the butterflies and all that shit, but love takes time to develop and grow. It can't be done in a day, teenies 
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Aug 23 2006, 11:20 PM
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 Lost In Stardust Group: Member Posts: 483 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 446,335 |
Love has no time it just happens. Depends on how strong the connection is between the two yenno. Personally i feel the longer it takes for people to say they love each other the stronger their relationship will be and the longer it will last.
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Aug 23 2006, 11:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
months.... it cant be like a couple of days then BAM im in love... NO WAY
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Aug 24 2006, 12:18 AM
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 hello, Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 208,332 |
just from experience, falling in love is not something you "DO" it's something that just "HAPPENS" which is why you can't really put a time restriction on it.
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Aug 24 2006, 04:46 AM
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Well just recently I thought I fell in love for the first time when I was 15 and I didn't get those strong feelings for about 7 months with this girl Melissa. But just recently I've known this girl for only 3 months and I've already fell in love with her 1 month into the relationship.
This time I'm positive I'm in love because this girl does NOT get out my mind and cannot get enough of her. Usually I'm not the type that likes to be touchy touchy all the time and wantin to spend time "alot" with girls cuz I feel like I need "my time". But this girl is a whole different story. Over all there's no time table for feelings, once you learn a person or get a very good perspective of them and you share your feelings together, you'll know if you like this person beyond everything else, or in love with them in other words. My only advice is, do not rush yourself with your partner, you don't need to have sex in order to fall in love, love is not a physical feeling... well you "could" love someone soo much it hurts, but I haven't experienced that. But basically when you feel like you can't see yourself without that person in your life, that's when you notice you're fallin in love. |
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Feb 3 2007, 09:40 PM
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here's what i think...true love takes time, but it's different for everyone. you can't exactly label how long it takes to fall in love - although i don't think it can be instant at all. i haven't yet fallen in love, i'm just dating my first boyfriend, so we'll see =]
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Feb 3 2007, 10:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
There's no one answer that fits everyone. It really depends.
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Feb 3 2007, 10:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 500,099 |
It took me 2 years of knowing someone to fall in love with them. Thing that sucked was that i was in unrequitted love (which means it was unreturned). I know there isn't a set time, but i think it takes more than a couple of hours...... or days. Idk i guess its just human compatibility. In other words chemistry.....
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Feb 4 2007, 03:07 AM
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 我爱台妹,台妹爱我 Group: Member Posts: 877 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,340 |
at first sight!
*gag* |
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Feb 4 2007, 05:55 AM
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 WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
^ That's what i've said :)
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Feb 4 2007, 11:59 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
SEVEN MILLION YEARS IN MY OPINION. It's not the same for everyone. Don't ask such a stupid question.
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Feb 4 2007, 01:13 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
years of dedication and service!
 And that's just talking about fam-i-ly.
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Feb 4 2007, 01:15 PM
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 Photoshop Mii Life(;* Group: Member Posts: 236 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,110 |
i chose none of the above.
my first crush was in seventh-grade. we were in a class and i didn't really notice him before. cuz i was really just trying to be myself and just go with the flow. then things started to happen, and everyone got to know each other more. and that was when i noticed him. i started having feelings for him, and i was not sure if i liked him or not. and i liked him for a while and then i forgot all about him. [ that was ackward] then about a year later, i noticed him again. then i had a big crush on him, but i didn't say anything. i had a crush on him for 6 months. i didn't tell him cuz it seemed like he doesn't really care about me. but that passed. |
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