what does, being with.. Options

[Connorrr]

what does being with someone exactly entitle?
as in
them getting you
or if you both like the same things

im asking this cuz im with a girl who i love being with but she doesnt really get me. like how i see things and such.
and its weird because we used to talk about everything and she used to get me..before we went out

so maybe i just like the chase? but its not like i want to be this way itsas if im more ..charming i guess when im working towards getting someone, not when i already have them

ehh sorry for rambling.
any comments
conserns
questions
advice

is greatly appreciated..thx

[OhMyAnniee]

to some girls it's just like .. because they like you. the one thing i tell all my guy friends when they have a girlfriend is to never stop acting like you don't have her. just keep trying to impress her & flirt with her or else she might lose interest. not sure if this really helped

[goodcharlotte]

I heard somewhere that your relationship is stronger when you dislike the same things rather than when you like the same things. I think it is when they get you and like you for you. I don't know if that helps. I hope it sort of clears some things up though.

[*Uronacid*]

Are you opening up to her while she is keeping closed?

Are you keeping closed while she is opening up?

Are you both spending to much time with eachother... sometimes I spend to much time wit my friends, and man... I just have to get away from them once and a while...

[*T0rmented_Soul*]

Maybe it's like one of them crushes things yenno, you like her, she likes you. Yall talk for countless hours, but when you actually get together everything is different. It's like maybe things weren't as you expected it to be. Because in a relationship it's more like your true colors are coming out, as they get to know you as a real person rather than the personality you present yourself in.

[msladyliberty]

I think you just like to flirt.
That's what it looks like to me.

You're probably not the serious type at this moment.

Maybe she doesn't get you as much as before, because I guess the "impression" stage is over. Usually, when you're interested in someone, you try hard to understand and relate to the one you're interested in. Then when you have them, it's just different for some reason.

Maybe the mutual understanding wasn't sincere.

I hope that helped you understand.

[sillakilla220]

i think it means alot of hot sex with only each other. committed partners. if i have intercourse with a girl i'm with, im not gonna go and hit 3 other girls that same night like usual. so just an increased sense of loyalty is basically what i'm saying