dating trouble., in need of help Options

[drummergirlmarim...]

well first of all, ive been dating this guy S for like... 2 weeks now to know more about each other and to see if we click. but before, when i JUST met him, it seemed like we really did click. but then, after we decided to start dating we stopped talking. even when we're alone, we dont talk. just silence. hes mexican, im japanese, i dont care but maybe he thinks im lame and immature, since im gonna be a soph and hes going to be a senior. in summer classes, when we were outside for break or a"meet" they start playing cards, and i feel left out. so i walk away so he doesnt see that im lonely. or more like, i WANT him to notice me. But hes too busy having fun playing cards with friends. he sometimes looks at me but i turn away and look the other way. and also, he calls me, but often times he starts talking to his cousins or someone thats right next to him and i would be on hold for like 10 minutes. then he has to go. im troubled by that thought because i really really like him, but im too shy. or something like that. its impossible for me to talk a lot with him. i feel like im like him so much more than he likes me.
please help me.

points to remember:
-he asked me to start dating
-he first im-ed me
-he called me, 2 times before, i was asleep and didnt pickup. but the other 2 times i did.
- there still is V, K, H, E and J that like me. dont know how to tell them. i dont have the nerve.
- he hangs out with a girl that practically hates me. shes his best gal friend.
-he comments her often but not me
- dont have anything to talk about anymore.

should i just give up and this guy and try to like one of the other 5 guys that like me? theyve known me for the whole year and ive only known for less than 3 months.

[singingmathemati...]

So you don't like the way this guy is treating you. You need to either talk to him about it or move on. By the way you're talking, it sounds like you don't have much interest in him anyway. You seem really nervous about having a relationship too. You should be able to talk to your boyfriend. If it were me, I'd break up with him. Good luck!

[*This Confession*]

You need to get the nerve to tell him how you feel and make him understand and see if theres a change, and if you can't do that I honestly think its time to move on. Aparently theres plenty of other people out there that like you. Perhaps give them the benifit of the doubt and go for them, if you like them back of course.

Always remember that your young and you have plenty of life to live still and sometimes relationships need a break so you can focus on the finer points in life for a while and then you'll be refreshed and ready for a new relationship.

[*Zatanna*]

Don't be afraid to say how you feel, especially when it relates to how you are being treated. Know that this type of communication does have its consequences though. Regardless, it will make you feel better about yourself.

[drummergirlmarim...]

thanks. but im okay with w.e. hes doing. and i DO like him a lot. its just that im worried about te fact that we dont talk much. i say hi, he says hey... and thats about it

[*Uronacid*]

Well, I personally think you need to put some more into the relationship. It seems like you're just letting him have control of everything, and not putting anything in to the relationship either. How can he talk about you with you if he knows nothing about you... of course he's going to about his cousins and of course he's going to play card with his friends. You have only been dating for 2 weeks. Look you can't just expect him to do this and that when you arn't doing anything.

Ask him a question, man, chances are you guys may not even click... don't worry about it, it's only been 2 weeks...

[AzNxBaBi]

Um, sometimes not everyone click right away, maybe the situration is kind of akward for the both of you. Just give yourself timw and if you really like him, tell him just don't let it silent away and drift. People are plan to be together shoudl be able to communicate. So get to know him more and more okay? I hoep taht helps.

^Josh is right, you need to put a little more into the relationship. :)

[drummergirlmarim...]

yeah i know i need to put more in. but idk. i try, but the farthest i can get is to talk on aim. im pretty shy in those stuff which is also the cause of why i didnt tell the guy i liked that i did, or try dating any of the other guys... idk. im sucha a dumbop i noe. but yeah, i try to put more in, i try to talk, but theres nothing ot talk about. i ask him questions, he asks me questions. but humreah. :/ sry for actaully asking for help in this dumb obvious situation. (where everyone says, "you need to give moere" "you need to try")