masturbating with other guys doesn' t mean you are GAY Options

[bobby james]

Why do people put gay on everything?!
My father is sure not gay because my mom and him are married and they had me of course, and ALSO to the people that said he is sick and I am sick, you are sick for thinking of it that way.
Anyways, masturbating with other guys is just that. I used to do that with my old friend in the room BEFORE i was gay. People who say it is gay have probably done it before, most guys will eventually do this in their lifetime.

[Nymphetamine]

I read every post and I have to agree with the majority; masturbating with a parent is SICK. For the love of God, how embarrassing is that?

I don't care if you don't like my 'opinion', I find what you're doing to be a SICK act. I have NOTHING against homosexuals, my brother IS gay. Besides, this topic has got nothing to do with gays.

I'm utterly disgusted.

[femmefatale4160]

Everyone here is entitled to their opinions. And although it would seem that all of us find it disturbing that you jack off with your dad, you should have expected this sort of response before you posted such a provocative topic.

[jumpropeforheart]

okay, ill stick to the original point. why if you're straight would you want to jack off in front of another male? if you were straight, id think thatd be close to the last thing on your mind. besides which, how do you ask? "hey bob, wanna come sit on my couch and jack off with me because we are soooooooo straight?"

[*Zatanna*]

ENOUGH!

Obviously a great deal of you find this disturbing. That's fine and to each his own. But enough with the flaming. I'm sorry, but the majority of the responses here are just that. Say what you want about the topic, but please leave it at that.

//edit
Just realized a couple of people have already summed up what I've said here.

[satch]

Well I do not think that saying it is sick or wrong to jerk off with your dad is flamming if it is I am sorry did not mean to make it seem that way. But I do still think that it is way wrong and I am sure it is not healthy thing to do....

But the subject is masturbating with other guys doesn' t mean you are GAY


Ok so no I do not think that it is, as a young kid I am sure alot of guys have. And Ihave herd alot of people say so who are not gay.

But he threw in the shock of doing it with his dad he should have left it at maybe a friend or whatever. He also says he is gay, so why should he worry one way or the other?

[*liquid.*]

Hi, can you change your avatar, stop posting posts or topics, delete your topics & posts, ask a mod to delete your account & block your ip so you can never come back? kthx.

YAY! Eva saved us, i am against gay marriages. lets burn the gays alive! Liz suggested this idea though so get intoxicaed

[*nightmare4taki*]

Why do people put gay on everything?!
My father is sure not gay because my mom and him are married and they had me of course, and ALSO to the people that said he is sick and I am sick, you are sick for thinking of it that way.

He might be gay. He could be on the down low.

Anyways, masturbating with other guys is just that. I used to do that with my old friend in the room BEFORE i was gay.

Are you sure you were straight a the time.

People who say it is gay have probably done it before, most guys will eventually do this in their lifetime.

Hell No

[oka_yonip]

do we really need to know this?? =/

[Selv]

If it doesnt make you gay then why are you...?
(Just out of curiosity)[not to bash]

[CrazyJellyBean]

Im sorry, this disturbs me

[Relentless]

Who cares? Let people do whatever they want, it's not gonna affect you.

Well, I had a friend of told me he was masturbating with this friend and both of them were watching porn. lol.

I don't care what people do, cuz it's the way they want/do it. I don't mind & I don't find this topic disturbing. It's just people expressing their opinions. & No, I'm not gay.

[bobby james]

If it doesnt make you gay then why are you...?
(Just out of curiosity)[not to bash]

So do you really want a story on how it started because I will give it to you.
No..but why am I? Because I am sexually attracted to men. It was kind of always inside of me but I held back for a minute, and when I was masturbating in room with a guy I really didn't look at him that way. I was just focusing on me. So that really didn't contribute to it, at least I don't think so. It's just something that was there, got tired of hiding <--that is how I was looking.

okay, ill stick to the original point. why if you're straight would you want to jack off in front of another male? if you were straight, id think thatd be close to the last thing on your mind. besides which, how do you ask? "hey bob, wanna come sit on my couch and jack off with me because we are soooooooo straight?"

Well, it really wasn't a want it was something that just happened. Not like we we touched eachother. But my father? He is not gay like people were saying.

Im sorry, this disturbs me

Don't be sorry. For yourself yes. You're the one that wanted to read believe it or not, or else you wouldn't have come in.
People keep putting this yet coming INSIDE the topic and REPLYING...hmm. Can't be that disturbed people if you knew that it was going to be a disturbing topic just by the subject. Then you read it. That makes sense. We all like to play with fire, I do, but do not complain when it burns you, you decided to put your hand in.

[*Uronacid*]

So do you really want a story on how it started because I will give it to you.
No..but why am I? Because I am sexually attracted to men. It was kind of always inside of me but I held back for a minute, and when I was masturbating in room with a guy I really didn't look at him that way. I was just focusing on me. So that really didn't contribute to it, at least I don't think so. It's just something that was there, got tired of hiding <--that is how I was looking.
Well, it really wasn't a want it was something that just happened. Not like we we touched eachother. But my father? He is not gay like people were saying.
Don't be sorry. For yourself yes. You're the one that wanted to read believe it or not, or else you wouldn't have come in.
People keep putting this yet coming INSIDE the topic and REPLYING...hmm. Can't be that disturbed people if you knew that it was going to be a disturbing topic just by the subject. Then you read it. That makes sense. We all like to play with fire, I do, but do not complain when it burns you, you decided to put your hand in.

this is all true... you guys know that this topic is disturbing... if it disturbs you than why do you kee comming in here and looking?

[jumpropeforheart]

Who cares? Let people do whatever they want, it's not gonna affect you.

it's not the fact we care that he does it, it's the fact that he makes 10 topics flaunting that it happens. of course, like rebecca said, each his own, but the reason people are getting so into it and bashing is because of the reoccuring topics. honestly, we don't care what he does in his spare time, but he acts as if we should know and should accept it... that is what is getting people upset. let's all just let it go and pretend like we care... at least.

[Nymphetamine]

this is all true... you guys know that this topic is disturbing... if it disturbs you than why do you kee comming in here and looking?

How stupid is this statement! We find the idea of masturbating with his dad to be EXTREMELY disturbing. The topic starter made a topic and we replied; we gave our opinions. Isn't that what this topic is all about? Giving opinions?
Besides, do you really expect us to agree with him? This is a forum, we've got diverse opinions so stop bitching about other people's opinions and stick to the topic.

In my opinion, masturbating with friends is less disturbing than masturbating with a parent. I could never masturbate with my mother neither will I masturbate with my child. I don't find this to be an homosexual act, I think it is wrong. But then again, one man's meat is another man's poison.

Do as you please but don't expect everyone to concur.

[*Uronacid*]

How stupid is this statement! We find the idea of masturbating with his dad to be EXTREMELY disturbing. The topic starter made a topic and we replied; we gave our opinions. Isn't that what this topic is all about? Giving opinions?
Besides, do you really expect us to agree with him? This is a forum, we've got diversed opinions so stop bitching about other people's opinions and stick to the topic.

In my opinion, masturbating with friends is less disturbing than masturbating with a parent. I could never masturbate with my mother neither will I masturbate with my child. I don't find this to be an homosexual act, I think it is wrong. But then again, one man's meat is another man's poison.

Do as you please but don't expect everyone to concur.

Yes, it's disturbing, and I think it's gross... but why do you guys keep comming back... if you were that discusted by it then you would just avoid the topic all together. You can give your opinions without being all flamed up about it.

-Masturbating with your family... well, um... I just don't like it because I feel that it's as close to incest as it gets with out accually being incestual... You're comming close when you do things like that, and for me personaly I don't even like to come close...

This was my opinion... I didn't have to get offended by what he does. What he and his father do is their choice. They have the freedom to make those descitions for themselves. Why should you have to cuss in a non-joking or serious manner to get the piiont across... If you arn't angery and you talk like that normaly, than I appologize.

I think it's great... this guy is a really big test for most of you people... XD I have to admit, I can see where this would be very offensive, but... it doesn't effect you... why should you be offended...

[Nymphetamine]

Yes, it's disturbing, and I think it's gross... but why do you guys keep comming back... if you were that discusted by it then you would just avoid the topic all together. You can give your opinions without being all flamed up about it.
This was my opinion... I didn't have to get offended by what he does. What he and his father do is their choice. They have the freedom to make those descitions for themselves. Why should you have to cuss in a non-joking or serious manner to get the piiont across... If you arn't angery and you talk like that normaly, than I appologize.

I think it's great... this guy is a really big test for most of you people... XD I have to admit, I can see where this would be very offensive, but... it doesn't effect you... why should you be offended...

You're contradicting yourself! If you think it's disturbing AND gross, why do YOU keep coming back?
Besides, like I stated earlier on, this is a forum. I can post on whichever topic I please. I don't find his post to be offensive, but I find it to be disturbing. There's a difference.

Again, I for one keep 'coming back' because I posted here and I'm also trying to understand the topic starter's way of thinking.

[satch]

There seems to be something lost in all of this, the subject was masturbating with guys doesn't make you gay...


Here is what happen thou, he threw in doing it with his dad. That is where the shock comes in. So maybe we should focus on just the topic and forget about the dad part huh? we can almost all agree that doing that with your parent is just not right ok....

So for the topic like I said I do not think that it makes you gay, not my thing to do but I do not think that it makes you gay.....but you say you are gay what I do not understand is why does it bother you so much to start a topic like this??

[goodcharlotte]

I think this topic has lost any meaning it was ever intended to have.

[bobby james]

it's not the fact we care that he does it, it's the fact that he makes 10 topics flaunting that it happens. of course, like rebecca said, each his own, but the reason people are getting so into it and bashing is because of the reoccuring topics. honestly, we don't care what he does in his spare time, but he acts as if we should know and should accept it... that is what is getting people upset. let's all just let it go and pretend like we care... at least.

The deoderant question wasn't flaunting anything, the other masturbation question wasn't flaunting anything, my question in the fashion section isn't. and this isn't...So, where did it come from? Or could it be that you are just looking too hard to see if I was "flaunting" something? You only see what you choose to Stop being such a drama queen and exaggerating. This is what makes some of you guys look like you care because you get all technical with it and then make unreasonable assumptions

You're contradicting yourself! If you think it's disturbing AND gross, why do YOU keep coming back?
Besides, like I stated earlier on, this is a forum. I can post on whichever topic I please. I don't find his post to be offensive, but I find it to be disturbing. There's a difference.

It's one thing to state that you think it is gross and then try to debate with me on the statement I made, good, I'm cool with that, I like debating. But MY comment and what he was agreeing on was initially to the people that would put "this is disturbing" and bashed without putting ANYTHING reasonable, OR it's the one's that acted all "disgusted, I'm gonna die if I see something like this" but still came in and still replied That doesn't neccessarily mean he was talking to you or I was talking about you sweetie And I know you were talking to URONACID, but I decided to put my 5 cents in.

Again, I for one keep 'coming back' because I posted here and I'm also trying to understand the topic starter's way of thinking.

Good luck. After you stated your opinion and stood firm by it, it's hard to think you are trying to understand.

So for the topic like I said I do not think that it makes you gay, not my thing to do but I do not think that it makes you gay.....but you say you are gay what I do not understand is why does it bother you so much to start a topic like this??

It wasn't really bothersome, just something I felt like doing. Welp, the gay label was thrown at the person I was masturbating with and I feel that he is not gay, or anyone that does that is. Some people do. But that's life.

[*Uronacid*]

The deoderant question wasn't flaunting anything, the other masturbation question wasn't flaunting anything, my question in the fashion section isn't. and this isn't...So, where did it come from? Or could it be that you are just looking too hard to see if I was "flaunting" something? You only see what you choose to Stop being such a drama queen and exaggerating. This is what makes some of you guys look like you care because you get all technical with it and then make unreasonable assumptions
It's one thing to state that you think it is gross and then try to debate with me on the statement I made, good, I'm cool with that, I like debating. But MY comment and what he was agreeing on was initially to the people that would put "this is disturbing" and bashed without putting ANYTHING reasonable, OR it's the one's that acted all "disgusted, I'm gonna die if I see something like this" but still came in and still replied That doesn't neccessarily mean he was talking to you or I was talking about you sweetie And I know you were talking to URONACID, but I decided to put my 5 cents in.
Good luck. After you stated your opinion and stood firm by it, it's hard to think you are trying to understand.

It wasn't really bothersome, just something I felt like doing. Welp, the gay label was thrown at the person I was masturbating with and I feel that he is not gay, or anyone that does that is. Some people do. But that's life.

yeah, thanks for putting in your two cents... I completely agree with you, I personally believe that you just have a very odd life style compared to most men... you and your family seem to be very open about things. I guess if your family does that... well, it's your buisness. As-long-as you're doing it behind closed doors, and its a mutual thing (neither of you are being forced to do it/being put up to the task against your will). I really don't see a problem with you doing it.... but me personally I would never do that XD

[datass]

I think this topic has lost any meaning it was ever intended to have.

Yeah I think so too. But then again, this topic was only made to convey the message that "masterbating with other guys doesn't mean you're gay"

[*T0rmented_Soul*]

wow, I just read thorugh all the posts and found this quite interesting, the whole dad and masturbation thing with the son, is probably just a way of showing how open they are. Proven the fact that yes He is gay, but before he knew he was, he was masturbating with guys in his room. But I don't think they'd actually watch each other while they Jerk it, more like happening to be in the same room watching porn and masturbating.

[satch]

Yeah I think so too. But then again, this topic was only made to convey the message that "masterbating with other guys doesn't mean you're gay"

That is right and thats the meaning of it.....

Yulp so we need to drop the dad part and comment on the part about Masturbating with other guys. I am so guilty taking it to the dad part and leaving the subject of the topic. So I think that this is still alive...

And like I said take the dad part out and I do not think that what he is doing means you are gay.

[jumpropeforheart]

The deoderant question wasn't flaunting anything, the other masturbation question wasn't flaunting anything, my question in the fashion section isn't. and this isn't...So, where did it come from? Or could it be that you are just looking too hard to see if I was "flaunting" something? You only see what you choose to Stop being such a drama queen and exaggerating. This is what makes some of you guys look like you care because you get all technical with it and then make unreasonable assumptions

if you weren't flaunting it, you wouldn't have made a topic called "masturbating with other guys doesn't mean you are gay". obviously you want us to know something. i like how i'm the drama queen though since i'm not the one trying to get everyone to side with me and agree with what im doing is right. this is the end of our convo. take it for what its worth for i wont be back in here.