i dislike my new potiental sister-in-law, any adive..? Options

[x_perplexity]

okay. so a couple of months ago, my brother brought home his new girlfriend for us all to meet. originally, im happy for him? why wouldn't i be?

When i first met her, i got this feeling in my stomach. Like my stomache got really tight from the inside. i thought it was from the dinner because my daddy cooked that night, so i ignored it.

And i got to talking to her. getting to know her. but still the feeling wouldn't go away. and to be honest, i dont really like her.

and now she wants to take me to las vegas as to buy my approval. and she's buying all these things for me.

i've talked to my mom and sister and they feel the same way.

but i don't know if i should tell my brother, he seems to really like her. and he's already talking about marrying her.

his last girlfriend, my mommy warned him about her and he said that he's looking for a wife for him, not for the family. and the ex ended up cheating him of 30,000 dollars.

so any advice for what i should do....?

[PinoyOtaku]

I dunno, its my belief that if the family seems uncomfy with the spouse-to-be, then the relationship won't work out. All I can say is give it all you got try and accept her and/or tell your brother about this problem.

BTW did any of her actions trigger this uncomfortable feeling?

[LiNHy POO]

you should tell your brother!!! thats the best you can do! he wants to know wut you think of her... and he'll make his own decision.. but you have to tell him how u feel

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

well consider yur borther's feelings, he obviously loves her, yu should get to know her better...find stuff thats good about her and work off that

[x_perplexity]

thanks for the advice everyone. =)

as for anything that happened, her and my brother broke up about 7 times in the past 8 months and got back together. and it just pains me to see him so hurt, and i keep thinking to myself, if they keep breaking up that many time, what will happen in the long run?
i wish i could tell him, but then that would hurt him and he would be mad. but if i dont...it'll be the same way....

[FinaL_dr3amS]

awwww well talk to him about it first and tell him how u feel he should understand give him advice and tell him to give the realtionship more time i mean hes young <maybe i dun know him lol> so he needs to really think about this before he actually thinks of marrying her i mean this is for real this is the person he is going to be for the rest of his life tell him he really needs to think things through especially if they had broken up so many times tell him being boyfriend and gurlfriend is one thing and being husband and wife is another u dun want to have ur brother be a father and then his son/daughter havin a bad life because his parents keep seperating....tell him how u really feel and try talking to her the more u talk to her the more u will get to know wat kind of girl she really is and if she really is rite for ur brother. good luck!

[gigglepot]

I would suggest talking to your brother, if anything maybe you'll be comforted by the fact that he loves her. If it's any consolation, I can relate. My brothers have had some girlfriends that I didn't get along with, and we've had a few close calls as far as marraige goes. And there is always the possability that she will grow on you as time goes by, you just might need to adjust.

[hybrid]

Yeah, like everyone else, I suggest you talk to your brother. Hopefully, he'll take your thought into consideration about choosing his right wife.

What exactly is this feeling?