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 Aug 7 2006, 12:52 PM
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Well... where do i start...
My bf and i are having problems. He accuses of me cheating and doing things behind his back which i havent. He doesnt trust me and decided to break up. I cried for 2 days and then after 3 days, he calls me and tells me that he didnt mean to break it off and that he got just got mad. Truth is, my guy friend told me that he likes me too. I dont really knoo who i wanna be with. The bf or the guy friend... who do u think i should choose? (please no bad replies. ) |
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Aug 7 2006, 12:58 PM
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Who do you feel more comfortable with? Do you think your friend is a better person them your boyfriend? If you connection with you boyfriend is still strong I think you should stick with your boyfriend. But if you feel you need a change in your life and wanna try something new go with your friend.
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Aug 7 2006, 01:00 PM
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No one can choose for you. None of us on here know either of them. The fact that ur bf dosn't trust u dosn't score points for him but if u choose him just make sure u sit downw and talk about the trust issue
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Aug 7 2006, 01:05 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
If you feel like giving him another chance, I say go for it. But if you think you'd do better with someone new (and maybe someone who trusts you more) then just tell your ex that he had his chance and he blew it.
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 7 2006, 01:40 PM
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Look, if he is accusing you of things that he cannot prove then he is deffinitly in the wrong... It sounds like he is paranoid about you cheating on him...
I think that you should decide upon who you want togo out with. If you cannot handle your current boyfriends issues than it's not your job to do so. There is someone out there who is just right for him and helping him deal with his issues just as there is someone out there who is just right for you. I admire the fact that you give the idea of working things out with him a chance, but don't feel pressured to date someone like that... if he is effecting you in a negative way than I suggest you break-up with him... here... http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...46148&st=25 check out this topic if you want to learn some things about paranoia |
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Aug 7 2006, 02:34 PM
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did your friend tell you he liked you in between those two days you and your bf were broken up?
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Aug 7 2006, 06:44 PM
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i dunno, which one plays cs?
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Aug 7 2006, 07:01 PM
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I sorta experience the same situation as you are in right now, except I broke up with him and ended up my best guy friend whom I've been dating for almost a year now.
Just follow your heart, think about how things would be like if you went back with your bf. Is it going to turn into a cycle of him not trusting you then break up? Now think about how things would be like if you went with your guy friend. Would he treat and respect you any better? Good luck. |
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Aug 7 2006, 08:59 PM
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well you dont like neither of them if you have to choose if you trully liked one of them then you wouldnt need to choose. none of us can pick one for you or anything so its really your choice.
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| *yrrnotelekktric* |
Aug 8 2006, 01:09 AM
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QUOTE(dangjer @ Aug 7 2006, 9:58 AM)  Who do you feel more comfortable with? Do you think your friend is a better person them your boyfriend? If you connection with you boyfriend is still strong I think you should stick with your boyfriend. But if you feel you need a change in your life and wanna try something new go with your friend. yeah i totally agree with this.
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Aug 8 2006, 01:20 AM
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 rissa. Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,690 |
If you like the guy friend, go for him! You don't want a loser who doesn't trust you and is thinking about breaking up then 'changed his mind.'
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 8 2006, 12:19 PM
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QUOTE(x-klutzibabi-x @ Aug 7 2006, 8:01 PM) I sorta experience the same situation as you are in right now, except I broke up with him and ended up my best guy friend whom I've been dating for almost a year now. Just follow your heart, think about how things would be like if you went back with your bf. Is it going to turn into a cycle of him not trusting you then break up? Now think about how things would be like if you went with your guy friend. Would he treat and respect you any better? Good luck. I can't stand it when people stress "follow your heart"... your heart is a selfish thing. Your heart makes descisions based upon what you want, and not what you need. Don't tell people to do that ... Ugh.... DO NOT FOLLOW YOUR HEART! think think think and make the right descision |
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Aug 9 2006, 11:19 AM
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QUOTE(aRiiaNa @ Aug 7 2006, 2:34 PM) did your friend tell you he liked you in between those two days you and your bf were broken up? well, something like that. my friend told me once when my boyfriend and i were dating that he liked me but he didnt want to get in the way. so every since the breakup, he's been always telling me that i should choose whoever makes me happy... |
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