Judge other girls, why do we do it? |
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 Aug 7 2006, 07:04 AM
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All girls judged other girls before they actually talk to them or when someone wears something new right, but just why and how many have you judged? Do you consider it wrong?
----------------------------- Heck, I do it before I talk to them. I guess I do it to see if I have any similarities. |
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Aug 7 2006, 08:37 AM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
i judge every single girl i see, except for my friends.
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Aug 7 2006, 09:56 AM
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i don't think it's entirely wrong.
we ALL judge people, it's like something we do unconciously. sometimes judging somebody based on their appearance is wrong... but sometimes it can save your life, if the person ends up being BAD. but yeah, judging solely on appearance isn't nice... but i'm friends with everyone. |
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Aug 7 2006, 10:17 AM
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I don't consider it wrong, everyone does it.
It's a natural thing.  Well..that's just my opinion.. =] |
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| *Kathleen* |
Aug 7 2006, 12:41 PM
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QUOTE(Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg @ Aug 7 2006, 10:56 AM)  i don't think it's entirely wrong. we ALL judge people, it's like something we do unconciously. sometimes judging somebody based on their appearance is wrong... but sometimes it can save your life, if the person ends up being BAD. but yeah, judging solely on appearance isn't nice... but i'm friends with everyone. Save your life? Isn't that a bit of exaggeration?  Hrm. I agree that it's natural, but I believe that it's worse with girls. I think it's because we get jealous very easily and that sometimes we feel threatened by others.  I've usually found myself on the other end of the said perspective, though, so I really don't know what it's like.Edit // Oh but I'd have to say that judging other girls on here is quite entertaining. 
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Aug 7 2006, 01:57 PM
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 rorhinna Group: Member Posts: 331 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 432,214 |
Ya, :/ I have a tendency to do that.... but I agree wit hwhat was said above about us feeling jealous. Also it could be that we're insecure...and ya, it is natural... but, I don't think its a good thing that can save your life. I think that only way to judge someone right would be to actually talk to them and get to know them... then make your judgement
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Aug 7 2006, 02:49 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
I do that all the time
.I need to stop doing that. I think all the preppy girls are sluts. But deep down, I think they are very good people. Well, maybe. Not sure. |
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| *salcha4u* |
Aug 7 2006, 03:39 PM
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IT MAKES US FEEL GOOOD
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Aug 7 2006, 04:40 PM
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 L2P Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 449,622 |
One lifes great mysteries. Like the hokie pokie. o.O;
I judged preppy girls, too. Before I even talked to them, I would think of them as sluts are firktards. So, when I did talk to them I would be mean because I thought they were going to be mean to me first. And because I acted mean towards them, they acted mean towards me. But I think that all kind of ended after a while. I know I don't dispise them anymore after looking at their MySpaces and seeing they're just as crazy as me and some of my friends. So, now when we have to speak to each other it's not all snippy and sarcastic. |
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Aug 7 2006, 04:59 PM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Of course I judge people. It's more on a superficial level, though. More like:
"Oh my God, did you see so-and-so's skirt today? It was SO flashy and disgusting. She must have awful taste in clothes." But I'd never say something like: "Wow, did you see so-and-so's skirt today? It was SO flashy and disgusting. She must be the biggest bitch-faced loser in the world." See, now that last judgment was entirely unfair. |
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Aug 7 2006, 06:38 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I judge people.I gotta admit it.But I don`t say it to anyone else,just in my mind.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Aug 7 2006, 11:54 PM
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It makes them feel better. I don't know really.
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Aug 8 2006, 01:01 AM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
Girls naturally judge & criticize because of our own insecurities.
Everyone is jealous of everyone for even the smallest reason. |
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Aug 8 2006, 04:33 AM
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 msladyliberty Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
it's human nature.
It's not bad. it's only bad if let "others" know the nasty nasty ones. If you don't have anything nice to say...just don't say it. 
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Aug 8 2006, 05:02 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,534 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 170,127 |
Because we're insecure.
Mmm-hmm. I must put my thinking cap on. |
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Aug 8 2006, 05:50 AM
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judging can help.
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Aug 8 2006, 05:54 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
^how does judging help?
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Aug 8 2006, 09:14 AM
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QUOTE(msladyliberty @ Aug 8 2006, 5:33 AM) it's human nature. It's not bad. it's only bad if let "others" know the nasty nasty ones. If you don't have anything nice to say...just don't say it. That's exactly what I was going to say. 
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Aug 8 2006, 10:01 AM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
well andie sure lets her opinion about me known
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Aug 8 2006, 10:37 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Because women are half human, half pure evil.
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| *liquid.* |
Aug 8 2006, 10:40 AM
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I love it when the ugly girls judge. Or like the Ugly girls think they're good at somethign that they're not. Okay let me straighten something out
FAT GIRLS DO NOT TALK. UGLY GIRLS DONT TALK. HOT GIRLS GO JUDGE LOL |
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| *Azarel* |
Aug 8 2006, 04:23 PM
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QUOTE(kanina @ Aug 7 2006, 5:04 AM) All girls judged other girls before they actually talk to them or when someone wears something new right, but just why and how many have you judged? Do you consider it wrong? LOL. You expect us to remember??Everyone judges and as it stated before, it's human nature. And I also judge because it's really amusing. >>; I'm not a bad person, I promise. |
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Aug 8 2006, 05:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
QUOTE(icy_wonderland @ Aug 8 2006, 3:54 AM) ^how does judging help? looks arent everything but it CAN help. judging help us to indentify the person. if this person looks dangerous, would you go up to him? He can possibly not be dangerous. You never know. |
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Aug 8 2006, 07:31 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
people like to compare themselves. to see either which one has the best or worst. it can be to make themselves feel good...which is usually how it is...or entertainment.
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Aug 8 2006, 08:17 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
yeah i think its wrong only because i dont want people to judge me, yet i judge them. i've judged a girl and said she was fake and someone who knows her well said "if it's anything she's not, it has to be fake." i could be wrong about her, but she doesnt really like me i dont think, so that gives her a reason to be fake, yeah?
 confusing. whatever, dont care for her.i think it is wrong though, but i think judging people is just a contradiction. |
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