is it ok if i have a bf i met from myspace ?, please help guys & grls. Options

[xCrys]

(^x2) It's not like that :(

Hollz, where are you, I could use some back up =P

[xmy_sweet_reveng...]

internet conversation between internetgirlfriend and internet boyfriend:

Girl: hey hunny I miss you
Boy: I miss you to babe
G: E-Kiss
B: E-kiss back
G: Aww I love how you kiss me
B: yes your kisses are nice
G: I wish we could do that in real life
B: yeah same here
G: ok well I gotta go E-Hug
B: E-Hug back!

bad or good you decide.

Thats not how internet relationships work. internet relationships are just like normal relationships just without all the hugging and kissing and etc. really people who do 'real' internet relationships (being people who know who there dating and are willing to go all the way with it) show that they can accually cope without all the hugging and kissing and everything else. to be honest internet relationships show that you have the patience and you can survive without all the touching.

What you said up there makes it all sound like a big joke. but the heart tells no difference between a net relationship and a real one

yeah im all up for the internet relationship as long as you treat it like a normal one, and you know who your dating. i have a relationship "over the internet" but i dont class it as a joke because im willing to go all the way with it. i goto my girlfriends house when ever i can do because i love her like that. no matter how far away we are it doesnt change anything (appart from missing her and stuff).

So yeah, im all up for it.

[shaimack]

they are all flirts.

[datass]

I've alway thought it's really weird to date anyone over the internet. Who knows if he's really the guy he says he is...what if he's a perv or a totally psychotic person?

[oxbeautifultruth...]

I'd really get to know him first before calling him a boyfriend. I'm not against internet dating..because I've done it (just not with myspace, but yahoo.)..none of it worked out for me..but yeah..I'd reallly be careful about what kind of guy he is. Espically since he is from the internet after all..

[ilovemychick]

Internet relationships are alot of work, and take alot of trust and communticaiton. I guess the hard part is that anyone can call you and lie about themselves over the phone or online. You really just have to hurl yourself into the relationship for it to work... I guess it's extremely risky, but if you get lucky enough for both people to be completely honest then you WIN!

What a load. Obviously, you've never been in a 'net relationship. You might as well say that you're friends that are e-crushing on each other. There's no point to dating this way. It would never work unless you're committted and someone moves to be with the other. Even then, you're not guaranteed it would work anyway. So, hardly anyone makes such a BIG decision for something that is rather uncertain. IT'S A WASTE OF TIME. I'm not going to call those people losers because I've been there but don't think it'll work out. It's a longshot and you won't hit the target. Sorry. If you feel otherwise, I feel bad for ya cause you'll wake up one day.

[clarity]

IMO, online realtionships are stupid.
but they seem to be working out for other people.. so idk.

[*This Confession*]

IMO

It matters who you are and what your opinons are. I don't think their stupid, yea there may be some fakes out there but if you have a good head on your shoulders and know what your doing I think you'll be just fine. Plenty of people have met on the internet and plenty of people have met on myspace as well. Myspace is a place to get to know people. Although since its gotten so big there are some fake people and its your choice on weather or not you do and don't do.

Girl: hey hunny I miss you
Boy: I miss you to babe
G: E-Kiss
B: E-kiss back
G: Aww I love how you kiss me
B: yes your kisses are nice
G: I wish we could do that in real life
B: yeah same here
G: ok well I gotta go E-Hug
B: E-Hug back!

thats borderline pathetic in which never happens.


I don't find it to be a waste of time, but thats only my opinion. Some people are great to meet online because you can't know everyone by the small place you live at. I have met some really neat people over the internet, and aparently plenty of people have on createblog. If not then I don't see why you guys keep coming back.

Real internet relationships are just as normal as relationships in which you get to see each other all the time.


sorry crystal.


anyway anything xcrys and xmy_sweet_revengex say, i agree with about 100%

[*Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg*]

ahhhhh!
online relationships = bad bad bad idea.
people are so much different in person than online.
get out if it while you caaaaan.

[*Uronacid*]

Jeez, I have had much more possitive expierences from it... I can't say it's bad as long as you both have honest communication.

[ilovemychick]

Just cause you get along online, doesn't mean you have anything in common in real life. I know this because of the net friends that I had that I would talk to on the phone, guy or girl. Even if the person isn't a creep and is honest, doesn't mean you're a match. It's not worth trying.

[xCrys]

I had trouble re-finding this topic because it changed from online dating to myspace dating..

Thankz for catchin up to us Hollz, I was starting to need back up, because no one believes that online relationships are just the same as irl.

As Michael said: "internet relationships are just like normal relationships just without all the hugging and kissing and etc."

That's exactly what they are if you put effort into it. Otherwise, it's pointless!

If you read what Mike, Holly, Josh and I have said, you'll understand why we approve of them.

AAANNNNNNNNYWAYYYY.
-->> MySpace... A lot of fakes nowadays, but read everything everyones said, make your decision based off that.

[xmy_sweet_reveng...]

Yeah, even bands on myspace are becoming fake and what not. so myspace relations aint the best i dont think, tho it doesnt matter where you go if you say "hello" 'hi' "will you go out with me?" 'yes!' then whats the point in that, i knew crys about 4 years before we started going out. at 1st i even held it back because i wanted to see her irl before hand. but i thought about it and i thought "i know her enough, and i know that i love her" it didnt need a hug or a kiss or ever for me to be infront of her to know that i love her, all i needed was some form of contact, and i got it. Internet relationships aint all pedos, you people have to see this

[ilovemychick]

Tell me you don't seriously believe that internet relationships are like real life? How old are you?


I SERIOUSLY HOPE YOU'RE NOT FOR REAL.

[xCrys]

I'm 18 in oh.. persay 7 days?

And yes, I'm flipping serious. I don't joke about matters of the heart, thankz, much.

&I'm SURE, Mike, Josh and Holly, ALL agree with me.

[*This Confession*]

I agree with Crystal [xcrys]100% always. Easepcially about this subject.

Just cause you get along online, doesn't mean you have anything in common in real life. I know this because of the net friends that I had that I would talk to on the phone, guy or girl. Even if the person isn't a creep and is honest, doesn't mean you're a match. It's not worth trying.

and what if you met in real life?
Please tell me..

I honestly think that people can have relationships on the interenet. They can't always have it just on the internet of course. They have to meet eventually and if they meet and it goes great and they have to go back home. Then aparently interenet relationships didn't go wrong?

[xmy_sweet_reveng...]

i agree with crys i disagree with the ass above her. i bet you that person doesnt like internet relationships because you cant have sex in them =\. ill say it again. the heart isnt in the eyes, it isnt in the mouth, it isnt in the finger tips. the heart is inside, how you express how it feels is completly up to you. but i for one dont mind internet relations as long as there real ones. not just lame perthetic ones that you have just because you want someone.

[*This Confession*]

That was beatiful Mike.

err well the middle part was, so in other words I agree with Mike all the time as well...
And well that would be xcrys boyfriend as well.

Oh and I'm Holly
and Josh would be Uronacid.


Honestly, i think we know what were talking about when it comes to this subject. We've been through it and we've met the person were in relationships with. I don't think Crystal and Mike met through myspace though. But me and Josh did.

[xCrys]

Nah, we (Mike &I) met through a DBZ ...(ahaha) chatroom when we were 13 :)

[ilovemychick]

I've been through all this already. I've had the relationship, met the guy and so on and so forth. Did it work out? No. Do I hugely regret it? ABSOLUTELY. The person you meet online is NEVER the exact same person you meet in person. Please prepare yourself for that. And it doesn't work out for real unless you decide to settle down and actually MOVE for the other person. After a while, you just get tired of being with the person you 'love'. Maybe you two will worth out but it's a slim chance that you will. Unless you meet soon, one of you guys will move on when someone else comes along or you'll just get tired of the waiting all together.


SORRY. That's just how it is..unless you live in the same town.

[xmy_sweet_reveng...]

DBZ kicked ass, and thanks holly. okay i gotta stay on topic. i have a bad habbit of going completely off topic x.x so how the weather there everyone? lol. make sure i stayy on topic. uhh.

- edit. yeah some internet relationships dont work out. but neither do some irl relationships. you just gotta find the person whos right for you.

[xCrys]

Did you read the part where.. Holls already met Josh, and I've already met Mike IRL?

Or howabout the part... Where.. Mikes moving here next summer, after he graduates college....

Just because of YOUR expirences, doesn't mean it WON'T work out for everyone else. K?

Don't make everyone feel like crap just because your relationship didnt work.. o_O

--Quick Edit.
Yes, DBZ Rawked.

[ilovemychick]

Some? Let's be honest and say 98%, ok? And those 2% may get deeply involved, get married and in a couple years get divorced.

Sorry to burst your bubble, kids.

Did you read the part where.. Holls already met Josh, and I've already met Mike IRL?

Or howabout the part... Where.. Mikes moving here next summer, after he graduates college....

Just because of YOUR expirences, doesn't mean it WON'T work out for everyone else. K?

Don't make everyone feel like crap just because your relationship didnt work.. o_O

--Quick Edit.
Yes, DBZ Rawked.

Learn to spell and maybe then, I'll take you a little seriously.

[xCrys]

Sorry to burst your bubble, hun. But, the DIVORICE rate is going up: why? Not because people met online, but because of either (A) Too many Arguements (B) "Change" of heart ... © Married before they knew the person or.. (D) They got married at too young of an age.

Sorry to disagree with what you say, but Just because you're 2 years older than I am, doesn't mean you are able to call us out, and to act like you know wayy more.

You can't say 2% either, because you have no facts to back you up.

There are SOO many dating services nowadays, like E-Harmony, that ACTUALLY work.

& To be honest, I'd rather know them through some online dating service than meet them at a bar. (gawd I hate alcoholics)

When you can prove that Online relationships that turn into the real thing, you know, marriage :: That have a greater Divorice rate than meeting a person online; then you can put percentages into this topic.


Edit:
Learn to spell? What, I spelled "Rawked" instead of "Rocked"?
Talk about childish, when we go off topic and talk about SPELLING instead of what the topic is truly about :)

--Edit, bedtime; because someone in here is giving me a headache.

[xmy_sweet_reveng...]

im so gonna get warned for spamming, so this is gonna be one of my last comments tonight. i agree (again) with crys. just think about things for a minute even all you net relationship haters sure you may have had a relation ship with someone from the net and it didnt work out. im sure most of you had irl ones that didnt work out either. but thats not the point. when you get into a friendship on the net you get the basic idea of what the persons like. when you start dating you get more of the picture. when you meet irl, there completly different no? well accually. when i went to see crys for the 1st time, yeah she was abit different, but she wasnt different because thats how she is, she was different because she was seeing someone shed known for 4 years, you ever thought of that? everyone i know acts the same on the internet as they do irl. some just get a little nervous (ok i dunno where im getting with this so im gonna get to the point). if an internet relationship doesnt work, dont say "it didnt work never again!" thats like, eating makes you sick so you never eat again, you get me? not everything works how you want it 1st or even 50th time but you cant just put it dead like that nor can you tell everyone else it doesnt work because you tried it once and it didnt work. i want everyone to know that, dont just judge somthing because theres pedofiles and theres kids who just want a relationship so they can bost about it. dont even say anything untill your 100% sure that an internet relationship is pointless. and you can never be 100% because look at how us 4 are ending up.

quick edit - this is my last post coz im talking babble also will that ass up there^^ quit whining?