Does a "break" really help to improve a relationship? |
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 Aug 1 2006, 06:41 PM
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 rissa.  Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,690  |
It depends on the guy mostly. During a break he can be hitting on another girl since he has no 'action' at the moment. But if he's loyal, and you know it, then you should have no problem after your break.
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Aug 1 2006, 11:53 PM
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 girls peepee when they see me Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 407,388 |
from experience, don't think
breaks are helpful. causes more confusion, trust problems, etc. 
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Aug 2 2006, 02:59 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
Usually when someone wants a break that usually means they need more time to think of a good reason to break up with you, cuz seriously if u really love a person you wouldn't let them go no matter what, so a break is just an excuse to prolong time.
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Aug 2 2006, 06:46 PM
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 msladyliberty Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
Get a hobby.
it will decrease the arguments. -never tried the "break" thing. 'Cause we know it wouldn't work. WE LIVE TOGETHER. -the more you two are together, you get annoyed. so get a hobby or have a day-off or 2 from yer man. |
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Aug 2 2006, 07:19 PM
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QUOTE(xnastyninjagrlx @ Aug 2 2006, 3:59 PM)  Usually when someone wants a break that usually means they need more time to think of a good reason to break up with you, cuz seriously if u really love a person you wouldn't let them go no matter what, so a break is just an excuse to prolong time. why does everyone seem to think this way? if people really wanted to break up, i think that they would do it right then and there instead of dragging it out. if you've ever actually been on a break, then you would know that usually the reason why people go on breaks is to take some time apart, especially if the two people have been spending quite some time together and fighting. after the break, they decide whether or not they want to continue to date. if they truly love each other then they will realize how much they need each other. if they prefer how their life was while they were on the break, then they'll more than likely break up. breaks aren't made to prolong time...they are made to reevaluate your feelings and take a breather. |
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Aug 2 2006, 09:23 PM
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ABSOLUTELY NOT.
If a guy says that, it means he wants to break up but he doesn't want to hurt you. There is one way in which breaks work, its when one person is seperated from the other by vacations or something like that where they're going out but can't see eachother. Thats it. Every other way will only lead to distancing, especially if its used as a means of solving relationship problems. |
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