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 May 31 2004, 12:44 AM
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okay so i think this guy that i werk wit is cute but imma really shy person and i dont really talk much......have you ever had this feeling that someone is starin at you but you dont look at them well thats how it is like i can feel him staring at me....he always does it [or maybe imma just imagining that he is iono] but i want to get to knoe him more and stuff wha do you think i should do just remember imma really shy i neber knoe wha to say how can i stop being shy too?
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May 31 2004, 02:08 AM
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grl, get hyper~~!!!! really, it helps, lols.
okay, i think that you really need to gain confidence!! not jus for him, but it really helps in life! go out and volunteer for stuff, help baby-sit, there r bunches of things that can be done! if i didn't help much, it's cuz i'm so way stupid. i used to be really really really shy too, but then i went to summer school, nd i met up with some old friends nd in essay class where there are like about 6 ppl there i always talk to them nd... ne way you should get out more too. i mean, hang out with your friends, go places, go shopping, go have fun, go to.. six flags!! lol i dunnos, but it really really helps to get out MORE!! nd sumtimes meeting new ppl helps too. hope i helped at least a bit, heh. i blab too much. sry. |
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May 31 2004, 11:10 AM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
OPEN UP! Start gettin gregarious and flirtatious and wutever! Just do anything to get to know him.
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May 31 2004, 01:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,636 |
thanx for yalls advice
ill try to be hyper and flirtious lol |
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May 31 2004, 06:33 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
u gotta start talking to him and break the ice, if you don't you'll always stay shy liek this...
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May 31 2004, 11:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,636 |
the thing is i dont knoe how to break the ice its soo hard for me to talk to guys i get all nerves and sh!t
 and your going to hong kong me tooooo |
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Jun 1 2004, 01:08 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
you have to learn to have a little more confidence. the only way to learn to become unshy is trying* .. make the effort to start a conversation .. basic things that you'd like to know about a person are good questions to ask and keeps conversation running smoothly .. ask about family, school, friends, etc. once you realize you have something in common with the person it helps break the ice a lot more. you'll never know if he was really looking at you if you don't look and see!! so pay attention to his actions and maybe you'll be able to find out the answers you're looking for. good luck and i hope things work out for you!!
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Jun 1 2004, 07:11 AM
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 .Summa Mam`ii, Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,460 |
Become really friendly with all the other ppl around you. Tlk 2 them a about school and life. Then get them to see if this guy likes u. Tlk 2 him on ur lunch break mayb?? Good luck!
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