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Friends with Benefits., effff buddies.
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post Jul 24 2006, 06:38 PM
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uhm...not really. if your benefits with them then theres obviously some chemistry goin one way. but in the long run, what if he gets a gf? your left in the dark. and if he still wants to continue with the fwb rituals.....would you really consider messin with another persons life? or what if you get a bf, and you leave him....

theres *always* strings attached no matter what...so no i dont like them
because it shows (to me) that instead of taking the time to get to know a person and actually want to be in a relationship for the better, you just pick and choose who you wanna f*k. it is a big risk too because almost 45% of all teens and young adults are infected with at least one STD by their mid-twenties. and those 45 dont go to a certain school, nor to they have HIV stamped on their forehead. plus, why risk your rep when you get tied to a player, or being known have consensual sex time and time again...but thats just my opinion

But technically, if you are friends and one decides to stop, shouldnt the other understand, thus no one is hurt?
 
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post Jul 24 2006, 06:41 PM
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It never works. The other would want to stay friends (with benefits) and the other would want to take the next step.

No matter how selfless a person can be someone would always get hurt. You can sugar coat how a person feels about staying friends as much as you want, but inside it's just another painful rejection
 
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post Jul 24 2006, 08:33 PM
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I agree with Freaky Krazer...IT NEVER WORKS. All F.W.B. gives you is instant gratification for the pleasure you want. Once you get tired of always putting yourself in a certain situation with your "friend," you WILL get tired of it after a while and what next? You cannot just go back to being the great friends you USED to be. If sexual ties are what is HOLDING ONTO your "friendship" then it isn't a friendship at all.

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post Jul 24 2006, 09:45 PM
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It doesn't NEVER work. It does work, but only if borth parties see sex as just something you do... XD.gif Because this rarely happens, many people see this as something that will not work...
 
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post Jul 24 2006, 10:35 PM
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well personally i dont like friends with benefits because its like alot of what people said that you eventually get attached to the person. so if they go out with someone you start missing having "fun" with them and you cant technically say anything because you were just "friends with benefits" and not the girl/boy friend.

and people talk and say hecka rude things behind peoples back i knew this girl who was just flirting around with guys and people were already calling her a slut and she really is not. i could imagine what they would say if she had a friend with benefits.
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 02:32 PM
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as long as you guys aren't emotionally attached and won't be jealous of each other
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 02:32 PM
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Plain old no..
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 03:27 PM
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Tempting, but in the long run, nothing good will come from it. Emotions, ugh.
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 11:56 AM
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^ so true...the damn emotions get in the way! and plus over time u get attached
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 02:30 PM
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lol. really, i'm not down to be anyones "buckfuddy"
even if he's the sexiest male in the world
nope.
i completely agree. ONLY if its cristiano tho. laugh.gif
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 03:50 PM
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like most people said someone usually gets hurt.
id say no...
 
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post Jul 29 2006, 03:38 PM
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I wouldn`t do it..
 
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post Jul 29 2006, 06:44 PM
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It depends. It is hard for people to do that without getting somewhat attached because it is human nature. A lot of people figure, well if its just lust and we're just friends and you can't really build a relationship if we don't mesh well, that it will work. But I promise you that in almost every situation someone always ends up feeling closer to the person if not 'attached'.
 
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post Jul 30 2006, 06:07 PM
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i think its retarded and people that have are sluts
 
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post Jul 30 2006, 10:08 PM
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i wonder how this whole FWB thing started :O

Anyways no, you either commit or you don't. You can't just play and not pay the price :] There isn't really a free meal in the world :D

So if you can pay then go ahead x.x
 
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post Jul 31 2006, 10:01 PM
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^ i agree, minus the meal free.. because you can pick apples off a tree :)

---wait, i already posted in this, har. i still agree anyway.
 
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post Jul 31 2006, 10:06 PM
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I wouldn't want a friend with benefits...but it'd be fun ^_^ lol
 
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post Jul 31 2006, 11:30 PM
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Heh, I sort of have a "friends with benefits" thing going on right now even though I think that's an awful term, and there's no sex involved. More of kissing and cuddling. Just, my friend and I like eachother, but he doesn't want to be with anyone right now (and I don't blame him).

I don't think friends with benefits works out if you don't actually like eachother or something though, because one of you is going to end up liking the other and get hurt. I guess it's ok if the situation is understood though.
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 12:26 AM
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I have/had a friends with benefits. We just you know a few times and then he said he couldn't anymore because it was making him think too much and I peaced out on that. Every once in a while I still catch myself texting him to
 
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