i cut myself - please help, ABUSE/bad breakup and i can't handle it anymore (merged) Options

[xEthereal_]

and what happens if i do - they'll just call the police again and look for me. i already have 'runaway' listed in my records already. and really hating the thought of it each passing second.

What are you speaking of? Being placed in a hospital?
If so; they can't call the police for that. If the doctor/psychiatrist determines that the situation is serious enough for you TO be placed into one, the police and your parents have absolutely no say-so over the situation.

[mystikmiko]

What are you speaking of? Being placed in a hospital?
If so; they can't call the police for that. If the doctor/psychiatrist determines that the situation is serious enough for you TO be placed into one, the police and your parents have absolutely no say-so over the situation.

the 'hospital' that the police told me that i would be placed in will be the mental one. they say that i might have a problem or something like that.

[mystikmiko]

...but there's no reason for me to go there.

it hard - && really it hurts..a lot .

[nothing_plus_thi...]

this is completely off topic and pointless. but it's bugging me. so, screw anyone who would like to bitch at me about it.

"Razors pain you, rivers are damp, acid stains you, drugs cause cramps, gun aren't lawful, nooses give, gas smells awful, you might as well live!" - Lisa

yes, that was in the movie "girl,interrupted", but it is a poem by dorothy parker. not a line written for the movie. durr.

[pinacoolada]

self-mutilation isn't the key..talk to someone about it, because the most we could do is give you advice.

[Comptine]

i'm sure all of us want to help you, however, we just don't have the answers. you really need to find someone else to confide in. someone whose close to you and can actually protect and help you. the most we can do is offer suggestions and give you support.

hang in there.

[clarity]

My friend cutt herlself,
then she became anorexic.
It's terrible. She needed to go to the hospital over five times,
to get special help. Cutting isn't the way out...
talk to someone, your bestfriend?
try seeing a therapist.

[mystikmiko]

yes this is totally off topic - but i just need advice

also now there are more problems...but it'll take to much to type & i wouldnt want to worry ppl. yes talking to others help but my bestfriend is mad of me because i ranaway..so idk

[ikn0wurm0m]

Cutting..Man =[
cutting isnt the key.
My gf does it and one time she did it infront of me.
It made me cry =[

[mystikmiko]

Cutting..Man =[
cutting isnt the key.
My gf does it and one time she did it infront of me.
It made me cry =[

yes i'm very sorry

i dont know why but i find relief in it

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

since there are pages to this, someone probally already gave the right advice lol... here goes.

1. Stop cutting, there is no emotional pain on earth that requires you to cut yourself to get rid of the pain. Cutting obviously isn't helping, you still are upset, not gettin any better, so i really don't see the point of cutting, do you?

2. If your parents beat you till you bleed, you should really tell someone, like an aunt or uncle to see if u can live with them, and should report ur parents to some child abuse agency

3. All i gotta say is, its rediculous to act like this because you broke up with your boyfriend. You say you have no purpose now in life, what was your purpose when he was your boyfriend? We're you destined to be his girlfriend and serve him until you die? Please.... Breaks up happen left and right, build a bridge and get over it.

Talk to your friends relatives and other people who are available for listening and giving advice oO

[Noddy]

yes this is totally off topic - but i just need advice

also now there are more problems...but it'll take to much to type & i wouldnt want to worry ppl. yes talking to others help but my bestfriend is mad of me because i ranaway..so idk

try talking to your friend
if she knows what your going through tell her to try and see it from your point of view,
personally I would have probably run away or have gone to a mates house if I was in your possition, but if talking to her don't work and she's still pissed then she's not your best friend, in times like these you need a friend and she should stop being selfish and start to realise what your going through and that what you need now is freinds. someone you can call your best friend is someone you can always count on. my best friend Megan is always there and will always be honest to me about her point of view on what I'm saying or doing, that is a best friend.

The Cutting needs to stop.
you are gaining nothing from it, therefor there is no need, it's losing you too much blood and making you week and could cause illness witch wouldn't be much of a bonus for you would it, being dead also won't do any better for you if that is what your aiming for, you need to show that you can get through these tough times don't give up even if there is no-one left to support you, but the thing is there will always be someone behind you, I've read a few posts on here and it looks like quite a few people here are worried about you so don't just give up.

Feeling worthless cause the guy you love has gone is also uneeded you could make things soo much easier for youself if you concentrait on moving on. I'm sorry I sound so heartless, I can't imagen what it must be like, it will take a long time in healing over thats why it needs you concentration. breaking up with someone is like a big deep painfull cut, it takes time to heal you just need to try and get on with things as if it was never there at the start.

try keeping a diary to record all of this and use it as evidence maybe or if you don't want to tell anyone about anything it's good to keep a diray as an outlet. I have a diary and once I've writen in it I feel much better it's like I've told someone but I havn't and it helps you resolve the problem if you look at it on paper.

I hope this helps I can't even begin to think about what you going through

[mystikmiko]

try talking to your friend
if she knows what your going through tell her to try and see it from your point of view
personally I would have probably run away or have gone to a mates house if I was in your possition, but if talking to her don't work and she's still pissed then she's not your best friend, in times like these you need a friend and she should stop being selfish and start to realise what your going through and that what you need now is freinds. someone you can call your best friend is someone you can always count on. my best friend Megan is always there and will always be honest to me about her point of view on what I'm saying or doing, that is a best friend.

try keeping a diary to record all of this and use it as evidence maybe or if you don't want to tell anyone about anything it's good to keep a diray as an outlet. I have a diary and once I've writen in it I feel much better it's like I've told someone but I havn't and it helps you resolve the problem if you look at it on paper.

yes thank you i'll keep that in mind :]

[pinacoolada]

I hope everything turns out well with you... = ]

[*Uronacid*]

Do you have a friends house that you can goto... :/ maybe to get away from your parents... like a really close friend... soemone who has parents that care for you...thats what I do when I can't tell my parents something... i talk to my friend grace's mom :]... maybe you could get out for a while by going to your friends house for a week or something... then maybe call your parents and ask them if you guys can talk about it. sometimes people just need time away from eachother just to give eachother the ablility to think about what is going on...

[jue]

Talk to an adult you can trust, like your school guidance counsoler[sp?]
Keeping it all bottle up to yourself isn't gonna help you in anyway. You needa tell someone about this mental/physical pain you're going through. As for talking to your guidance counsoler, they can always help you and try to get you the help you need, such as find you a safe place where you can live so you're parents don't hit you till the point you bleed.

[broken inside]

why the emo action??

Ugh, cutting is not emo. Emo is a stupid sterotype. Cutting is an actual diagnosed problem. It can be caused by many real illnesses such as depression. Saying that vutters are emo is like saying that the black kid is "ghetto".

Sorry, had to say that.

[xmkaex]

if you are getting abused by your parents you should really tell someone. Don't cut your self. i know what your going through is probably worser that cutting your self, but you don't have to resort to that do you? almost everyone goes through a hurtful relationship, but you just gotta pick yourself back up. there are plenty of guys out there.

there are more fish in the sea right?

[mystikmiko]

if you are getting abused by your parents you should really tell someone. Don't cut your self. i know what your going through is probably worser that cutting your self, but you don't have to resort to that do you? almost everyone goes through a hurtful relationship, but you just gotta pick yourself back up. there are plenty of guys out there.

there are more fish in the sea right?

haha yes there are. i met this one guy on myspace, amazingly were going to be in the same grade and school and everything. lol - he wants us to meet together at the mall and stuff but idk, lol! i can't wait though - also i just moved again....so i really dunno anyone lol. i even thinks he lives close by too, lol!

and yes i have tried talking to a lot of ppl, no help really....
also my dad isn't getting any better, he has all these burts of anger coming everyday. always yelling for no reason too, he ends up throwing stuff...even though he's my father - he has never helped me on anything...its sad to say that i'm even scared of him.

i really dont want to live here w/ him, but my mom is in a tight situtation, and for the time i have too. he 'dad' forced me too come here, so much for a choose.

if you are getting abused by your parents you should really tell someone. Don't cut your self. i know what your going through is probably worser that cutting your self, but you don't have to resort to that do you? almost everyone goes through a hurtful relationship, but you just gotta pick yourself back up. there are plenty of guys out there.

there are more fish in the sea right?

haha yes there are. i met this one guy on myspace, amazingly were going to be in the same grade and school and everything. lol - he wants us to meet together at the mall and stuff but idk, lol! i can't wait though - also i just moved again....so i really dunno anyone lol. i even thinks he lives close by too, lol!

and yes i have tried talking to a lot of ppl, no help really....
also my dad isn't getting any better, he has all these burts of anger coming everyday. always yelling for no reason too, he ends up throwing stuff...even though he's my father - he has never helped me on anything...its sad to say that i'm even scared of him.

i really dont want to live here w/ him, but my mom is in a tight situtation, and for the time i have too. he 'dad' forced me too come here, so much for a choose.