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truth.let go. |
Jul 9 2006, 05:42 PM
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ha. this is so true. & after i read it, i feel that way too. why should i let someone stay with me if they dont want to.heartbreaks come&go, but hey what kills you makes you even stronger. its a part of life. let go.
"the truth" There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19] People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!! If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to...... LET IT GO!!! If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ...... LET IT GO!!! If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth..... LET IT GO!!! If someone has angered you ....... LET IT GO!!! "The Battle is the Lord's!" |
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Jul 9 2006, 08:11 PM
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![]() i'll spend forever loving you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
very blunt. but very true. it makes sense. i like it. it's helping me out
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Jul 9 2006, 08:29 PM
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![]() the name is ada. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Thats hella truee.I love this part most.
QUOTE People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Jul 9 2006, 09:04 PM
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That's very true. But more easily said then done.
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Jul 9 2006, 09:24 PM
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No. i dont believe them.
when that happend, fight for it. fight till the very end. the "end" is when the result is always the same. i choose not to believe the post. if you dont fight, you dont care. same thing with a love relationship, fighting can make love stronger, right? |
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Jul 9 2006, 11:11 PM
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![]() i'll spend forever loving you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
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Jul 9 2006, 11:19 PM
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![]() skaters gonna skate. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Good read. I have to start doing that.
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Jul 9 2006, 11:19 PM
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![]() What the fack. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
No. i dont believe them. when that happend, fight for it. fight till the very end. the "end" is when the result is always the same. i choose not to believe the post. if you dont fight, you dont care. same thing with a love relationship, fighting can make love stronger, right? I agree. I believe you should fight for the things which hold any bit of significance in your life. Otherwise, you'd end up with nothing in the end, because you let it all "walk away". But then again, there are times when there is nothing you can do, no matter how hard you try, and so that is the time to let go. I believe both point of views to an extent. |
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Jul 10 2006, 03:46 PM
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You will know when the time is right to let go.
If you let that moment pass and still hold on, the pain begins for real. |
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Jul 10 2006, 06:41 PM
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What a load of christian bullcrap.
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Jul 10 2006, 07:25 PM
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![]() i'll spend forever loving you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
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Jul 10 2006, 07:26 PM
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Or you can decide to live a life of stubborn pain because you won't let go... on account of reading an article of "christian bullcrap"
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Jul 10 2006, 08:11 PM
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![]() Hello There. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
this is pretty good.
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Jul 10 2006, 08:44 PM
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I really like this. It's kind of too late for this now though. Still useful for the future though...if I ever run into this kind of situation.
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Jul 10 2006, 09:06 PM
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![]() banana ham! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 |
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Jul 10 2006, 09:35 PM
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Or you can decide to live a life of stubborn pain because you won't let go... on account of reading an article of "christian bullcrap" I'm sorry if I fight for things, I don't give up. Yeah it's caused some pain but it's better than doing nothing. It has nothing to do with this article. |
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Jul 12 2006, 12:30 AM
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lol thats pretty cool
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Jul 12 2006, 12:40 AM
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![]() 101708 <3 (: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
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| *LaStiNg4EtErNiTy* |
Jul 12 2006, 02:38 AM
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wow. it's so true. but yeah..it's harder to actually do it.
but nice. it helps. |
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Jul 13 2006, 11:02 PM
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![]() daughter of sin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
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Nov 10 2006, 01:53 AM
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hahahahahah well im glad this helps for some people.
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Nov 11 2006, 11:31 PM
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![]() ˇvá-monos! ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,712 |
I'm sorry if I fight for things, I don't give up. Yeah it's caused some pain but it's better than doing nothing. It has nothing to do with this article. there's a time where it will be right to let go instead of continue fighting, but you can still hold feelings for that person, but everyday is a new day to try and move on and you might discover something/one you'll put your time into that'll give you the time of your life =) |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 22 2006, 07:08 AM
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What a load of christian bullcrap. i understand where you are comming from and maybe you dont belive in christianity or maybe anytype of religion i give you credit for being bold. but please dont bash a religion or put it in a vulgar context. i do credit you for fighting till the end beacuse i am the same way. execpt i will always come out victorious. thats how i am. |
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Nov 22 2006, 09:54 AM
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![]() daughter of sin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
What's wrong with "christian bullcrap"? She could've said bullSHIT. :)
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