Older boyfriend, How much older? |
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 Jul 7 2006, 02:25 PM
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It's all a personal preference.
A guy that I sort of like right now, is about 4 and a half years older than me, but I tend to see him more as a role model then a crush because he's so much older. We're both Christians, we have similar limits and I know nothing would work out because of those limits. And, of course, my parents. My Dad's really overprotective and doesn't even like me being FRIENDS with 19 year olds- (I'm 15, this guy's almost 20)- and the last time I liked a 17-year-old, my Dad flipped. The only reason I'm friends with the older guys I am, is because they're from church and he trusts them. On the other hand it depends on the guy. If he's a nice guy, who's willing to move at your pace, and work with you instead of trying to get something from you, then go for it- as long as your parents, and most importantly yourself, are okay with it. Be cautious but don't miss out on an opportunity because a guy's 2 years older... In my opinion, when you're in high school, it doesn't make much of a difference : ) |
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Jul 8 2006, 07:10 AM
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quotes always say age is nothing when it comes to love. haha, thats not true
 i think around 1-3 years. at the most, 4 years? |
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Jul 9 2006, 12:25 AM
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i agree with the person above me^
but really, i think it does matter if you want it to matter. in highschool, it's whether you want to be with someone with more experience or less experience. i think in your situation would be fine |
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Jul 9 2006, 08:25 AM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
well .. when i was in 9th grade .. i dated a guy who was in 11th.. its not that bad .. you should look at the maturity level of both you and him .. and also .. he is older then you and most likely more expierienced then you .. so watch out for that if u arent raedy to do anything .. i am 16 now and my boyfriend is 18 soon to be 19 .. i think you will be okay with dating him ..
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Jul 9 2006, 02:41 PM
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 Personally I always date older guys. I like it that way.
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Jul 9 2006, 03:09 PM
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I like older women. But I get the younger ones? d-d-d-d-d-d-ayummmmmm
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Jul 10 2006, 04:52 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
QUOTE I like older women. But I get the younger ones? d-d-d-d-d-d-ayummmmmm Haha okay - whatever that means. =] |
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Jul 10 2006, 05:59 PM
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 worship me or i'll stab you Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,634 |
i prefer older guys
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Jul 10 2006, 06:02 PM
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QUOTE(KMFDM_MDFMK @ Jul 10 2006, 5:59 PM)  i prefer older guys i agree! older guys are HOT. |
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Jul 10 2006, 10:28 PM
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your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
QUOTE i agree! older guys are HOT. Well, yeah - they're usually hotter than guys in the same grade. Usually. |
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Jul 11 2006, 09:25 AM
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welll, when i was a freshman last year, i started dating a senior, and now he's graduated and going into the air force and i'm only going to be a sophmore. we've been dating for 10 months too and it will probably get a lot farther
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Jul 11 2006, 10:16 AM
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your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
QUOTE welll, when i was a freshman last year, i started dating a senior, and now he's graduated and going into the air force and i'm only going to be a sophmore. we've been dating for 10 months too and it will probably get a lot farther That's awesome
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| *shannonx1* |
Jul 11 2006, 06:31 PM
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i think 2 years is fine, you shouldn't worry about it. my boyfriend is almost 3 years older than me - together for 10 months. yeyuhhh.
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Jul 11 2006, 08:35 PM
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my boyfriend is 24 and i'm 18 and we are perfect together...age doesn't matter much...i think it just depends on if you are comfortable with a person or not...
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Jul 11 2006, 08:54 PM
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My boyfriend is 3 years older than me. So two years should be fine
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Jul 13 2006, 02:10 AM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
My brother's girlfriend is 18, and my brother is 16. Lol... that's even weirder.
My dad is 5 years older than my mom... I don't know. Age gaps that large aren't uncommon. I think it's fine, just so long as you want to date him :] |
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Jul 13 2006, 05:52 AM
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My boyfriend is 2 years older than me.I'd probably date a guy maybe 3 or 4 years older than me maybe..age doesn't really bother me..
And my dad is 10 years older than my mum o.o |
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Jul 13 2006, 11:19 PM
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im a senior in highschool and its really hard to date someone in college. well for me. but i dont know. personally, im more attracted to older guys...guys my age are just immature.
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Jul 14 2006, 02:36 AM
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honeslty i wouldnt want to date an older guy... they can be soo mature that they're IMMATURE... its hard to explain but really age is nothing but a number.. its only the matter of how much you trust the guy b/c he could be more experienced with SUCH things...
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