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Are you extremely self-concious?, insecurities, flaws etc.
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post Jul 8 2006, 09:31 PM
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I'm actually pretty ok with myself. I can't stand my hamstrings/butt though. Or how my nose looks when I smile. But that's about it.
 
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post Jul 8 2006, 10:57 PM
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happy.gif now dat i think of it...i was pretty self-conscious wen i was in middle skool but it all went away after high school started....i mean..yea i hate my breast size...i admit im flat but maybe dats why i onlii take pictures of my face which i consider my best quality but i wear glasses so it sux sumtimes...i try to look myself everyday...i mean...as long as i dont go outside with my hair frizzing and my clothes discombobulated(<--typo)....den im fine...jus wear a smile on ur face....and da ppl dat dun wear makeup...dun worry ur not alone...i hardly ever wear makeup becuz it takes up time and i rather sleep =]
 
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post Jul 9 2006, 02:43 PM
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I also have eczema. But it's not enough to make me self-conscious, maybe because I've had it all my life & have learned to live w/ it. I had it really bad in the crooks of my arms & I got medicine stuff for that. But I wouldn't use that for my face because... it's my face. Use Eucerin. It's just lotion, not medicated or anything. It's just really good for sensitive skin & really moisturizing. Don't use it where it's not reAlly dry though, it will end up looking oily. I but I put a ton on my messed up spots before I go to sleep & during the night it soaks in & I am fixed.

Anyhow, I'm self conscious not because I think I'm fat or ugly or whatever other kind of nonsense, but because I'm constantly comparing myself to others. It doesn't matter if I'm skinny, I've gotta be skinnier than some other person. Or prettier. Or smarter. Or nicer. And that's no good, I know.
 
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post Jul 9 2006, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(Spazzzmatic @ Jul 9 2006, 3:43 PM) *
I also have eczema. But it's not enough to make me self-conscious, maybe because I've had it all my life & have learned to live w/ it. I had it really bad in the crooks of my arms & I got medicine stuff for that. But I wouldn't use that for my face because... it's my face. Use Eucerin. It's just lotion, not medicated or anything. It's just really good for sensitive skin & really moisturizing. Don't use it where it's not reAlly dry though, it will end up looking oily. I but I put a ton on my messed up spots before I go to sleep & during the night it soaks in & I am fixed.

Anyhow, I'm self conscious not because I think I'm fat or ugly or whatever other kind of nonsense, but because I'm constantly comparing myself to others. It doesn't matter if I'm skinny, I've gotta be skinnier than some other person. Or prettier. Or smarter. Or nicer. And that's no good, I know.


for the most part the eczema has cleared on my face (YAAY), only.. now i have these weird spots where it was.. like my skin is a lighter tone in those areas than my actual face color is. foundation & stuff doesn't work.
I've also had eczema all my life, & i've learned to live with it as well. i think the biggest reason why i have a problem with it on my face is because the stupid boys in fifth grade used to always make fun of me for it. (now i'm in 10th grade.. so that was a while ago but i can't let things go) now if one thing is wrong on my face i have a shit attack pinch.gif

really bad quality of mine.
 
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post Jul 9 2006, 10:35 PM
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sometimes i'm self-conscious about certain things (like how my hair looks,how my outfit looks, my weight, etc) but i think that everyone is self-conscious about something

the thing is, you just shouldn't really make a big deal out of it. If people think it doesn't bother you,then it won't bother them.
 
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post Jul 10 2006, 03:40 PM
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YES! YES I AM! I ALWAYS HAVE BEEN AND I ALWAYS WILL BE!
 
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post Jul 11 2006, 12:02 PM
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yeah, i get REALLY self conscious & insecure, especially when im with this one guy, who has always been impressing me ever since i've known him... (about 2 years?). he always asks me why i get so nervous, haha. it's pretty embaressing. i get like that because i don't want to mess up & say something wrong, & i don't want to look stupid or ugly or something. yeah, when people stare at one of my body parts or like something on my face, i get really really uncomfortable haha. _unsure.gif
 
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post Jul 11 2006, 05:55 PM
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I think every person sometimes feel at one point in their life uncomfortable in their own skin. Even when people like to admit or not, we all have our flaws. It's just the way you deal with them. If you don't let it get to you, you'll be just fine. It's just a normal part of every person's life basically.
 
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post Jul 12 2006, 01:15 AM
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I'm really self conscious. It's mostly with my weight and my nose. sad.gif
 
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post Jul 12 2006, 01:58 AM
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There are days when I'm more self-conscious than others...we all have insecurities though. But yeah, I can be sometimes...I've gotten a lot better though. I can be about my stomach sometimes, because I constantly am wishing it was better...and my legs when I'm in a bathing suit sometimes...but I get over it. *shrug* As long as I'm not surrounded by mirrors, I'm not toooo bad...
 
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post Jul 13 2006, 11:34 PM
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I really hate mirrors.

I'm one of those girls that is constantly checking herself in the mirror to see if there's anything wrong with my make-up, something in my teeth, a patch of dry skin that needs moisturizing, how does my butt look in these jeans. It's absolutely horrid. I cannot stop myself.
 

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