His dad wants us to break-up, because he's afraid we're having sex. |
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 Jul 7 2006, 06:14 AM
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 roosternamedingo.  Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926  |
My boyfriend wants to stay, so do I, but we'll have to meet in a group of friends and we can't call each other. My fear is that his father may get to him and he may break-up with me. Gee..parents ruin everything.
 Well hiding from his dad is going to be pretty easy because he doesn't leave the house, and my boyfriend's parents don't really care about where he goes...so that's the good part. Can it work? |
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Jul 7 2006, 06:36 AM
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 ..♥.A Girl With Talents.♥.. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,238 |
Umm who cares what he's dad thinks he should show some respect....if he could see that you's were both crazy about each other than maybe he would not be so hard on you both but I think he is a bit werid if he wont let you's call each other or see each other like doesn't he know what the word "TRUST" means...so I think you should just ingnore him he is being stupid.
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Jul 7 2006, 06:40 AM
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my aunt is like that..but i moved away from her a while back ago
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Jul 7 2006, 01:36 PM
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well its a matter of, are you two having sex? If you two are then your dad has every right to worry. But if your not then you should be able to talk to your dad and tell him the truth about it.
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Jul 7 2006, 01:59 PM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
^ my boyfriend tried that...his dad wouldn't believe him.
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Jul 7 2006, 02:01 PM
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Can't really stop parents from being overprotective. I should know. -_-
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Jul 7 2006, 03:26 PM
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QUOTE ^ my boyfriend tried that...his dad wouldn't believe him. then it their problem, If they won't believe you when they should atleast put forth some effort in believing you guys then its their problem I think. Although you should respect your parents opinions and stuff too. |
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Jul 7 2006, 03:35 PM
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theres not much you can do if you already talked about it...so i guess you have to decide, honor the parents, or honor yourself. which one seems logical?
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Jul 7 2006, 07:18 PM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
QUOTE(lyin_in_wait @ Jul 7 2006, 4:35 PM)  theres not much you can do if you already talked about it...so i guess you have to decide, honor the parents, or honor yourself. which one seems logical? Well..they seem both logical, it different ways of course. But it's okay, I think it'll pass. For now we just decided to ignore it and keep our relationship as subtle as possible. |
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Jul 7 2006, 07:32 PM
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My boyfriend n I broke up recently ..A big part had to do with his dad being an a-hole. He could never call me or hang out. & summer .. hella tough.
I say you try .. just try. |
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Jul 7 2006, 09:50 PM
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Well it was your boyfriend who tried to talk to him right?
Why don't you both go and talk to him. Have yourselves both sit down and explain your side of the story and get him to explain his worries. Also if he gets irrashional at all just walk away and try again at a later time. I know it might seem pointless but sometimes its best to fight the problem head on rather then sneak around running away. |
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Jul 7 2006, 10:55 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
You should respect what your parents think and stuff because they just care about you and want the best for you..but I don`t get it..are you guys having sex?
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Jul 8 2006, 07:53 AM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
*sigh* whatever..we're ignoring him for now. He's just being a poopy head. Um..how do you request to close a topic?
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Jul 8 2006, 08:30 PM
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QUOTE Can't really stop parents from being overprotective yeah i know my one girlfriend couldn't call guys or she was grounded |
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Jul 9 2006, 06:38 PM
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uhm well hiding away from his dad wont really help the situation..it will only make things worse why dont you guys all have dinner and be like more involved with his family your bfs dad could see what a good person you are and stop worrying.
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Jul 9 2006, 08:06 PM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
Well..whatever..he broke up with me today for the reasons his dad told him. It was a good ride while it lasted..it still hurts so much though.
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Jul 9 2006, 08:57 PM
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^ I'm sorry to hear that.
 Don't worry. There will be other fish in the sea.
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Jul 10 2006, 12:34 AM
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QUOTE(x0xIlmBx0x @ Jul 9 2006, 8:06 PM) Well..whatever..he broke up with me today for the reasons his dad told him. It was a good ride while it lasted..it still hurts so much though. aww im sorry!!!! well if he lets his dad makes his decisions for him then it really wasnt worth it i mean hes a big kid now he has to make his decisions on his own and not let his parents do everything for him. his dad thinks hes helping him but he is only harming him for not letting him think on his own.. |
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Jul 10 2006, 01:17 AM
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duh it can work.. the only thing is that are you willing to take the risk of getting in trouble? it kind reminds me of romeo & juliet haha
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Jul 10 2006, 05:47 AM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
I always thought that I would initiate a break-up if we ever did. I was so shocked...I think his dad manipulated him. The things he told me didn't sound like him at all. It hurts because we have so many good memories together. I'm so sad but I can't even cry anymore because I've done that too much. I feel like I don't know him anymore.
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Jul 11 2006, 01:21 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
It was asked for, so Closed.
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