problem, friends wit benifits? Options

[Angel Tears]

theres tis guy i liked him last year however i was able 2 suprres tis like until now recently me n him kissed it was a dare typa thing he didn think id do t we r sorta friends.. well yea i enjoye it so newayz we eneded up doin it again as he says were " friends with benifits" makin out wit him wasn tat bad he told me straight tat hes jus gonna b messin wit me n not 2 get my hpes up so i was le wateva i dun like him newayz bt the more we make out the more i like hi so now i relly relly like him.. but i kno e dun like me.. recently he sed "all good thins gotta kome 2 an end" which i guess is fine but its jus the fact tat he wants 2 end it wit sumthin a lil furthere... basically he wants 2 have sex wit me then jus leve n idk it botheres me theres nuthin atached n i rellylike him now im confused n dunno wat 2 do.. sum advice plz

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

sry to say this but he sounds kinda lyke a jerk saying yur a "friend with benefits" he may be taking advantage of yu...
if you really lilke him, tell him that and see how he responds...
good luck with all this

[Just_Dream]

theres tis guy i liked him last year however i was able 2 suprres tis like until now recently me n him kissed it was a dare typa thing he didn think id do t we r sorta friends.. well yea i enjoye it so newayz we eneded up doin it again as he says were " friends with benifits" makin out wit him wasn tat bad he told me straight tat hes jus gonna b messin wit me n not 2 get my hpes up so i was le wateva i dun like him newayz bt the more we make out the more i like hi so now i relly relly like him.. but i kno e dun like me.. recently he sed "all good thins gotta kome 2 an end" which i guess is fine but its jus the fact tat he wants 2 end it wit sumthin a lil furthere... basically he wants 2 have sex wit me then jus leve n idk it botheres me theres nuthin atached n i rellylike him now im confused n dunno wat 2 do.. sum advice plz

yea i agree with krnqt. The this is, once he does have intercourse with you, he might be one of those guys that stop talking to you ONCE he gets you in bed. Yu know, a HIT AND RUN.

I DON'T Think you want a ONE NIGHT STAND so if you ever tell him that you want to do it with him, remember, he probably did alot of other girls, by the way he just thinks you ugys are friends with benefits.. tsk tsk.

[Angel Tears]

i tust him n tis is the 1st time hes eva did nethin wit a a grl ( no hes not gay)

[xquizit]

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[illuminessence]

ugh someone remind me to make sure my sis signed off of createblog first before I post.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Hmm... friends with benefits usually means having sex with a friend, but um yeah. I dunno, I guess it's not the best thing to be doing, because one of you is gonna end up getting hurt. I think me and my ex are kinda like friends with benefits, well, ONE time, and yeah. i dunno it was just weird=\

[LoST SouL]

hmm

[Angel Tears]

i am hurt n he warned me in advance not 2 get my hopes up =(

[ryfitaDF]

how could you not know not to kick him in tha balls?!?!?! that guy is such a douuuuuuuuuuche!!!!!!! oh my gawd! if you were personally my friend i would make him bite the curb.

p.s. is your keyboard broken? i could hardly read what you were saying.

[tinababy143]

okay..well basically hes using you and thats not right..you should end it herre and now..yeah of course you like him..but its onliee gonna hurt you more if you keep doing it..i was with a guy like that once and i was so in love with him and he ended up asking some gurrl out and our "friends with benefits" was over and i was hurt and disappointed, but i couldnt realli get upset at him because he flat out said "we're onliee friends with benefits" and i had gotten myself into that situation as well..but now..looking back on it..i realize that he was just using me and i was being stupid and naiive..

[swtpumkinpie]

listen to everyone. you should NOT do anything with this "friend." i could understand the kissing but to go as far as sex...just do NOT do it!

[pikimoo]

I hate the phrase 'friends with benefits'!! You should either date or not date. Let other people know what's going on!! Because what happens if a girl and a guy are 'friends with benefits' and the guy gets a girlfriend? Wouldn't that be cheating??

Ugh. Bad experience with that phrase last year. I told him I loved him. I was gone for TWO DAYS. And him and my friend Kathy decided to be 'friends with benefits' and make out in MY backyard.

But yeah.. I agree with everyone else. DROP THAT BIATCH LIKE A HOT POTATO!

[Just_Dream]

i tust him n tis is the 1st time hes eva did nethin wit a a grl ( no hes not gay)

Are you SURE?! How long have you KNOWN him?! I mean, come on... I know a friend who has a friend who dated this guy and he said he was a virgin.. And she really WAS a virgin. So then they had intercourse and you know what? He dumped her like a day later. Inf act, she ehard he lied to her, that he had done it before... That it was more of a HIT and RUN sort of thing. BS I tell you! Don't let him do that that to you! And plus, what a bad friend He probably knows he's going to hurt you.

[MiSSYJENSS]

i agree with everyone else. he aint worth ya time. if hes gonna play like that, he aint worth shit

[compleXperceptio...]

never never NEVER do friends with benefits!!!!! it screws a lot of people over because one person ends up liking the other when to the OTHER person it was just sex... go tell him to go screw around with someone else `cause he just wants you for your body and he even basically admitted that to you.

[177emories]

theres tis guy i liked him last year however i was able 2 suprres tis like until now recently me n him kissed it was a dare typa thing he didn think id do t we r sorta friends.. well yea i enjoye it so newayz we eneded up doin it again as he says were " friends with benifits" makin out wit him wasn tat bad he told me straight tat hes jus gonna b messin wit me n not 2 get my hpes up so i was le wateva i dun like him newayz bt the more we make out the more i like hi so now i relly relly like him.. but i kno e dun like me.. recently he sed "all good thins gotta kome 2 an end" which i guess is fine but its jus the fact tat he wants 2 end it wit sumthin a lil furthere... basically he wants 2 have sex wit me then jus leve n idk it botheres me theres nuthin atached n i rellylike him now im confused n dunno wat 2 do.. sum advice plz

omg haha what a freinds with benfits like you can make out but there are no feeling involved??? i don't think u should have sex with him! i don't think you should even be making out with him when he said it staright up that he's just messing with you... who's the one getting the benefits here? if u like making out go get a bf, not a jerk like this...

LEAVE HIM!!!! you don't need someone like this!!!!

[filipinobuddie]

NO!! I don't know if it's your liking for him that has made you confused, but you must see clearly that you should NOT have intercourse with him. Especially if he only wants it for the ass and not for anything else. Besides, you could get STDs or something and he could care less. SO DONT DO IT.

[Angel Tears]

ive known him 4 a yr n i kno he neva had a grl b4 or sex for sure

[LatinaLady]

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yes you have!

[fionnaax33]

[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1]he's a dick. don't let him hurt you. there are so many more better guys in this world & you don't have to stick with an ass like him</font></sizE>

[MrTurtle]

ditch him. being "friends with benefits" is just him saying "i want to take advantage of you without all the commitment stuff."
dont be someones bi*ch, its not worth it, you deserve better.

[alexis5489]

Sry hun, but thts a NO NO. If he tells u tht hes juss guna hook up with u nd tht hes not lookin 4 a relatinship, obviously tht not a good thing. 4get bout him nd find a reel man

Aw, sry hun

[islandkiss]

DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!

c'mon you guys don't seem like you know each other and how are you sure that he likes you too? think [B]before you act[/B]. by having sex at a young age only makes you put yourself at the risk of getting STDs and you're also putting yourself in the risk of getting pregnant. which may horridly ruin your life. sry for being so brutally honest but you'll regret this if something goes wrong. If you do, do it then don't forget to use protection. and by the way, what if he's using you just to have "fun"? don't make the wrong choice. please.

[barbie]

aint nothing wrong with a lil benfits