is it weird to have a myspace relationship?, haha. yes i know, how lame.. but yeaaa i need advice |
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if you're going to meet him.. go with a group of friends.
or meet him in a public place.. such as a park filled with kids&adults. or the mall. dont go somewhere with him where no one can help you if you run into any type of trouble.. such as an alleyway.. his house.. anywhere that could put you in danger. |
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Jun 30 2006, 02:15 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
I wouldn't have a myspace relationship. He could be some weird-o stalker.
 I'm con internet relationships.  QUOTE Online relationships are for people who are too pathetic/ugly to find anyone who will like them in person. Hahahaha. That made me laugh. |
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Jun 30 2006, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ Jun 29 2006, 9:30 PM)  yea havin a realtionship on the internet is not only sad ( no offence ) but a BAD IDEA...people can say anything that you want to hear.. in other words its REALLY easy to lie about who you are i mean you dont kno who i am i could be 89 years old and have a picture of a 17 year old on myspace (which i dont lol ) i would NOT recommend it at all. be careful if in the end you do decide to meet the guy he can turn out to be the opposite of who you thought he would be. GOOD LUCK!! and be really careful. p.s bring pepper spray.....jus in case lol. shes rite....i mean...it is very dangerous...u probably seen on the news those old men try to be high school guys and stuff....and the others r rite..if u really wanna go..bring some friends.. |
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Jun 30 2006, 05:55 PM
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i'm not going to tell you that you're bad or stupid or whatever for having an online relationship, but i will tell you this: i think you're taking an extremely big risk by meeting this guy. you'll have to give me details as to where you are meeting him and who (he says) he is before i can give you adequate advice.
but other than that, i really hope you're meeting in a public place and going with a buddy or two. and to KMFDM_MDFMK: i'm not trying to hate, but who are you to say that it's stupid to have an online relationship? my uncle met his current wife through an online dating service, and their marriage is going extremely well. i doubt you know who this girl really is, so who are you to judge? |
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Jun 30 2006, 06:24 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
well, if you think it's pointless and stupid, why do you have a relationship with him?
I would be careful if I were you....like suzzette said, don't end up like those girls on the news.  Even when you meet him, I would be careful.
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Jul 1 2006, 04:47 PM
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1. i am NOT dumb or ugly or PATHETIC & that is rude to say that when you don't even know who i am, so shut it
 . 2. i am going with friends 3. i think the situation at the moment is dumb.. but he's just such a nice guy & not to mention hot. 4. my frend knows who he is & is frends with him so that sorta changes things, yes?. |
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Jul 1 2006, 04:57 PM
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i don't find it lame, just really risk-taking and dangerous. maybe if it were a friendship, but having an online relationship on a non-secured network...
kinda makes me feel uneasy. no? |
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Jul 1 2006, 04:57 PM
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^ people might be a little confused because you say it's dumb/pointless but you still want to meet him. i guess that that occurs from your knowledge of how online relationships go but it contradicts how you feel about him. i agree with most people that... it's a big risk and i rather you not take it because of all the heat Myspace has been going through. the most i can tell you is to be extremely careful at a public place with plenty of people you trust around. and take it slow. i think online dating is a little... shallow, like there's no substance behind it. however, a lot of people aren't cut out for 'regular' dating. like they can't meet someone physical and then build a relationship from there. some people rather find someone and get to know them from their personality/conversations because there's less of a risk of rejection because of physical attributes. it's not stupid or pathetic... it's just... dangerous. and there are wonderful love stories of people who found their soul mate through the internet, so it isn't so dumb, huh? |
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Jul 1 2006, 05:00 PM
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QUOTE(This Confession @ Jun 30 2006, 1:03 AM) seriously if your just going to keep going and say how stupid it is, then I suggest not to keep replying the same thing pretty much. Your supposed to help her not tell her shes stupid or pathetic. If shes going to meet the guy maybe she can figure out her feelings. And if she doesn't like the guy still then she can end it. Or well if the guys not who she thinks it is, she should just take friends along and drive by or something and see if it him and if not then keep driving 0_o Thank you oh so very much. 
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Jul 1 2006, 05:45 PM
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I don't think it's stupid...just be sure to take precautions. Like what someone said, bring a friend or pepper-spray. Ask him for personal info such as home number, address etc, then make sure to give it to a number of trusted people just so they can track him down in case something happens.
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Jul 1 2006, 06:09 PM
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alright, if you have only talked to them online then... I wouldn't just go out and meet them... that would be bad idea. You should really form a bond with them over the phone and online... maybe even with video clips... make sure you get lots of pictures of them too, and ask them to take pictures of themselves doing funny things so you know its not some slime-ball trying to rape you.
 I'm meeting Holly in three days.. I have about 30 pictures of her... even pictures that very few people have seen... I havn't recieved any video footage of her (none... don't get any ideas O_o...), but i have sent her videos that me and my friends made, and man... i dunno, but with all the stuff that i send her... through the net or in the mail. I think it would be pretty difficult to fake me being me... JUST MAKE SURE YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE MEETING.
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Jul 1 2006, 07:36 PM
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QUOTE(ola says hola @ Jul 1 2006, 6:00 PM) Thank you oh so very much. Your welcome Deary
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Jul 1 2006, 08:13 PM
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I met my current girlfriend of three months through Myspace and I could not be happier.
I knew she was okay to meet however, because our friends knew each other, but without Myspace we would never be how we are now. When you say a "Myspace Relationship" you make it sound like, Myspace is the only way that you communicate, and the only way that you know him. If I were you, try and find someone to go with you when you meet him, or seriously get to know this person. In the long run, you decide if you are going to meet this kid or not, but use common sense. =] I wish you the best of luck. Edit: If your friend knows him personally, then why not meet him? My girlfriend and I had a "Myspace Relationship" as well, until we met in person and really got to know each other. Now we only use it to send each other lyrics to songs. |
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Jul 1 2006, 08:18 PM
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Yes there have been many incidents on the news :[
but... If you get pure make sense proof that this guys is for real (maybe a webcam) Something that can make sure this guy is for real Its ok. If you want to meet him somewhere for the first time bring a parent. He wont think your stupid or imature, he will know you want to keep safe for internet predators. oh and if u dont want ur parents to know that u met someone online bring someone who is like taller and looks older and can actually protect you :] hehe |
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Jul 1 2006, 10:37 PM
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Yeah, accaully I'm meetin holly and her dad and little brother will be their too... accually I even asked her dad if he thought it was ok if we went out... I guess I was just really nervous, becuase shes 15 and I'm 20... I wanted her parents to know all about it becuase I didn't want them to cahrge me with statitory rape... that would not be fun... I think we will have fun even if her parents are there XD... WE ARE GOING TO HAVE AN AWSOME TIME!!!! I hopw
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Jul 1 2006, 11:53 PM
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^hope
hah well atleast you don't have to meet my mother easpecially since today. I won't even be seeing her anytime soon. |
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Jul 2 2006, 04:28 AM
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online dating isnt for stupid people, morons.
it's stupid people that arent smart enough to find ways to defend themselves. |
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Jul 2 2006, 11:30 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
You know what, if you really want to go through it (although I advise you not to), call his home and ask to speak with his parents and comfirm that he's really who/what he said he was. That's the safest thing you can do.
And bring some friends when you meet him for the first time. Oh and also, meet at a place with a lot of people. |
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Jul 3 2006, 09:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,611 |
i didnt even read what you wrote. just the title. and yes, its weird.
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Jul 3 2006, 09:38 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
i think even if you've spent you life knowing someone online, you shouldn't date them. sure if you meet online, talk, meet in person & then start hanging out after that [if their in your area], and it escalates to a relationship then go for it. otherwise leave it at friends. people are too weird these days and he might not be the same person your talking to. i dont know, thats just me. if you do meet someone i'd say go with friends or something.
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Jul 4 2006, 04:11 PM
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 Realm of Fire Group: Member Posts: 229 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,934 |
Never know who'll you will meet on the internet these days @_@
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