is it weird to have a myspace relationship?, haha. yes i know, how lame.. but yeaaa i need advice Options

[mytangerine]

this is lame..but just.. help?
ok so im having a myspace relationship with this one guy;
however, i think the whole thing is pointless & stupid.. but he's just... really great it just seems like we've been friends forever. but yea.. im thinking i should just be friends with him oh & im going to meet him on sunday...

[Skyline Drive]

So do you only talk to the guy on myspace ?

How old is he and does he live in your area ?


I'll let you know my reply after you answer those.

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

i heard something about this on the news... don't do something stupid like that. having a relationship with someone on myspace..that is somewhat pathetic

[*This Confession*]

Ehm, I met my boyfriend on myspace. Although we talk on the phone like everyday and stuff... We haven't met in real life either we are tuesday though .

But if you find it pointless and stupid then I highly just don't think you should be in the relationship then. It just sounds like you just have him in this relationship just so your in one. Tell him what you think about it, and get his opinion on it as well. Maybe you two should meet and stuff and see if you two are really capatable with each other and then think about continueing the relationship.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

yea havin a realtionship on the internet is not only sad ( no offence ) but a BAD IDEA...people can say anything that you want to hear.. in other words its REALLY easy to lie about who you are i mean you dont kno who i am i could be 89 years old and have a picture of a 17 year old on myspace (which i dont lol ) i would NOT recommend it at all. be careful if in the end you do decide to meet the guy he can turn out to be the opposite of who you thought he would be. GOOD LUCK!! and be really careful.

p.s bring pepper spray.....jus in case lol.

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

i think people who have relationships online are dumb as hell..no offence...especially on myspace..

[*This Confession*]

yea, don't bring pepper spray. well you could
but take a few friends as well if you don't
have like any kind of proof that hes the person
you think he is 0_o


^well then do you think long distance stuff is dumb too?

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

i still say it is pathetic but if you wanna get raped by some crazy old ass pedophile..that is your choice

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Online relationships are for people who are too pathetic/ugly to find anyone who will like them in person.




No offense. But imo online relationships, anywhere online are just not for me.

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

chica who stated this thread..i don't think you are stupid i just think that is a asinine thing to do..don't be a dumbass..no offence

[PrincessAda]

So many people do.Its not even weird anymore.

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

yeah..i know it is hella pathetic...people are such dumba$$es lately

[snak3y3z1001]

my buddy met this chick off myspace. less then a month into the releationship he got engage to her. I met her once. She is really pretty but is dumb as a f**kin brick.

[doork]

A boyfriend on myspace? For me its pathetic. You have to be careful when you meet him, but yeah.. I think its pointless.

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

dumb people+internet+myspace= one pretty pathetic conbination

[*This Confession*]

^what if where not dumb?


Some people are cut out for long distance/online relationships..
Its a matter of trust. I mean if you go and talk to their parents and
plenty of their friends and talk to their friends online and their highly open about themselves then I wouldn't worry so much. But when you meet him for your first time take a friend with you. Make sure your parents know where you are and stuff.

If you ever feel uncomfortable whether it's by phone, Internet, or face to face, never ever be afraid to discontinue the relationship. Your safety is the number one most important thing and your internal instincts should always be taken seriously.
If a person that you met through the Internet begins to bother you by calling you all the time, sending you weird messages that make you feel afraid, or you fear that they know where you live and are stalking you, don't be afraid to tell someone to get help.
The bottom line about Internet relationships is to have fun with them. Don't get too caught up that you miss what's going on outside of your computer. Relationships can be just as fulfilling online as well as offline. Just remember to have fun and if it makes you uncomfortable in any way, end the relationship before it's too late.

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

i can understand long distance relationships but i don't understand online relationships.. i just find online relationships fcukin stupid

[*This Confession*]

seriously if your just going to keep going and say how stupid it is, then I suggest not to keep replying the same thing pretty much. Your supposed to help her not tell her shes stupid or pathetic.

If shes going to meet the guy maybe she can figure out her feelings. And if she doesn't like the guy still then she can end it. Or well if the guys not who she thinks it is, she should just take friends along and drive by or something and see if it him and if not then keep driving 0_o

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

i ain't saying she is stupid and pathetic..she might be a smart girl. I am just saying that online dating is pathetic..if she wants to meet the guy that is her personal decision

[SarahxJoy]

I'll have to agree with Holly. We can't tell ola says hola to not go and meet this guy. It's her choice. Like Holly said, take a few friends with you when you meet him and be careful about who you trust. Good luck.

Edit\\

i ain't saying she is stupid and pathetic..she might be a smart girl. I am just saying that online dating is pathetic..if she wants to meet the guy that is her personal decisio

..really?

i think people who have relationships online are dumb as hell..no offence...especially on myspace..

dumb people+internet+myspace= one pretty pathetic conbination

And if it's her personal descision then let her be and stop replying to this thread talking about how you think it's dumb and pathetic. Sheesh, give it a rest. :)

[angel-roh]

Myspace has full of liars and stalkers =O

But if you like to take dangerous risk, go for it

I do find it weird.... myspace relationship -_-;;;;;;;;

ONLINE relationship. DO YOU MEAN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP? if you mean that, no it's not weird

[Gypsy Eyes]

i think people who have relationships online are dumb as hell..no offence...especially on myspace..

Hey it's not as dumb as a sixteen year old being engaged. Now that is simply brainless

Maybe bring a friend with you when you meet him? Or have a trusted adult nearby? Just in case

[Gypsy Eyes]

^exactly, if she brings a few people with her she should be ok as long as it's in a busy area.

DO NOT GO OVER TO HIS HOUSE OR THE OPPOSITE!

[Skyline Drive]

i know alot of people that become friends with people on there just because their friend knows them than they meet them in real life and it's no big deal. than they look into dating or something. but this seems desperate or maybe it's because you're so young.. just bring some friends with you.

[BrokenDream]

b' date='Jun 29 2006, 11:52 PM' post='2121622']
Online relationships are for people who are too pathetic/ugly to find anyone who will like them in person.
No offense. But imo online relationships, anywhere online are just not for me.

Agreed.