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| *krnxswat* |
 Feb 11 2004, 06:54 PM
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Hm, for me I'd choose 'being single.' I don't know, haha, there are less worries, less distractions (not in a mean way, of course). Although I may feel lonely at times, I find being single much easier and able to enjoy life more! And of course, that's just my opinion. One may get really happy in the beginning and stuff, but as the relationship continues, problems start arising (ex. jealousy), confused feelings.
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Feb 11 2004, 07:05 PM
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 i guess ur right.. but its nice having sumone hold u n tell u they love u.. 
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Feb 11 2004, 07:48 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
 true to both. trueee to both.
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Feb 11 2004, 08:37 PM
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QUOTE(liquidbluac1d @ Feb 11 2004, 7:05 PM) i guess ur right.. but its nice having sumone hold u n tell u they love u.. i LOVE being single!!! so freeeeeeee. lol. i spend a lot more time with my friends, and i won't have to worry about forgetting an anniversary or something. and no more evil parents. and about being held and told im loved, i get that from my parents, and friends. it seems more comforting to have a lot of people care about you so much than just one. |
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Feb 11 2004, 08:44 PM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
well, I have to differ from the bunch. I would rather being taken for 3 reasons. 1) Im already taken LOL.... 2) just like liquidbluac1d said, its nice to have somebody to hold and tell them you love them (besides you mom.... but im leaving mommy out of this!!!), and 3) when your freinds want to go out with thier gf's/bf/s you'll have somebody to have with you so you wont fell lonely of left out.
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Feb 12 2004, 01:36 AM
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ive been single for a very long time (2 1/2 years) and sometimes the loneliness gets to you and other times its like whatever. i mean i rather be taken to know you have someone special right by your side that you can spend your time with. other than being like a loser and wishing you have that. i mean its fun being single becuase you dont have to worry about anything but sometimes involving emotions and being with someone DRAMA sets it. so being single and taken has its ups and downs....
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Feb 12 2004, 08:55 AM
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 got, toilet paper? Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,156 |
hm. being single has its advantages.. already stated.. (i.e. more freedom) . but then again being a couple has its advantages if you dont really care about that 'freedom'. . . . iono.. i dont think its a choice to make?? your either one or the other eh? ..
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Feb 12 2004, 11:06 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
i love being taken only cuz i'm taken by the right guy.
he's grrrrreeeat!
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Feb 12 2004, 11:16 AM
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I wish love wasnt so complicated..
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Feb 12 2004, 01:01 PM
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 This is the part where you run away... Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 647 |
whatever life hands me or doesn't hand me, I know it's what I need or don't need. I love not being single because it's fun and because it really teaches you alot of things through the stresses of it. The more I learn, the smarter about life I get. Being single on the other hand also helps you to be stronger at being lonely. It helps you focus on more important things in your life that you need to focus on.
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Feb 12 2004, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(deadsouls @ Feb 12 2004, 1:01 PM) whatever life hands me or doesn't hand me, I know it's what I need or don't need. I love not being single because it's fun and because it really teaches you alot of things through the stresses of it. The more I learn, the smarter about life I get. Being single on the other hand also helps you to be stronger at being lonely. It helps you focus on more important things in your life that you need to focus on. Amen! I totally agree...I just let life take it's course...I dont force destiny
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Feb 14 2004, 01:17 PM
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 They can lie to my face, but not to my heart... Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,557 |
I agree with you, being single is better. But to be honest with you, it's not like I've ever been "taken"...
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Feb 14 2004, 10:46 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I guess being single seems great, but being taken does to. You have to worry about alot of things when you're taken, but as well as single. When you're single, you have to elarn whether or not a guy/gurl likes you and all this drama and stuff, but also you go through alot of drama when you're taken too. SO all in all, it seems that either way, you win and lose.
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Feb 14 2004, 10:59 PM
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 i will be LOVED, some day. Group: Member Posts: 238 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 263 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Feb 12 2004, 11:06 AM) i love being taken only cuz i'm taken by the right guy. I've got to agree with that.. I couldn't ask for more.. 
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Feb 15 2004, 06:46 PM
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QUOTE(mer @ Feb 11 2004, 8:37 PM) i LOVE being single!!! so freeeeeeee. lol. i spend a lot more time with my friends, and i won't have to worry about forgetting an anniversary or something. and no more evil parents. and about being held and told im loved, i get that from my parents, and friends. it seems more comforting to have a lot of people care about you so much than just one. Yeup same here... except with my friends im the only single one... so yeah i get to hang out with my friends alot more than when im in a relationship... juss sux though when ur the third wheel or ur watchin a movie wid ur friends and u turn to ur right to tell ur best friend thats soo cool and instead u see them two making out so you turn to your left to say that was cool to ur other friend but its the same thing. The only advantage is when ur at the mall and a hott gurl with a hot ass comes along and you and all ur friend look and then they all get slapped by their gf's except u cause u dont got one lol |
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Feb 15 2004, 10:19 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i guess theres 'goods' and 'bads' about being single and being taken.. lol u kno wuts best? a bf/gf that makes u feel happy, loved and free at the same time lols
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Feb 16 2004, 09:37 PM
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i think being single is def. good. i meant teenage years, not forever. being single allows u freedom and more free time. it's also not a burden coz then u don't constantly think whether or not u'r gonna break up with him/her and u don't need to worry about buying him/her this or that. sure, having something to talk and care for u may be good but u got ur friends and family.
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Feb 16 2004, 11:55 PM
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MaJoR DorK!! Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,247 |
I think that you're right. Being single is awesome, and when you get lonely, that's what friends are for!!!
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Feb 17 2004, 01:16 AM
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 i'll treat you like milk.. i'll do nothing but spoil you Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 577 |
QUOTE(COLDasICE @ Feb 14 2004, 10:59 PM) I've got to agree with that.. I couldn't ask for more.. awww.. thank you.. me too.. especially being taken by the right girl  .. loving and being loved is such a great feeling.. wow.. thats the beauty of life..
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Feb 19 2004, 10:27 PM
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I durno. I guess being taken by the right guy beats being single.
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Feb 19 2004, 10:36 PM
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 BOO! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,542 |
I would say from the single point of view it would be sad, lonely, depressing, but happy at times cause you may see all these problems going on with all the couples. From the taken point of view it would be great cause you have someone to go to. If that person is abusive then i would go to a sweet person. But it would be great cause if you were to attend a school dance and your single then that's kinna sad cause you don't have anyone to share that moment with. So theres a little confusion but i hope you guys get it
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Feb 20 2004, 04:31 AM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
i love being single. i like being single when im single and i like being single when im not. (did that make sense?) being single u have more time with ur friends and family...and theres a lot less drama and stress. but the downfall to being single is like what others have said that feeling of loneliness. it just nice sometimes to have someone that u can talk to other than ur friends or family.
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Feb 20 2004, 03:01 PM
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Well I love being taken... Being single isn't really that much fun. I mean, yeah you can go to parties and shit like that... But you can do that when you are taken too! I mean, being taken is fun! I love it. Having someone to hold you and tell you they love you is the best feeling in the world. (besides an orgasim...haha...
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Feb 20 2004, 06:27 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 11 2004, 6:54 PM) Hm, for me I'd choose 'being single.' I don't know, haha, there are less worries, less distractions (not in a mean way, of course). Although I may feel lonely at times, I find being single much easier and able to enjoy life more! And of course, that's just my opinion. One may get really happy in the beginning and stuff, but as the relationship continues, problems start arising (ex. jealousy), confused feelings. What do you guys think? true true.. but yeah i agree with the girl after your post.. xPP |
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Feb 20 2004, 11:20 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,801 |
both worlds have its ups and downs, soo im undecided.
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