...the story of my life... Options

[suret]

hi everyone...
today i would like to share my life story with all of you.
i'm a male from malaysia.
basically i suffered a lot in my young age. im 19 years old now.
my family is very complicated.
my father is an alcohol addicted. i dont know where is him now..
i have 1 younger sister, 1 elder sister and 1 elder brother. 1 elder sister passed away in a accident when i was 17 years old.
my elder brother married a woman and settled in singapore. he dont want to return home or help family. my elder sister married and settled but not contribute to my family.
now im staying with my mother 50 years old and my younger sister studying in nearby school.
im working in a nearby factory. im afford all family expenses, house rental, foods, electricity, water bill, sister school fare and a lot.
actually i supposed to continue my studies after i'd finished my high school. but as my family situation, i'd started to work. but my current job consider a good offer. but unfortunately this company is very unstable.
now i'm wonder a lot how i'm going to afford my family..
and now im love a co-worker. she was a foreign girl. we love each other a lot. she is the one who can share my tears....
and i'd never been happy in my teenage..
everyday a new problem... in my family..
actually i had a plan to work in foreign country to earn more money so that i can afford my family. but unfortunately the chances less.
now i'm very confused...
i dont know how im gonna build up my sister life... take care my mother... buy a house...afford family.. besides my personal life..
how should i build my career....?
what i should plan...?
what i should do....shouldn't do...?
please advise me...
and if you think you can help me... please tell me..
im very confused on my future...

[shaimack]

hi,
I'm really touched by your story and I really appreciate your courage. Life is really very beautiful and mean as well. Sometimes there is so much suffering that we feel miserable. But I'm sure that you must have felt very peaceful once you were successful in doing something for your Mom and sister and overcomed an obstacle. Try to attend part - time classes while working and continue your studies. That's very important. Try to analyse what you are good at, where you would like to see yourself and pick up a course which has a lot of scope. I'm sure that you love your girl friend, however make sure it's going to be a long lasting relationship, because its very easy to fall for affection during difficult times.I wish you all the best, keep your patience and courage and be honest. Hard work is always rewarded if not now, later.Please never lose hope. In case you want to talk to me, you can always mail me. your well wisher.

[Ajmalhuuss]

First of all, I don't think I can stress enough how proud you should be of yourself for having pushed asided your happiness for that of your families. You have done wonderful things for your family and I am sure they appreciate you very much.

For your sitution the best thing you can do is think positive. Just think about your strengths and where you accell. Look at the cheers where your attributes might be of greater assistance. Like Preeti suggested, look into going to school part-time; maybe a class or two a week. I am not sure if they have trade schools in malayisa, but if they do then look into one. As far as your girl friend is concerned, its a great thing to have. Love can help you get through almost anything but make sure you arent just attracted to her due to your current sitution. It is very easy to be affectionate towards someone when you are having troubles in your life.
Don't give up, I am sure you can work things out for the best. Good luck to you.

[*Uronacid*]

You are incredible, and you are a great example to follow for many of the selfish and depressed people on this website. You are selfless and put the needs of others above your own. I don't know enough about your country... I wish I did... I would give you the best adivce that I could... I will help you the best I can if you ask more specific questions... I encourage you to keep pressing on... YOU ARE INCREDIBLE

*prays for you*

[poopieman]

And you have money to pay for the internet?

Seriously. I'm not trying to be an a-hole here. But let's get realistic here. If you are living under those harsh conditions, like you've stated, what are you doing on CREATEBLOG? Do you have a Xanga? Blogger? Myspace?

I just can't find your post credible enough.

Perhaps you can take a picture of the family, the factory, with you in it.

[*Uronacid*]

^jeez, your an a-hole for sayin that....

[demolished]

And you have money to pay for the internet?

Seriously. I'm not trying to be an a-hole here. But let's get realistic here. If you are living under those harsh conditions, like you've stated, what are you doing on CREATEBLOG? Do you have a Xanga? Blogger? Myspace?

I just can't find your post credible enough.

Perhaps you can take a picture of the family, the factory, with you in it.

It is very possible to have internet at workplace, everywhere, and ... pretty much anywhere.


You ruined it.

[poopieman]

It is very possible to have internet at workplace, everywhere, and ... pretty much anywhere.
You ruined it.

What the hell is he doing on createBlog?

[*This Confession*]

^because he wants to be on here and hes searching for help
so if you have nothing to say to help him
then why bother posting at all?

[poopieman]

Haha. I'm sure there are other places he could find "better" help.
So I presume he searched on Google "I need help with life!!" and createBlog was the primary search result?

[oneandonlytammie]

I'm with poopieman (teehee poopie) on this one. Something's just not right about it. And look at the name "single drop in da ocean". I don't have much else to say about it than that it doesn't seem very...accurate for someone who's in desperate need of help.

But, if this is real: You should find help in maybe your coworker or your boss. Maybe they know who you can go to.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

FIRST OF ALL you can find the internet on any place if you dont have any at home..and second of all maybe he is on createblog because he wants to talk to other people his age..and find a way that he can get help..ANYWAYZ i think you should really finish your studies..you are really taking on more responsiblity than you should on such and early age. i know that when you dont have the money its hard to go to skool and work for a living for your family. are you the only one working? and to tell you the truth i kinda agree that you should really be talkin to other organizations in your country to help you and your family. good luck and you are very courageous =)

[*This Confession*]

I'm going to see if someone will close his topics.
He does seem kind of iffy about his own age and stuff 0_O

Haha. I'm sure there are other places he could find "better" help.
So I presume he searched on Google "I need help with life!!" and createBlog was the primary search result?

Then how did you find us?

Put in ..

blah nevermind.

[poopieman]

FIRST OF ALL you can find the internet on any place if you dont have any at home..and second of all maybe he is on createblog because he wants to talk to other people his age..and find a way that he can get help..ANYWAYZ i think you should really finish your studies..you are really taking on more responsiblity than you should on such and early age. i know that when you dont have the money its hard to go to skool and work for a living for your family. are you the only one working? and to tell you the truth i kinda agree that you should really be talkin to other organizations in your country to help you and your family. good luck and you are very courageous =)

OMG ARE YOU LYING?!?!? i got this quote from a previous topic by the SAME person "SINGLEDROP IN DA OCEAN" how can in one topic you say that you are 19 and in this topic you say that you are 23? dude this is not the place for liars and be serious and tell the truth that is really dumb if you have to go saying in one place your some age and the next your some other age....

One word: booyah.

[suret]

thanks for all of you for your advice..
and i think i need to explain more about me..
well.. i just sign in to creatblog last two day.. since i found many people log in to this web..
and about me..
i'm 19 years old. but i dont know i look very matured and i think so.
im working as an production executive.. i have 150 worker who working under my instruction. my boss never care about my age. he only care my management. sometime i got think why i work in this high post , while my other 'last' friends still enjoying and studying.. this factory doing electric connectors for a japan factory. i'd learnt a very relevant experience in printed circuit connectors, smc connectors, nylon connectors making and marketing. sometime i negiotiate with japan customer at koriyama factory. actually i'd joined this company as a QC on 17.05.2005. then, i got increment to asst. executive in production division. i'm directly reporting to managing director on this company productivity. but recently this company has some share holder problems. i also have relevant experience in precision injection moulding for parts making. and production planning for more than 900 model connectors in 5 section. besides, i'd attended major meetings with international managers. because this electric company has agent all over the world.
i think i'm always lonely. i has a very intermediate look. after i'd finished my work i'll go bed.. (my worktime is 8am to 10pm). this is my routine. but now a little change. i'd go for dating at 8pm. so i'll finish my job at 8pm.
and please dont misunderstand. i dont seek anything from all of you.
i dont know where to share my problems.
and i'd searched for active forum posting. i found this. that's all. i dont have any other such as one person mentioned, 'zanga', 'myspace'.. or whatever..
i'am not diasabled to seek help at any organization. my coworkers donno about me. even we'd just moved to this city last year.
and one more this is my girlfriend is 25 years old.
actually dont threat me as a boy. i dont know you all from where and what your people doing at 19 years old. but here different. i'd learnt a lot about managing family, career enviroment, negiotiation, people thoughts community and else..
im not seeking sympaty pls.
thanks for yours comments..

[poopieman]

^

Stfu.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^You shut the f**k up. If you're not going to contribute to this thread then go leave.

I know I'm late but...

I admire you and would be happy to have you replace my brother ANY day. My parents were in this situation when we moved in the US. What they did was take 2 day jobs and 2 night jobs. They were sleepless for a month, but we were prosper after 2 months. All the hard work paid off. Basically, if your job isn't offering you the money you need to afford your family, you have to either to resign and get another job, or take 2 jobs at the same time. You may also want to seek help from nearby family and real close friends who can offer financial advice. Lastly, keep working hard. The harder you work the faster it is to achieve your goal. But after reading your post, I guess you already knew that.

[poopieman]

^

What? You're gay?

[Ajmalhuuss]

Why are you being so immature, poopieman? What gives you the right to claim that this man does not have a genuin enough problem that we should care about? If you have nothing to say, thats relative to this topic then please dont post in the topic. If you don't care about his problems then don't think about them and don't tell him to shut the f**k up.

Ignorant a** Moth** F**ker.

[doom_diver]

Well, if you are looking for help here, then you are wasting your time. All we can give you is words of console and make you feel better, but in the end of the day, you have to solve your own problems.

By saying that, I dont mean anything negative. You obviously sounds very strong, being able to withstand all this pressure.

Just remember this: The present will become the past. (If you get what I mean. Or simply, all your pain and sorrow will become the past)

Poopieman: Common leave that guy alone. When you are relaxing in front of the comp he is working his a$$ off. Insolence get you nowhere. Trust my word for that

[demolished]

hm.

i feel like ... your family is just sucking up your money?

[shaimack]

more than before, I admire you and your courage. You seem to be very qualified. You will be able to get it anywhere which requires technical work. As far as your marriage is concerned, please consult the registrar or some such authority who will brief you on all the rules. All the best.

[Emma Sue]

Poopieman u r soooooooooooooooo inmature!

I feel sorry for you . U have no empathy for other people..

U'd better shut up and stop posting as you are not helping him at all.



Single drop in the ocean: I don't know what to tell you.. Just that you are brave