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 Jun 21 2006, 02:40 AM
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aholic_sb  Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525  |
Me and her was a good friend for about a year, and i liked her since few months ago after we went out, someone made a rumour about me and her and she was really angry and she blocked me in msn. now finally she unblocked me in msn, but i really want to talk to her on msn again but i am scared and i dont know how can we be friends again... and like yesterday her bestfriend went up to me and said that she actually likes me (not sure if its true or not..)
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Jun 21 2006, 04:17 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
the thing is ... dont take shit from anyone. YOU dont know who's right or wrong. on the other hand, it's not THEIR BUSINESS. they shouldnt be in your pants.
you need to talk to her FACE TO FACE. TELL HER THAT THE RUMOR IS NOT TRUE. YOU DIDNT SAY SHIT. AND TELL HER THAT UR NOT THE KIND OF A JACKASS PERSON who would simply screwed the friendship. |
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Jun 21 2006, 06:53 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
but shouldnt i start talkin with her in msn again? but i dunno know how to start a convo. to ask can we be friends again...
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Jun 21 2006, 08:10 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 246 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 420,832 |
Just say hi and tell her that it wasnt you who started that crap rummor. Let her know that you want to be friends with her again.
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Jun 21 2006, 08:28 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
The major thing here is, don't talk to her on msn. Talk to her on the phone or face to face. Just tell her that you have some stuff to clear up with her.
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Jun 21 2006, 08:46 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
if i said it to her face to face... her bestfriend would know because her bestfriend is always standing near her.
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Jun 21 2006, 10:18 AM
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 Like a record, baby Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,415 |
ok here's the deal. Tell her best friend to leave for like 2 minutes. I'm sure they can be apart for that long. You need to look at her and have her looking back at you and tell her that you don't make shit up and start rumors. you need to make her believe you. Then friend comes back, you and girl are friends again, you hang out, you're happy you go out, you get married or whatever. If that doesn't happen...your LAST RESORT should be MSN.
And you all will live happily ever after....the end <3Julia |
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Jun 21 2006, 11:47 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Talk to her normally on msn.Say hey watchu doin`? or something.Start a convo and then later ask if she likes you and tell her you want to see if its true.
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Jun 21 2006, 01:27 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
She unblocked you for a reason ? So that you can try talking to her. That's what I think. Or at least I know when I've done that it was with the intentions of talking to that person again.
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 21 2006, 05:29 PM
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DUM DEE DUM... TALK ABOUT IT WITH HER YOU MORON!!! FACE YOUR FEARS!!!! I'm sorry, I'm just getting so sick and tired of telling people this... "TALK ABOUT IT"... the most common answer in the relationship forums...
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Jun 21 2006, 07:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
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bitch, everyone is different. Be tolerance and have compassion. Please be more supportive. this forum isnt for you to bitch at people with problems. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 21 2006, 07:14 PM
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ugh... sorry :P
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Jun 21 2006, 07:17 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Communication. That's all I have to say.
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 21 2006, 07:19 PM
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well i agree with uronacid.
Everyone asks close to the same suitations and then they make their own topic and they get the same exact answer as in other topics. Jeez, just talk to her. Communication is what everything needs more than likely |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 21 2006, 07:27 PM
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yeah, im really not sorry... i just said it so you guys wouldn't hate me... but really, just talk... also, there is a difference between tolarance and compassion... tolorance is bad, but compassion is good. I'll explain it if you like... :)
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Jun 21 2006, 10:05 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(This Confession @ Jun 21 2006, 7:19 PM)  well i agree with uronacid. Everyone asks close to the same suitations and then they make their own topic and they get the same exact answer as in other topics. Jeez, just talk to her. Communication is what everything needs more than likely i agree with This Confession all you have to do is COMMMUUUNNNIIICATEEE.. if you dont say anything nothing will be solved and its better to talk to person than on MSN that jus shows you dont care enough to talk to her face to face. please read other topics because not shockingly they are very very similair. GOOD LUCK! |
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Jun 22 2006, 12:03 AM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jun 21 2006, 5:27 PM) yeah, im really not sorry... i just said it so you guys wouldn't hate me... but really, just talk... also, there is a difference between tolarance and compassion... tolorance is bad, but compassion is good. I'll explain it if you like... :) clarify, please. what i mean by "tolerance, if you dont like something, respect it. no need to go "woohoo" and shove an negative attitude. so, whynot be a ... little patient? ever read a book called, to kill a mockingbird? a great example would be a little girl, Scout. |
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 22 2006, 12:28 AM
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QUOTE ever read a book called, to kill a mockingbird? a great example would be a little girl, Scout. I hated that book, so much. I wanted to take a gun and shoot the person that was reading it out loud. He was just proving a point that everyone is asking the same suitations pretty much and hes getting sick of it, along wtih plenty of others aprently. If you did read it correctly he did say sorry after saying "DUM DEE DUM... TALK ABOUT IT WITH HER YOU MORON!!! FACE YOUR FEARS" |
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Jun 22 2006, 06:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
i dont love that book or hate it.
I already read it correctly. |
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Jun 23 2006, 02:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 383,133 |
i'd talk to her AND her best friend if neccessary. the point is it was all a screwed up misunderstanding. - - and you've got to figure out whats more important - - your friendship with your girl - - or the fear you have of things getting messier. the truth will find its way out one way or another. you just fight for whats right. hope i helped!! :)
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